Mandatory to get to know your crush better and keep the conversations going are the questions you have for each other.
As communication is the non-replaceable road to lead at it, they help get your crush’s opinion and hint at your interest in them.
However, many people feel stuck on what to ask because they don’t wanna ruin anything by asking the wrong stuff.
To help you out I have listed 75 questions you must ask your crush:
Flirty messages to text to your crush
Flirting can be a pretty eye-opener and is considered a key ingredient in letting them know you are up to them.
To avoid misleading questions, they must be fun, well-thought, and heartfelt.
1. What made me stand out from other women? :p
2. Do you believe in love in the first text?
3. What is your biggest turn-on a woman can do?
4. What do u want me to save your number as babe, cutie, or sexiest woman alive? 🙈
5. So when is our long-awaited date gonna be? 😋
6. What qualities in a person make your heart beat fast?
7. How do you think we would look like a wedding cake together?
8. Any guilty pleasures I should be aware of?
9. Netflix and chill, does it seem fun to you?
10. How do you prefer your eggs in the morning, so I can practice for the future?
11. I think you’re really smart/pretty; do you get that a lot?
12. Tell me one of your fantasies.
13. How does this look to me? Send a pic of you in a dressing room.
14. Favorite place to kiss? So I can take notes
15. A intimate gesture you can’t resist?
16. What crosses your mind when you see me?
17. What is your favorite love song you always listen to?
18. How does giving you a massage sound?
19. Is dirty talk your thing? We can try. 😏
20. What keeps you up late at night?
Funny messages to text to your crush
Sometimes being a fun and exciting person is all you need to win their heart.
And knowing when and what to say plays a big role in getting your crush’s attention.
Proven with success at a giggle, here are some of the texts you can send:
1. Corniest pickup line ever used?
2. What gives you the major ick from a partner?
3. Where was the weirdest place you had sex?
4. Are you the obsessive, clingy, I’ll-die if you leave type?
5. Can you send a pic of your hand? For research purposes 😏
6. Can you bench press my size? Bet you can.
7. What is one of your cringe moments?
8. What is the dumbest rumor you’ve heard about yourself?
9. Just curious, What would you do if you had $400 to spend on me?
10. Let’s say we get married, who gets to sleep on the right side of the bed?
11. Who is a celebrity you can not stand and why?
12. Should we do a TikTok like this together?
13. Do you wanna dress up as Barbie and Ken next Halloween? We are the perfect fit.
14. Morning, Did I show up in your dream last night?
15. What was the craziest lie you ever told?
16. What did you think the color of the dress was?
17. Say you can have a one-night stand with a celebrity, who would you choose?
18. What do you think the most overrated sex position is?
19. Do you prefer wearing underwear or going commando?
20. Which do you prefer, dating a supermodel, having free access to McDonald’s, or dating me?
Sneaky questions to text to your crush
Before starting any flirtatious moves, you at least wanna make sure the feeling is mutual.
To successfully choose the correct questions, a few relationship advice sites can help you customize them to your liking.
1. I bet a lot of girls are blowing up your phone right now, do they?
2. Fuck marry kill, Kylie Jenner, Me, and Margot Robbie?
3. I wonder if I’m part of your future.
4. Do you think we’d look cute as a couple? I know we would!
5. If you lost your memory, what is the first thing you’d remember about me?
6. Did you have me on your wishlist this Christmas?
7. What is something that when you see it reminds you of me?
8. What are three things you think we have in common?
9. What did you notice when you first saw me?
10. What does your dream woman/man look like? (bonus if they describe you)
11. Are you the relationship type?
12. Do you ever think about me?
13. Have you ever had a freaky dream and I was part of it?
14. What are your thoughts on love?
15. What is you take in texting every day? ( Make sure this applies to your situation).
Deep questions to text to your crush
By now it should be a perfect time to approach the uncomfortable
deep-thinking questions.
Not only they will help you get past the uncomfortable topics but this way you will also learn the pros and cons of each other.
They are beneficial if you tend to build a relationship with him/her.
1. What is your take on sex before marriage?
2. Do women cheat more than men?
3. Are you a top or bottom?
4. What would you ask Hitler if you were to be in a room together?
5. What are your thoughts on porn?
6. Would you care if your girlfriend went on a girls’ night at the club?
7. What movie would best describe your life?
8. What’s your take on abortion?
9. What are the insecurities you never joke about?
10. Do you think any male friends are a threat to relationships?
11. Why do you guys ghost?
12. What are the biggest doubts you have about yourself?
13. A memory you’ll never forget from your childhood?
14. How do you feel about fetishes?
15. Would you rather find out who you will marry or when you die?
16. Do you think you can escape the matrix?
17. What is the mistake you draw the line at from a partner?
18. What is your favorite part about being in a relationship?
19. What is one thing you wish people agreed with you about?
20. What is something you find overrated in relationships?
What you should keep in mind before asking questions.
You should keep in mind the content and circumstances of the questions you ask.
Coming up with the perfect questions can be a hard task, but here you can find tips about the questions you should ask your crush.
1. Pay attention and listen.
Before asking any questions, be mindful of what they have to say.
Since you are not interacting in person, they won’t see your body language.
Not only you make a good impression, but it will also help you understand their interests and therefore should help you formulate the question.
2. Read the room and reflect.
Always reflect on the question you are asked.
Empathy is the capacity to understand and truly get someone’s feelings says Clinical psychologist, Dr. Steven Sultanoff.
This way you create empathy with your crush, therefore you make a comfortable environment to share their feelings without being judged.
3. Be careful and don’t cross boundaries.
First, think if the question you are about to ask is overstepping their boundaries.
Make sure you don’t come as too creepy or nosy.
Find the right things to ask your crush, without overdoing it and making them uncomfortable.
4. Show off as the best version of yourself.
When texting your crush, there are no opportunities to save mistakes.
Therefore always make a good effort and research what you are about to ask.
You can be yourself later, but as for now putting up a good impression is what matters most.
Conclusion. What asking questions can help regarding your crush?
Asking deep, flirty, and fun questions can help both parties be seen and validated by each other.
It may seem like a small thing, asking questions.
But when you are trying to build a relationship or become close with your crush, asking about the right stuff can make a huge difference.
It allows you and your crush to share thoughts and feelings in a comfortable space.
Be flirty, have fun, and be different!
Best wishes,
Callisto Adams
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