The talking stage with this man has shown quite progress. You got to know him and you see the potential of having something more.
The question arises if he thinks the same thing. Are you both ready to start using labels?
If a guy wants you to be his girlfriend, you can tell by his behavior. You can tell he is interested by his body language and how he treats you.
These 15 signs will give you a clear idea that he wants you to be his girlfriend soon:
1. His behavior started changing for the better.
If you had paid attention to how he acts from the beginning, you would have realized his changes towards you.
When a man is interested in you, he changes his behavior and his habits to suit your likes.
If he had any bad habits or vices, like smoking, cursing, or drinking too much, that bothered you, you’ll notice him not doing that again.
At least not in front of you.
He will change to make you feel comfortable and to show how serious he is.
This change of behavior only happens because he is planning to soon change labels and call you his girlfriend.
2. He’s been very caring with you.
His treatment towards you changes as well. Different from the beginning, he starts treating you more softly.
He is more careful around you, and also way sweeter. He tries to protect you at all costs and also wants to give you the best.
He also wants you to see how well he will treat you when you become officially together.
This type of treatment comes only from a guy who wants to make you his girlfriend soon.
3. He no longer hides his quirky side from you.
Everybody has a quirky side that we let free only in front of our most trusted people.
You have realized he started acting funny, cracking jokes, and randomly texting you hilarious stuff.
This all happens because he feels comfortable letting his guard down, and he doesn’t mind showing you the real him.
This only happens because he is interested in making you his girlfriend soon and letting you know how he is.
4. He got rid of all the dating apps and other flings.
When a man feels ready to get serious with you, and knows that he wants you as his girlfriend, he will eliminate all the possibilities that might stand in his way.
If he had any dating sites, he would make sure to delete them. Either doing it in front of you or telling you about it later.
Psychologist Madeleine Mason Roantree explained that it’s important to delete dating apps to show that you’re serious about a person.
He will also cut off contact with any fling or ex he might have been in contact with.
He does this just to make you feel comfortable and secure for the potential relationship.
5. He expresses how much he enjoys your company.
Enjoying each other’s company is the primary reason why you have come this far.
Every relationship flourishes when you appreciate each other’s time.
He will make sure to display his joy and also tell you how much he enjoys spending time with you.
He will also go out of his way to plan more activities, and spend more time together.
This will continue until he asks you to be his girlfriend, (which will happen soon) and will become even better when you get official.
6. He is constantly in touch with you.
He makes sure to stay in touch with you,
- starting the day with a good morning message,
- and always making sure to end it with a sweet goodnight message.
He calls you whenever you are free to talk, and even if he doesn’t call, he will occasionally text you to know you are in his mind.
This is how he warms you to him and wants to make you happy and make you his girl soon.
7. His hugs last longer, and his affection is higher.
You started creating a meaningful connection. You now have a peaceful emotional connection, and the physical one has started to develop as well.
You understand this by seeing how he always holds your hand when you talk, and often goes for a hug. His hugs also last longer every time.
He isn’t scared to compliment you every chance he gets and constantly shows affection toward you.
Psychologists explain how even if a man might not appear needy for physical connection, it makes him feel emotionally complete.
When a man starts to have feelings for you, he undeniably shows more affection and more love. This only helps towards his wish of you becoming his girlfriend.
8. He gets jealous of other men’s presence in your life.
When a man wants you to be his girlfriend, he tends to get a bit jealous. This happens due to fear that he might lose you to someone else.
When he has feelings for you, and those feelings are new, he cannot help but get jealous when he sees you around other men.
This happens due to personal issues like
- Fear of losing you,
- Insecurity,
- Low self-esteem,
- Other personal issues.
Even if he doesn’t react to his jealousy, he can’t deny that he feels it. All because he wants to make you his girlfriend soon.
9. Starts sharing more about himself.
Men generally have a hard time opening up or talking about their feelings.
This is due to toxic social expectations that leads them to fear being judged or undervalued.
If he starts talking with you and sharing personal things, stories, and feelings that he never talked about openly. That means that he trusts you.
He trusts you enough to be vulnerable with you.
He wants you to be aware of everything about him because he plans to make you his girlfriend and have a future with you.
10. He shows all the good qualities of an amazing boyfriend.
When he is pursuing you, you can also see all of his good traits which makes him a great partner.
You know the relationship is going to be amazing when he is always:
- Loyal,
- Loving,
- Committed,
- Kind,
- Honest,
- Trustworthy.
Those are all the traits everyone desires in a partner. And when he shows you this side of him, you know that he wants you to be his girlfriend soon.
11. Commitment is part of his vocabulary when talking to you.
Commitment is a topic of conversation that every couple needs to have at the beginning of a relationship.
Some men fear commitment and, therefore, avoid talking about it.
Different from most, he is the one who opens to the topic of commitment. He talks about plans, expectations, and ideas.
He doesn’t fear talking to you about what you want in a relationship and how to get it.
He openly talks about commitment, because he wants you to be his girlfriend, and commit to you.
12. He asks for advice, opinions, and help for any important decision he has to make.
He wants to make you his girlfriend soon, that’s why he always finds his way to you to ask you for your opinion. He consciously or subconsciously sees you in his life longer than just a fling.
He values your opinion and considers your judgment, which allows him to easily come to you for help.
He trusts you for advice and important decisions. And he appreciates your wits. At the end of the day, what attracts a man most is your intelligence.
13. Your interests are starting to align.
You noticed lately that he started liking the same things you like. And he wants to pick up one of your hobbies to do together.
He is doing so to build a deeper connection together. And you find yourself being interested in his hobbies as well.
This is a big plus because you get to do the things that you love, with your romantic interest. Not only will this help you connect, but will also help you create memorable memories together.
I’ve talked to couples who still talk about the memories they made, days (or weeks) before they became exclusive.
This is a great sign that you will soon become his girlfriend.
14. He always buys you gifts and doesn’t mind spending on/for you.
When a man is interested in you, he will invest in you. You will see him investing his time and effort, but also financially.
He randomly buys you gifts with high significance. He makes sure to put a thought into those gifts, because he knows that they will remind you of him every time you see them.
He also takes you on dates to different places. He always remembers when you talk about a new place you want to visit, so he can take you there.
He doesn’t mind spending for you and spoils you because he wants to make you his girlfriend soon.
15. Everyone in his life knows about you, or you have met them already.
When a man meets you with his friends it often means that he is quite serious about you.
You know the group he always hangs out with, and they know a lot about you because when a man has a crush on you, he cannot help but tell his friends about it.
His family also are aware of your relationship, and he often talks about meeting you with them.
When a man wants to meet each other’s family, you already know the relationship is getting serious fast, and he wants you as his girlfriend.
Pay attention to how he acts around you, how he treats you, and how open he is for connection.
Remember, a man’s feelings are hidden in his behavior.
Love,
Callisto.
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