How can I see what my husband is looking at on the internet? 9 ways to do it successfully

A few years ago, I was struggling with my marriage and it felt like we were drifting apart way apart. The energy was shifting.

I just couldn’t find common ground or find a middle way to communicate with my ex-husband and he was being so defensive.

He used to constantly come home late, cut phone notifications, and pushed me away. I had my doubts and since we couldn’t pin this down while communicating, I need to prove my point differently!

Here are the 9 tips on how you can see what your husband is looking at on the internet:

1. Ask him randomly what he’s doing/watching when he’s on the phone

The first thing that I tried was to connect with him differently and not make it look like an interrogation.

I would probably inform him what I was watching or laughing at without him asking me.

Hence, he never did that and always gave a vague answer like: “Well, sports, duh.”

Or, “Just stuff”. And at first, I thought this was just a thing a man does when he might start to lose slightly interest or is just bored.

On the contrary, his behavior became even more awful and I wasn’t respected at all.

2. Download Shadow Remote Desktop

Then, I started venting to my friends and family and talking to my therapist.

I just wanted to find my inner peace and not let my then-husband manipulate my feelings or thoughts anymore.

It’s really hard to be in a relationship with a narcissistic type when he’ll constantly make you think and feel that you’re the problem.

So, just like me, you can use the Shadow Remote Desktop when you can have access to his phone or desktop without having to get his id or password.

It’s a free app and after downloading you can open The group policy Editor;
Then you can expand Administrative Templates;
Expand Windows Components;
Click Remote Desktop Services;
The button connections are located near Remote Desktop Session Host (click it);
Then click right on your mouse and choose →Sets rules for remote control of Remote Desktops Services user sessions.
In the end, choose EDIT;

3. Unlock his encrypted gmail or messages

This tool is a little bit more complicated if you don’t have access to his email.

Sometimes your husband might not act cold or pull away when he’s cheating.

But, he might receive a lot of emails that you might see that are encrypted.

I’m not implying that someone receives encrypted emails just because he’s cheating.

Hence, if you think that he gets these types of emails late at night and he excuses himself as he has to work late, check it up.

If you’ve already access to his email then you can either open it with the code that the sender sends in his email or,
If the other woman sends it with TESTIFI you can download it in that browser and then through a link you can easily open the message.

4. Check his search history through your Wi-fi

If you don’t have access to his phone or computer, you can see what your husband looks at his phone through VPN.

If you use VPN then you can check his search history, the websites he has visited, and the duration he spent on each page.

You just have to follow these steps:

Connect your browser with the router;
Connect to your router page when you enter your IP address;
Enter the router’s username and password

For example:

Username: admin

Password: 100200

To find the username and pass of the router, you need to check your router type.

When you enter the webpage after login in, you’ll see a tab to view your Wifi’s history and log-ins.
You’ll find his device IP, near “Device List” and you can check the log-ins from that specific device.

Also, you can use other devices such as Wireshark or OpenDNS to view his activity on that particular device and router.

5. Check his time screen and his most used apps

Another way to tell what your husband is looking at on his phone is to measure his time screen.

While you check his time screen, you’ll notice on which app he spends more time.

To access his phone, you can use the DDi utilities app or Airdoid parental which is an app used for parents but it can work in this case too.

Then when you notice how much he spends on each app, you might get a hint of what he’s doing or to who he’s talking.

You can do this by accessing your account and checking who he follows or his likes.

6. You can transfer his google data from his account to yours

You can see what your husband looks at on his phone if you transfer his google data to your account.

You should use Google Takeout. You should know that to finish this step, you need to enter his email.

When you click on Google Takeout, you should enter his email and password, then you can click on the data you want to transfer.

It could be Emails, documents on google drive, or anything else. Then you need to click, Next and Create Export.

It’s a simpler and quicker way to just get a glimpse of what he is searching and doing on the internet.

7. Check whether the web pages history is always empty

You can ask him to use his phone or computer for something and then you can go to the webpage history.

If his webpage history is constantly empty then that means that he is watching porn.

The psychologist Alvin Cooper said that the anonymity that the internet offers is a luxury in that you have no one to give a reason why you’re watching.

But, to define that he’s addicted to porn, you’ll notice if you take a look at his behavior.

So, if he becomes addicted to porn and is hiding it from you, he’ll either try new moves while having sex or will withdraw from you.

8. Use Umobix

If you want to see what your husband is looking at on the internet and what he’s searching for on social media, using the Umobix app will help you.

Using this app will give you access to his web history, sms, and all social media. Unlike other apps, this one will charge you to use it after finishing a free trial.

The way you set up this app depends on whether you’re using an android or iPhone but it has three simple steps.

Download the app from the user’s space and download it on your Android deceive.
While on iPhone, you can download it through iCloud.

Also, the app’s page gives you the opportunity to check the compatibility of your device or the device you’re going to download this app.

9. Socialcatfish

In the end, you might use the Socialcatfish app to check his activity on the internet.

Using this app, you’ll be able to collect all the internet data regarding your husband.

You’ll be able to find out if he is a part of dating apps and if he spends his time using fake accounts to talk to others.

You can also just post a photo of him and see what he’s cooking up on the internet.

When should you use these tips to see what your husband is looking at on the internet?

Before choosing to see what your husband is looking at on the internet, you should

The reason for choosing to monitor my ex-husband’s phone was infidelity.

Hence, everyone can be different.

You might monitor his phone or online activity if you feel that he has a type of addiction like gaming or watching porn.

If his behavior is impacting negatively your relationship and there’s no other way to understand his problem, you might do it.

Also, if he has been cheating but still keeping you around, you might do it just for the sake of evidence.

Otherwise, invading your husband’s privacy might cost you with losing your relationship or even your freedom.

Is there a way to see the husband’s incognito history?

Yes, you can see his history even if he uses incognito mode.

You can hire a hacker to do the job for you if you have a serious problem with your husband and you need this search history.

Also, you can do it on your own if you have access to his account. Go to https://myactivity.google.com/ and click on the button Filter by date and Product.

Then you can select Chrome on the left, and then you can click on InPrivate Browsing.

The information that you will see there will be at least from the last 10 days from when you do the search.

The risks of monitoring your husband’s online activity! How to manage the situation?

Monitoring your husband’s online activity can bring you a lot of issues. Such as losing his trust or you’ll give him some ego boost.

How he will react depends on his personality and attachment style.

1. If he’s a narcissist then he’ll start immediately to blame you and say that you’re doing it out of jealousy.

2. Whereas, if he’s someone who really loves and understands you but has been going through some rough times, he’ll act crazy too.

A person that loses your trust, it’ll be not easy for him to regain it and trust you again.

~So, in the first case, you should listen to him and not defend yourself or just change the subject.

This will fuel him even more. So, stay calm, apologize, and withdraw from the situation.

When he is calm then you might use to talk about it or just use that evidence to cut ties with him.

~Whereas, when you lose his trust, it’s better to wait until he processes all of this.

Because to him this might seem like a betrayal. First, apologize, and then try to talk to him.

You need to explain why you did it and how you’ll fix this “mistake” if that’s so.

Wrapping it up: How can I see what my husband looks at on his phone?

When you decide to monitor your husband’s online activity, you need to have a good reason for doing it and face the consequences.

Invading your husband’s privacy isn’t something that he or you would like. There’s always one good reason for doing it.

So, if you are struggling to maintain the relationship and his mysterious behavior is interfering with your relationship, you might do it.

Choose an app that might give you a sneak peek at his phone or you might even hire someone to do it professionally and legally.

As ever,

Callisto Adams