To build excitement and sexual attachment with a man without touching him means that you need to use words to trigger his imagination.
Hence, what type of words you should use to help him visualize the text depends on your relationship.
Thus, building sexual tension over text is based on expressing openly your desires and expectations.
So, texts to turn him on should contain subtle, approachable, flirtatious, and humorous language.
That’s why dear reader below you will find 90 things that you can text to turn him on:
1. Funny and flirtatious texts
To build up sexual tension with a guy that you’re just talking to or started dating, humor and being flirty is the key.
At this stage is important to build emotional and sexual connections simultaneously.
In this case, you should incorporate what type of information he might find funny.
1. “I better be honest with you, it’s in my genes to get under the table and be smoking hot with you.”
2. “If you have a bed, a nice view, champagne, and me..what do you do?”
3. “Hey love, I kissed, ugh I wish, I mean I missed youuuuu.”
4. “Want to try if I am a good whisperer?”
5. “My dream is not to be pretty or successful. My dream is to kiss your face gently, I said gently, hey.”
6. “My mouth needs a very good snack. No, it’s not a burger or Snickers. It’s you.”
7. “I woke up wet this morning, not because I saw a bad dream but no. I was having a hot dream with you.”
8. “Are you a genie? I think I am gonna rub you and maybe you can fulfill my three wishes.”
9. “Do you know when you’re not being this cutie pie, you are being HOT AS F*CK”
10. “Nowadays, I was wondering if d*ck is hardddddd, to find.”
2. Hot and dirty texts
Being naughty over text turns him on because he feels challenged and wants to experience it with you.
Especially, if you are already dating or already in a relationship, sexy and dirty texts will help you to spice things up.
11. I was wondering if a blowjob is what you need at this moment
12. “I can feel the rush coming between my legs just thinking of you.”
13. If your hands are cold right now then put them in my pants
14. “Instead of chewing strawberry gum right now, I find it more satisfying to taste your tongue.”
15. “I will not waste this lotion, so wanna bring your body so we can cooperate?”
17. “It’s so hot in here, wanna come here to cool me down a bit?”
18. “Will you be my dentist tonight, and give me an oral checkup?”
19. “I am coming… inside of you.”
20. “I wanna skinny deep with you right now. There, I said it.”
Emojis are quite helpful when you’re new to sexting and you don’t want to come as too hard or naive.
Still, when using emojis to talk dirty, try to understand and know his texting pattern too.
If he doesn’t use emojis and isn’t keen on texting then he might get the right message.
To explore your flirty skills, you might do it more accurately with the help of a relationship coach.
3. Romantic texts to turn him on
One of the texts that will turn him on is the one when you send romantic and innocent innuendos.
Sending these types of text messages when you’re new to this relationship helps you to avoid embarrassing or awkward moments.
When he isn’t ready to sext or talk dirty over text using romantic or innocent hints will make it less sexual and more romantic.
The ambiguity that these words create helps you to deliver the message and arouse him simultaneously.
21. “If you miss my face then come and kiss it.”
22. “I don’t know if you prefer me by your side or on top. Choose what’s best for you.”
23. “When I hear your voice, my heart trembles.”
24. “I would sneak out of work right now just to lay next to you.”
25. “My heart aches right now cuz I want to lock lips with you, and I can’t 😭.”
26. “What did you do today? I just went and surprised myself with some laced black undies.”
27. “My room is quite dark right now. Your green eyes could light up my way to the corridor.”
28. “Today, someone asked me what is love to you. I said my sexy boyfriend on top of me.”
29. “Now that day is shorter, I just want to cuddle in a warm bad with you.”
30. “Your soft cheeks and rose lips are keeping me alive today.”
4. Texts to tease and turn him on
A scientific study has found that teasing is done to flirt and create a bond.
Thus, to turn a man on over text, you should create scarcity to some extent and test his limits.
You can tease him about what he could achieve if he was with you at this moment.
Or show him a snippet of what he could be missing.
31. “I dont have any pretty clothes to wear, should I come naked?”
32. “My hands are so cold right now. What have you done to them? They need to rub something…”
33. “My lips need chapstick right now. Will your lips do the job?
34. “I thought sleeping with you was my biggest workout. But today I lifted a 100 kg sack at my gym.”
35. “I cannot sleep right now. I bet that you could do me to sleep.”
36. “You were part of my wet dreams last night. I bet you wanna make it a reality tonight.”
37. “I cannot wait till your legs crawl on my body.”
38. “Should I call today off so we can cuddle and f*ck?”
39. “I cannot believe what you did last night. Can you do it once again?”
40. “I swear that my back is hurting more from you than from the gym.”
5. Texts to acknowledge him for his actions or for what he is doing
One of the texts to turn him on and deepen your connection is to let him know how his actions impact you.
Indeed, you might think that where is the connection between these two?
Let me tell you, once you put him on a pedestal and start triggering his masculinity that’s what turns him on.
And there is no better way to do it than to text him a few genuine words or compliments.
41. “Too bad that you’re not here to boost my confidence while you tell me that I am a good girl.”
42. “I love the way you speak to me while making love.”
43. “I feel like the only girl in the world when you’re touching me.”
44. “I can feel that you’re a real man when you grind on me.”
45. “Your perfume makes me crazy and horny.”
46. “I still smell like you and that makes me the happiest woman on the planet.”
47. “I am alone in this house, and the thought of you here excites me.”
48. “How you flipped me last night, makes me think that you’re the HULK.”
49. “I loveee it how you do me.”
50. “I aspire to be you when it comes to making love.”
6. Let him know what you’re experiencing right now
When a guy likes you, it’s easier to turn him on over the text because his feelings are already there.
You just need a good selection of words to activate these feelings.
Especially, if you are already in a relationship, show a bit of appreciation and let him know if you’re horny, sad, happy, or need him.
51. “My heart is on fire just when the thought of kissing your cherry lips”
52. “My spine is tingling because it is craving an experience with you tonight.”
53. “I was crying right now because I felt emotional about our last experience.”
54. “I just wanted to say that I am feeling a little lost right now. I need your lips to direct me in this life.”
55. “Your love and D inspire me every day. Just so you know.”
56. “I think I am the luckiest girl in this world to taste that face of yours.”
57. “I wanna go home right now and lay next to you, and do STUFF.”
58. “Your presence cures my sexual desires.”
59. “I am going through a tough time. We decided to go on a casual sexual break but man, I am craving you.”
60. “Wanna come over and CHILL.”
7. Reminisce on your past and good sexual experiences with him
One of the texts that will turn him on is the one where you reminisce on good ol’ days when you were nasty together.
To be more specific, especially if you are in a long-term relationship, you need to add a little flame by sexting.
Hence, research done by Dr. Andrew G. Thomas shows that sexual arousing leads you to short-term relationships.
On the contrary, what you need to do is to balance sexual arousing with your pure intentions to form a committed relationship.
Otherwise, if you use only pure intentions without pleasing each other’s sexual desires that would demolish your relationship.
61. “Mmm, I can still taste your lips on mine.”
62. “I think I am still trembling from your soft and masculine touches.”
63. “My bed is all wet because I am thinking of last night.”
64. “I am still laughing hard about how we broke the bed, lol.”
65. “Nothing is making me happier than thinking about you on top of me.“
66. “My neck is still hurting from all of those kisses and sucking.”
67. “The climax should have your and my name after what we have done tonight.”
68. “I think that we both fell from heaven and hell tonight because it hurt and it burned.”
69. “These lingeries are waiting for a second experience with you.”
70. “No one can stop me from licking that neck of yours like an hour before.”
8. Give him a nickname and watch the magic happen
Giving a man a dirty nickname while texting will arouse him and make him create his sexual fantasies.
Furthermore, when you choose a dirty nickname make sure that he understands the meaning behind it.
To choose a proper dirty nickname, try to use your experience with him or any type of inside jokes that you have.
71. “Hey Mr. Big D would you want tonight to experience a hot night?”
72. “Daddy, I need you”
73. “Hey Dirty one, how are you doing today?”
74. “Big Size D, what are your plans for tonight?”
75. “Sugar Lips, Sugar Lips, are you there?”
76. “Mr. Bum Bum do you need a quickie right now?”
77. “Mr. Hot kisser, you better show up at my place tonight. I have a surprise.”
78. “Should I call you PIC (Partner in Crime) or PIS (Partner in Sex)?” You choose.
79. “Stallion, are you ready for an unforgettable experience with me?”
80. “Hey hottie, this bum needs your weenie.”
9. “Create a scenario and invite him to join the play” type of text
In general, a man likes to be challenged and entertained so he could keep his interest in you.
The moment that he doesn’t feel like himself and the spark is gone, a man starts to pull away.
Thus, in my experience, just a simple text when you create a fake scenario and challenge him will impact the future of your relationship.
81. “If I was wearing hot pink undies and looking smoking hot right now, what would you do?”
82. “If we could go skinny deep right now, what would be your first thought?”
83. “Let’s take for example You experience for the first time these cherry lips of mine. How long would the kiss last?”
84. “If you would kidnap me right now, what would your wishes and desires be?”
85. “We running together on a lost island, what would we do there?”
86. “I bet that we could last 30 seconds on a plane. What do you think?”
87. “If you would have a sex experience with a celebrity, who would it be?”
88. “Hot tub, my room, your garden? Where would it be comfier to put your body in mine?”
89. “We drink champagne, eat pizza, or kiss for two hours straight? Define happiness.”
90. “Would you rather put lotion on me all night or watch me stip to you?”
It doesn’t mean that you always have to send a dirty or freaky text to turn him on.
What you need is a subtle word that will trigger his imagination, and make him feel good and powerful.
A few extra tips while you craft these text messages to turn him on!
I know that when you come to this part of the article, all of the texts above seem to be accurate for your situation.
Hence, keep in mind, that you need to adjust a text message so that you don’t sound clingy or weird while stating your sexual desires.
~The first thing that you should do is define why you are sexting him and who he is to you.
If he is your husband or boyfriend, I assume that you’re sexting to keep the relationship going and avoid making it all stale.
Thus, in this case, you can choose words that are more sexual and craft a dirty or freaky text.
Because your husband or boyfriend will understand your world by now and you will use more of your mutual experience to turn him on.
On the other hand, if you are sexting a random guy or someone you just had a first date with, try to be softer.
Use compliments or flirty words that will tease and flatter him at the same time.
What to text a guy to turn him on? Can I do it?
Well, to turn a guy on over text, you need to use suggestive language, and emojis and respect his boundaries.
The main thing to do is to not put pressure on him so you can arouse him.
On the contrary, if you constantly use dirty texts to turn him on, you might push him away.
A few things that you can text to turn him on, is to share your fantasies that he might find appropriate and enjoyable.
Give him also time and space to enjoy the text and share his own fantasies too.
I understand that you want to turn him on over text but please understand that this isn’t a linear process.
Take it one step at a time.
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