After a disagreement with your boyfriend, Were you rude, unfair, or overly defensive, did you shout, or say words you should regret?
At this point, it’s good to take a step back and reflect on the situation. Consider what specifically you feel remorseful for beyond the fact that an argument occurred and you stopped talking together.
Remember! It’s always better to meet personally, but if that is not possible for the time being then follow these steps on what to text your boyfriend after you went crazy on him.
1. Saying “I’m Sorry” With Sincerity
Apologizing is no rocket science so here’s a text you can use to sound like you mean it:
“ I’m sorry. Now I know that I could have done things differently instead of making a bad decision. I regret that I acted the way I did and take full responsibility for my actions.”
This sums up what a heartfelt apology should sound like, sincere and honest!
2. You can’t turn back time, but you can apologize
“I would like to go back in time and change everything, but I know I can’t. I’m sorry for what I did to hurt you again and I’m trying my best to earn your forgiveness.”
This one is sure to make him reconsider your apology, even though you hurt him so much.
3. Please believe me!
Statistics say that over 6 billion texts are sent every day, and one of them for sure has to be yours, with an earning for forgiveness…
“I can’t say I’d be able to forgive you if I were in your shoes, and if I did, I know it would take time. But I sincerely hope you believe that I’m truly sorry. I don’t expect you to forgive or trust me right away, but I hope we can work towards reconciliation. Maybe in the future, I can show you that I’m committed to regaining your trust.”
4. Be a responsible ✨ Queen ✨
“I love you so much, but I let my anger get the better of me when I shouldn’t have. I am very sorry for what happened. I will work on my anger issues so it doesn’t happen again”
A responsible queen leads with grace and humility, acknowledging and learning from her mistakes. So, Go Girl!
5. I Swear, It Will Never Happen Again
Along these lines, you can also text him this:
“I understand I did not show you the respect or consideration you deserve and should have behaved differently. I ended up hurting you without thinking, but I see where I went wrong now. I’m sorry and it won’t happen again.”
6. Show Empathy!
“I know I hurt your feelings yesterday when I felt impetuous. You were just trying your best and I shouldn’t have overreacted. I was wrong to treat you this way and I apologize”
No better apology text than this one, it shows that you care and you will cheer him up in no time!
7. Promise Him You’ll Change
Promises sometimes feel dry and not “so promising”, but if you express with all your being, its energy might teleport through the virtual world and straight to his heart!
“I promise to work on changing my inner anger, addressing my ego, and admitting my faults and shortcomings. But if I ever slip up again, please call me out on it. I’m committed to doing better for you because you mean the world to me”
8. When Only ‘I’m Sorry’ Isn’t Enough
“Simply saying ‘I’m sorry’ doesn’t feel like it’s enough. I want to make it up to you. Is there anything I can do to make things right?”
“Proposing a concrete action can make your plea more compelling. If the lucky charm is on your side, he’ll respond within the next hour or two.
9. Please Come Back, I Will Work On It!
“Now that I’ve taken my time to think about last night, I realize I crossed the line. What I did was terrible, you have every right to be hurt and offended. I am very sorry. ‘I’m going to work on my behavior so you don’t get attacked like that again.’”
There is no better way to tell him that you are sorry and want to make things right than this message, don’t think twice send that text immediately.
10. Say Good Words, But don’t Patronize Him
I’m aware I did wrong to you, you are the only person who understands me. You are always so good to me, you don’t deserve all the mean words I said to you. I’m particularly angry at myself right now and the fact that I made you feel bad. You are the kindest soul I have ever met and I don’t want to spoil what we have.
By putting his good traits in the spotlight your message gets more meaningful. Try to make him feel that he is indeed special and you don’t want to lose him.
11. PS. Love You!
I don’t know if you still feel the same or not if you still love me or not. But one thing is for sure I didn’t mean all that stuff I poured on you. You were there for me in my most difficult time and you deserve better. If you see this message, please call, let’s talk it through in person. Love you! ❤️
Sometimes texts have to feel like real love letters. If this is what you looking for copy-paste this and send it to him now.
12. I Will Do ⭐Therapy ⭐ For You
“I’m deeply sorry for lashing out. It was wrong of me to unload my frustrations on you. I promise to seek professional help to better manage my emotions. I want to treat you with the love, respect, and equality you deserve”
Research has shown that Therapy has significant effective results in solving and preventing relationship issues. It takes a lot of courage to make this step, but we do everything for the people we love and love us in return.
Note: Make sure he is also willing to do therapy so you both contribute to the relationship!
13. Out with the Old – In With the NEW 🆕
If you want to express that you are going to be a better person, a different person, A New person in his life, then send him this text below:
“I can’t find the words to express how sorry I am for what happened. I feel awful for talking about you and letting you down, and I genuinely want to make it right. You mean so much to me, and I want to prove it. What can I do to make things okay between us again?”
14. Apologizing Without Losing Your Voice: Make Your Point After Reacting Badly 🔊
“I don’t want to add to the tension between us, but I need to address an important point that didn’t sit well with me during our disagreement”
Note: Don’t forget to describe the point and explain why it’s significant to the relationship.
15. Vindicated – Without the Drama 😎
“Once I calmed down, I thought about what happened and now I realize that I overreacted. I’m sorry for snapping at you and I’ll work on fixing my emotions and communicating better with you in the future. I don’t want to overload you with text messages so let me know if there is anything I can do about it”
For a moment, you felt vindicated. But then, when you calmed down a bit, you gave the situation some air and started to realize that you might have overreacted a bit and tried not to be all clingy but give him the space he needed.
16. I Know You Are Mad At Me, But Let’s Meet
“I hate the fact that we fought, and the fact that you are mad at me. Can we arrange a time to meet and talk things over? I want to understand how I can make up for whatever hurt you. Our relationship truly matters to me.
This is one of those moments where you feel like you are channeling your inner Kat Stratford from 10 Things I Hate About You—except, only the ending of the list is filled with deep feelings and a strong desire to mend things.
I bet he sees you long-term and doesn’t want to lose you over stupid fights
17. Wisdom Lies In Mindful Speech 🧘
“Although I thought I had the best intentions in mind, I should not have used such hurtful language. I am very sorry for talking to you like this and I will think more carefully about how I express things in the future.”
“When it comes to words, there’s an old saying that they can pierce harder than any sword. So be careful with what you say the next time.
18. Let’s go out for some food 🥙
“I can’t believe I called you selfish and inconsiderate earlier. Those words don’t reflect who you are, and I regret saying them. If you’re up for it, give me a call when you’re ready, and let’s go out for some food—my treat!
This is not bribery, this is called; ‘making things right with food’
19. A Million Times Sorry!
“You have every right to be frustrated and upset. What I did was hurtful and I’m sorry. I’m so…sorry”
This much beseeching will touch his heartstrings – hopefully will turn things around for two as well. Otherwise, you will be left wondering why he hasn’t texted me back.
20. Resolving Conflicts = Insight
Ann Papayoti, a relationship and wellness coach, in one of her coaching sessions, said; “Resolving conflicts starts with insight. When we grasp the underlying causes, we set the stage for meaningful solutions and healing.
Alternatively, he will be pulled away especially if you are in the early stages of the relationship.
So, grab your phone now, and write to him as thus:
I’ve been reflecting on our recent conflict, and I realize that understanding the deeper issues is key to resolving them. I want us to address the root causes and work towards meaningful solutions together. Can we talk about this when you’re ready? I believe this will help us both heal and strengthen our connection”
Making the effort to write to him and apologize takes a lot of guts, heart, and a lowering pride to do. Good job! You are officially crowned as the “Bigger Person” in the relationship.
One is the loneliest number they say so is always better when one becomes two.
May you always be tow-gether, and if you ever need any texting tips not only for fights but also for fun you can come and visit me anew!
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