Wanna tell your partner how much you love them? Then, how about we skip the generic, fake movie lines, and get into something real and original?
Love messages within a relationship can often get over the top and become a bit, well, cheesy: the off-putting type.
The times when “My love for you is so big I can climb the clouds and rainbows.” did the work are long gone, dear reader.
By sending such messages, you not only risk turning your partner off, but you also risk having them second guess the realness of your words.
Seriously, we need a reset on the list of love messages!
It’s time to get back on Earth, stop climbing rainbows, and show real love to our partners.
Whether you’re looking for romantic love messages for him or for her, don’t you worry, because I’ve got you covered! For realizes!
Here are 80 super real & romantic messages for your partner:
Touching love messages for him and for her: Let’s get sensitive
1. You’re my light, my joy, my everything.
2. And just like that, so easily, you’ve changed my life forever.
3. I miss looking at you while you’re sleeping on my shoulders. I’m in desperate need of that view to keep me sane.
4. I’ve stolen a treasure, I’ve stolen your pure heart.
5. Tell me, when is my day going to brighten up by your sight today?
6. I genuinely don’t care what we do tonight. As long as I get to see you, I’m fine with everything. Yes, even your neighbor’s loud snoring. [or something else that you find unpleasant]
7. I heard “Loving You” by Minnie Riperton today, I couldn’t help but think of you. Loving you is indeed easy ‘cause you’re beautiful!
8. Here comes my favorite part of the day, the part where I see your face lighting up the room. I can’t wait to get home, baby.
9. How wonderful and pure you are! Thank god I stole you.
10. I just saw this [picture] and it reminded me of you and the immense joy you bring to my life. I love you, my baby!
11. You can wake me up in the middle of the night as many times as you wish, you can spill water on the floor so that I get wet socks, and you can absolutely have a bite of my heart because I’m so in love with you.
12. You’re the most beautiful and purest person I know. I can’t help but think about how lucky I am to have found you.
13. I miss you and these days without you have sucked. I need my light and joy ASAP… When am I going to see your pretty face?
Deep love messages for him & her: Time to show the depth of your love
14. You’re my angel and the love of my life. I’m so thankful for that. I’m so thankful it’s you.
15. I’ve never felt so content and safe around anyone else in my life. I can’t even explain how much you mean to me. I love you, darling.
16. I’d choose you. Good or bad, healthy or sick. It’s always gonna be you.
17. Watching you be you is all I could ever ask for. Thank you, baby <3
18. I was never the lovey-dovey type, but gosh! I can’t help but be lovey-dovey when I’m with you.
19. You gave a whole different meaning to my life, a beautiful, loving, and colorful meaning. I’m so grateful to have you.
20. I’ve never felt so safe before. You’re so kind and wonderful, you’re so out of this world.
21. I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve you, but I’m immensely thankful for your presence in my life.
22. Thank you for lighting and brightening up my days. I love you.
23. You’re a ray of sun, a light of joy, and the prettiest face I’ve seen. I love you so so so much.
24. A morning message for the love of my life: You’re smart, you’re lovely, and you’re strong. You’ve got this!
25. You’re my precious, my sun, my reason to smile. You’re my person, and I love you so f*cking much!
26. I knew there was something special about you right away. I’m stunned by your beauty to this day. Your beauty within and out.
27. I’m so in love with you and so mesmerized by you. What have you done to me?
28. Visit me in my dreams tonight, will you?
29. Gosh, you make me so incredibly happy!
30. Well good morning lovely! Did my baby sleep well last night?
31. Not to sound romantic or madly in love, but you’re quite something and I think it’s too late: I’m incapable of living without you. You’re stuck with me now!
32. You’re sooo lovely, and so pretty, and so smart. 4 hours until I see you, I’m miserable!
True love messages for your partner: The real of the realest
33. I love how chaotic, pretty, smart, and lovely you are. I love everything about you.
34. You’re all I’ve been wanting for my entire life. I’m so grateful and a lucky motherf*cker for sure!
35. Now I realize I had absolutely no clue what love is until you stepped into my life to shift everything into pretty colors and happiness.
36. You’re my home, my everything.
37. I’d laugh when someone would mention “true love”. Then you walked into my life, brightened everything up, now I’m the one to mention true love while others look at me in disbelief.
38. I’ve got you on my mind. Gosh, I love you so much!!
39. I miss your smile already.
40. You’ve turned my world upside down and showed me what true love is. I will cherish you forever.
41. I’ll always be here for you.
42. No one brings me joy as you do. I’m so thankful I’ve got you in my life.
43. You’re my favorite person ever!
44. I really can’t wrap my head around it… How can you so easily make my day brighter? I love you!!
45. You save my day, always.
46. You really do know how to put a smile on my face, don’t ya?!
47. Listen, I don’t know what you’ve done to me, but I’m loving every second of it. It’s true love.
48. Things seem lifeless when I don’t get to see you… When are you coming home and bringing life to everything in here?
49. Love of my life, how did work go today? Want me to pick you up?
50. I’m so in love with you!!
51. You have no idea how much you mean to me!
52. I must’ve done something incredible to deserve you in my life. Seriously!
53. Let’s do nothing tomorrow, I want to stare at you until I make up for all the time I didn’t see you this week. Shall we, lovely?
54. You’re going to cringe at this, I know. But, gosh I’m so thankful to have you, to love you, and to be with you.
55. I never thought someone could just brighten up my day like that. Then I met you. Everything changed after that.
56. Come baaack! I already miss you, and your kisses, and your smile, and your smell. What am I gonna do for 3 days without seeing you?!
Love isn’t just about the sweet and lovey-dovey messages. Love is also about compromise and standing beside each other when times get harsh and unbearable.
If you’re confused and do not exactly know how that is done…Professional consultation is within your reach!
Hot love messages for him & her: Turn the heat up and make it steamy
57. I want to make my baby smile today! How about I cook dinner tonight and we have an awesome night with a lot of laughter and naughty stuff?
58. Right now, I’d kiss your cheeks, I’d kiss your eyes, I’d make you feel loved so much that you’d shine out of joy.
59. Hello perfection! Beware, a rush of love, hugs, and kisses is coming your way. Don’t be shocked once it gets to you.
60. I’ve got a pile of documents staring at me, yet here I am, thinking of you, incapable of doing any work. When am I going to see you and make these naughty thoughts come true?
61. My darling, my light, and my joy. What are we doing tonight? Anything you’d like to do for me in particular?
62. Hello incomparably hot & smarty! I love you soo sooo much! At what time we’ll be making sweet love to each other tonight?
63. Tonight is going to be all about you! Whatever my love wishes for he/she will get!
64. What would you want me to do to your beautiful body at this very moment?
65. I need to feel your scent or I’ll be going mad as I’m drowning in documents.
66. Tell me what you’d do to me, my love.
67. The thought of your beautiful body is distracting me from working. I can’t do this anymore, I’m desperate to feel your touch!
68. I’d kiss you gently right now. I miss the taste of your lips.
69. Removing your clothes, yes. Kissing you, yes. Looking at you, absolutely! Missing you like crazy, ABSOLUTELY YES!
Long romantic love messages for your loved one: Keeping it sweet and pretty
70. I loved your chaotic energy the moment I laid eyes on you. You were furious that day, yet you shined like you were out of this world.
71. There was something about you the moment I saw you for the first time. You shined so bright that day and I couldn’t help but stare at your light.
72. Your face, your way of thinking about things, your way of talking, and everything about you make me feel more than lucky to have you in my life. Out of the blue, I know, but I couldn’t help but say it to you.
73. I didn’t think someone like you existed and then BAM, just like that, you’ve shaken my world and made it pretty within the instant moment you walked into my life.
74. You’ve added sparks to my life. You’ve added colors, love, and immense joy to my life. I don’t know how I was living before I met you.
75. Let’s make an agreement, shall we? I stare at you for a million minutes while you do you. I can’t wait to see you, and I can’t believe I’ve been patient enough to spend a week without having you in my sight.
76. It’s that sight of you, the way you drink your tea, scratch your head, touch your lips, and sneeze awfully loud. The sight of you is my favorite view.
77. You were the most beautiful stranger I’ve seen. Now you’ve become the most beautiful person I’ve ever known. I cherish every second with you. You’re my love and the joy of my heart.
78. At first sight you were a little pretty mess. Your beauty was blinding, and I couldn’t help but get mesmerized by you. I’ve never been so in love before.
79. So kind and so precious, the thought of you keeps me up at night and I get impatient to see you again. I never knew I could love someone so much.
80. You see, all I asked for in my life was a person that I could love. Instead, I found a person whom I adore, love, cherish, and can’t live without.
Tips on writing your own original romantic love message to your partner!
The best romantic message is the one that comes from the bottom of your heart.
It is a message you truly mean, a message you want your partner to read and find out how much they mean to you.
If you steal a line from hetexted.com it’s still real as long as you feel the message you’re sending to your partner.
Whether you’re trying to put a smile on their face, or simply tell them you love them, here’s how your write your own original romantic love message to your partner:
1. Say what comes from your heart.
2. Think of something you love about them and put it into words.
3. Get creative with it, it doesn’t have to be all serious. You can write something funny as well.
4. Think of how they make you feel, put them into words, and send them to your partner.
5. Tell your partner what you felt when you first saw them, then compare it to the present moment.
E.g. “I had no idea how much impact you’d have on me when I first saw you. Now you’re the love of my life, and the joy of my heart.”
6. Avoid getting unrealistic. E.g. “I’d climb rainbows and stars for your love.”
7. If you’re in a long-distance relationship, tell them how much you miss them and what you’d do if you were together.
8. Write about how they’ve impacted your life.
9. Tell them something you appreciate about them, don’t forget to say “Thank you” or “I love you”
11. Most importantly, keep your message real and avoid unnecessary exaggerations.
You’ve got this, dear reader!