I’m new online. I don’t “wink” or “like” or message men online. I only return messages, and only if it’s clear they’ve read my profile. My friends have encouraged me to initiate, but I think that’s a bad idea. Thoughts?
In addition, I’m turned off by men that message beginning with things like “hi gorgeous” or “hey sweetie” when they reach out. I don’t mind flirty texting once messaging gets going…that’s the fun part…but I tend to hit delete based on their introduction.
Now I’m Wondering
Am I being too hard on these guys?