There are some basics when it comes to the one. Aaand we tend to ignore some of those; I’d say fundamentals, when it comes to dating, and especially when it comes to ‘the one’.
However, when you know, you know. But then again, you need another external confirmation about it. Just in case… We don’t want to get delusional, don’t we?
About ‘Is he the right one?’ quiz
The quiz has 15 questions that you’ll have to answer in order to get a final result of your calculated answers. The questions and the given answers are all based on the signs he’s the one, and signs he’s not the one.
Some of the questions are so basic that you’ll be understanding the answer yourself, even before getting the final results. Hence this is a pretty accurate quiz.
To help you out and have a better understanding of what the one looks like:
Signs he’s the one
First, let’s understand that ‘the one’ is not this magical person that magically fixes in your life. Now that that is out of the way we can see a few of the signs together:
1. Things flow naturally with ease and love in the relationship.
2. There is understanding, acceptance, and kindness towards each other.
3. You support and care about each other, and each other’s dreams.
4. There’s a deep emotional connection between the two of you.
5. You can imagine a future with him. Like marriage and kids, or plainly living together.
6. The sex is amazing!
He’s not the one if…
1. He doesn’t value and appreciate your presence.
2. He doesn’t respect you.
3. Your values (like marriage, kids, lifestyles) don’t match.
4. He doesn’t treat you well: you feel insecure in his presence.
5. He’s toxic.
6. You don’t feel free to express yourself.
Taking the quiz – ‘Is he the one?’ quiz
While taking the quiz, you’ll be answering the following questions:
1. Do you often think of your past partners with nostalgia?
- Absolutely not!
- I wouldn’t say nostalgia.
- Sometimes I do.
2. Do you feel an emotional connection with him?
- I feel it very strongly.
- Yes, sometimes.
- Mostly no.
3. Does it happen for you to not feel right in the relationship?
- A lot of times.
4. How supportive is he?
- He’s very supportive.
- Meh, he’s fine.
- What support? No.
5. Do you feel you’re treated well by him?
- Absolutely yes.
- Most of the time, yes.
- Not too often.
6. Do you ever think he’s the one?
- Yes, yes, yes!
7. Can you imagine a future with him? Like marriage?
- Of course I can!
- Well, maybe… Sure.
- Not really.
8. What do you do after an argument?
- We apologize to one another, and we hug.
- One of us apologizes, and we make up.
- No apologies. We just leave it that way.
9. Do you feel that your relationship is boring?
- No, it is far from boring.
10. Do you feel safe in his presence?
- Yes, the safest.
- Not that much, but yes.
- No, not really.
11. Do you feel like you’re a team together?
- At times.
12. Does it ever feel like you’re ‘carrying’ the relationship?
- No, not at all. I just said I feel like we’re a team.
- Sometimes, but it’s not a big deal.
- Yes, too often.
13. Does your family and/or friends like him?
- They haven’t met him yet.
14. Do you feel free to express yourself in the relationship?
- Most of the time…
- Not really.
15. How does he treat you?
- Like nobody else ever has! I feel special.
- He treats me well. Perhaps it could’ve been better.
- Well, not the best is the least I could say.
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