A text to make him think about you, shouldn’t be only explicit or push him to feel or think something that he isn’t feeling.
It can be a simple appreciation, a compliment, or an old memory that will evoke positive feelings and validate his feelings.
Remember, that his heart and feelings cannot be manipulated or changed.
Everyone feels and thinks differently. So, you need to craft a text that triggers him to miss your positive impact.
Thus, this article will provide you with the needed texts to make him think about you and how to use them:
*Disclaimer: These texts are romantic, funny, flirty, and heartfelt.
Furthermore, via text messages, you can make him curious, loved, appreciated, and connected with you.
Here are 60 unique and practical texts to make him think about you:
1. “Are you one of the best and kindest people on this planet? Yup, you are💅.”
2.” I have a special treat for you later on today.”
3. “You’re my go-to person.”
4. “No one has made me feel the way you do.”
5. “You’re the only one that I like spending time with.”
6. “I’m just thinking about you.”
7. “I can still smell your scent on my clothes.”
8. “Good morning. I wish you were here with me right now.”
9. “Why would you always be a part of my dreams? Gosh, I was kissing you hard.”
10. “Virtual and emoji kisses don’t count. Prepare yourself for a longggg one when we meet.”
11. “I wanted to start working out but I’m waiting to do it with you😉.”
12. “My lips, your lips, apocalypse. Happening at 8 pm, my house.”
13. “I keep reminiscing about the hot night that we had.”
14. “My body is trembling from excitement
15. “If anyone could ask me to describe the PERFECTION, I would describe YOU.”
16. “You’re my man, the meaning of my life.”
17. “Your schedule is fully booked. I’m part of your plans tonight.”
18. “You make me feel some type of way.”
19. “I thought my lips needed a fix. Not lipstick for sure. They need a pair of other lips. YOURS.”
20. “I just love you♥️.”
21. “I just came across photos from the Bahamas vacation. Wanna try it again?”
22. “Reading your text message right now, I’m smiling like a fool.”
23. “Do you remember when we went into the woods and we got lost? Today I’m lost with you😁.”
24. “I was thinking that maybe tonight we could go for a quickie.”
25. “Just wanted to check, how you’ve been today.”
26. “I don’t know if someone said this to you, but thank you for existing.”
27. “If I was right now by your side, how would you feel?”
28. “Just wanted to let you know that I made a playlist for you on Spotify.”
29. “If there is anything that I can do about you. Just know that I’m here.”
30. “Thinking about the good times we had together. I can’t wait to experience it once again together.”
31. “I’m sending you a virtual smooch cuz’ I miss you tremendously.”
32. “I have a big surprise for you but I’m not going to spoil it. You should wait or guess.”
33. “Thinking about you is my daily remedy.”
34. “You always know how to cheer me up.”
35. “If we meet today, I have something special for you😁.”
36. “Hey (insert his name), do you remember when we went Skinny Deeping in Lake Como? I still can’t believe you convinced me to do it.”
37. “I can’t wait to see you once again and take your breathe away.”
38. “Just wanted to let you know that I love the way you look at me.”
39. “YOU ARE MY ROCK.”
40. “Your kind heart drives me crazy.”
41. “I’m super excited to create memories with you.”
42. “I love the way you hold my hand.”
43. “No one makes me feel safer than you.”
44. “Do you believe in fate? I’m going to tell you later why I asked you this😅.”
45. “Hmmm, what do you think I’m thinking right now?”
46. “Interpret this { 🥵+👅+🍆}”
47. “Have you ever wondered if there is just one thing in this world that makes YOU happy?”
48. “I’m already thinking about things that we could do together.”
49. “You+Me, Dark Room, Candles, Drinks…. deal?”
50. “I guess you don’t have plans later this day. Your afternoon is already booked with me.”
51. “I was going to paint this room blue, your favorite color. What do you think?”
52. “Last night I dreamt about you. Want to tell about it?”
53. “I bought you Hershey Kisses.”
54. “8 pm, at my place, I HAVE A SUPRISE.”
55. “Call me later, I have something to tell you.”
56. “You’re charming, funny, amazing. Glad you’re mine.”
57. “I love the fact that I can always count on you.”
58. “What would you like to eat tonight? I’m in a romantic mood today.”
59. “Guess what we’re going to do tonight. It includes our favorite activities🤭.”
60. “Your voice soothes me. Can I call you later?”
Tool Kit: How to use these text messages to make him think about you!
Before choosing which text to send to make him think about you through text, reflect on his relationship with you.
If you’re dating or already in a relationship then you can try using some spicy text messages that will make him think about you all day.
On the other hand, if you are building attraction with him and just talking, you can use more subtle and innocent texts to trigger his feelings.
1. If you are in a talking stage and one of the texts to use to make him think about you is to be innocent and mysterious.
What will make him think of you during the talking stage is to use compliments.
To be more specific, compliments will help you to break the ice, respect his boundaries, and flirt with him.
You can text something subtle like: “I just cannot forget the color of your eyes.” or “Your smile is remarkable.”
2. If you’re just dating.
If you’re just dating then it’s a bit easier to use texts to make him think of you because you know more about him.
You can use more spicy compliments and talk dirty if he’s comfortable with it.
On the other hand, If you’re not dating exclusively then there is nothing wrong if you use flirt and use deep questions too.
Asking thoughtful questions will help you to show your personality and learn more about him.
This will make him comfortable and it will impact him for the rest of the day if he’s interested in you.
For example, “What makes you the happiest person on this earth?”
“Have you ever thought that you would never find love?”
3. If you’re in a relationship or he’s your partner.
To make a guy think about you when you’re in a long-term relationship, you need to break the casual pattern.
You need to surprise him and text him things that he’s not expecting.
Even the psychotherapist Esther Perel advises you to work more on erotic intelligence when you’re part of a long-term relationship.
So, by learning about intimacy and embracing its crisis, one can understand its meaning of it.
To learn more about this, you can go through Esther Perel’s book Mating in Captivity.
Learning to use intimacy in texting will make your partner remember why he fell in love with you.
What to say to make him think about you all day?
It’s important to know that there is no single right answer to this question.
If you want to find out what type of words, texts, or activities make him think about you all day, start by reflecting on his personality and attachment style.
Not every man has the same way of feeling, expressing his feelings, or being impacted.
1. So, the first step that you should take is to get to know him better.
Ask anything that interests you about him but without crossing his boundaries.
Start by asking what he likes to do or eat. Then you can use these facts to reflect on your preferences too.
Therefore, you start to create a bond from the scratch.
(The first step is done when you show interest in him and he starts to show the same interest in you.)
2. You might share some information that will make him happy or make him laugh.
The main aim is to impact him positively and make him feel good, so he can continue to think about you for the rest of the day.. Or life!
You can text him something like: “Do you remember when I fell from the table at Kendall’s birthday party and you were there to catch me😅?”
What to avoid when you text him to think about you?
The first mistake that you should avoid when you want to text him to think about you is to be too pushy.
If you constantly text him and somehow want to tell him to think about you that won’t work.
That will only push him away and he will slowly change his approach to you.
Men and women, in general, don’t like to be told what to do.
1. So, when you craft or choose a text to use to show appreciation and give him space to process that text.
If you text him: Tonight I have a surprise for you. Love you.”
If he doesn’t reply to you immediately or replies shortly, don’t use the passive-aggressive way to approach him once again.
~Based on my experience, I used to react very badly when my partner didn’t show that he was thinking about me.
I tried everything but I wasn’t doing one thing: trying to understand how he feels and verbalize these feelings.
I learned it the hard way after we went through ups and downs.
To avoid it, I suggest you read the book “The book of Human Emotions” by Tiffany Watt Smith, so you can get a grip on this situation easily.
2. Avoid giving false promises.
If you give false promises just for the sake of being on his mind then this will create a ton of issues in your relationship with him.
The first thing that will appear is the lack of trust. He won’t trust you anymore if you keep making promises and not keeping them.
On the other hand, he might think that you’re not interested in him genuinely and that you are just stringing along.
So, if you want to write him a promise then try to keep it. Even a small gesture, like organizing a small picnic for him in the park, will make him happy.
If you keep doing this to impress him and can’t control your emotions, you may start to talk with a relationship coach.
With their help, you can be more objective and reflect on your emotions, your attachment style, and your actions.
3. You should avoid being too personal or explicit with a guy that you just have started to talk to.
This advice is not appropriate for all cases because some guys don’t mind it, especially the ones that use dating apps.
Yet, you can start being flirty and open up to him to the extent that is okay for you too.
Otherwise, if you constantly try to make him think of you by being explicit and sending nudes, that will impact both of you negatively.
He might use your photos to threaten you or he might feel uncomfortable by those photos.
4. Also, making him feel bad about you by constantly complaining will only push him away.
Doing this will only impact him negatively and change his opinion about you.
Instead of doing it, try to keep the conversation light and neutral until you form some certain bond.
FAQ: How to get attached to him emotionally and spiritually over text?
1. Can you make a person think of you?
Yes, you can. Technically, you can create a special connection with him so you can ignite his feelings.
You cannot make him think of you against his will and put pressure on him.
This means that you need to have genuine intentions and show appreciation and interest in him.
Give him a good impression over text by showing interest in him and respecting his boundaries.
2. How do I make him emotionally attached to me over text?
You can get a guy attached emotionally to you over text by making him feel comfortable and able to open up to you.
That can be achieved by text only if you use smooth and flirty texts, initiate conversations once in a while and tease him to a certain point.
Since you’re doing it, to get emotionally to him, you can’t use your scent or touch.
Here, you should make conversations that have a positive tone.
Set your boundaries, and use any guessing game that will make texting more fun.
The bottom line: Which are the texts to keep him thinking about you?
You can increase the chances of him thinking about you by using simple, thoughtful, and light-hearted texts.
Keeping the conversation neutral and showing appreciation will impact him positively and he’ll look forward to communicating with you once again.
You should use your authenticity too if you want to be outstanding and trigger his feelings.
Being yourself, using a respectful tone, and putting him on a pedestal will make him appreciate you and create a special bond.
Wish you the best,
Callisto Adams
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