He Texted Me This...
...So Now I'm Wondering?
We have hung out a few times in groups of friends. We started hanging out solo and hookin up with each other. We havnt DTR'd yet. Idk if he wants a relationship or just FWB. Ideas?
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BEST IDEA EVER: Ask him. Boom, solid. You can't screw that up.
So kids here's the verdict.....he treats me like his gf yet doesnt want a relationship. We run errands and hang out together yet also are hooking up at the same time. BUT I decided hes too immature for this and hes too selfish and slightly stupid. He went home for Thanksgiving break for a little over a week. He said he would text me while he was away...its been 4 days and no text. No offended just confirmed that hes only interested in one thing. This will be a good weening off period for me..or him. All in all- over it and over him. Lesson Learned...texts can be deceiving.. lol
he's definitely into you. it takes guts to keep persisting, when your responses seem so indifferent...I'd say you're not into him and he's into you
Awesome fun times. Enjoy it!!!!!!
Men are physically-stimulated creatures. Women are emotionally-stimulated. If you're having sex with him, he's going to continue craving sex (that's what he meant by "hang out" in the context of this conversation). If you want it to become more than just sex, you need to stop having sex, which is hard because you're human, so you'll have that desire from time to time. He'll always be willing, but if you can resist the urge in those moments, then the days like this one when you question his intentions will be fewer and further between.
I think he's got no reason to turn it into a relationship at this stage & is just enjoying the brief hangouts accompanied with sex. Obviously you're enjoying it too, so unless you feel like you're being used or need to DTR & make it official, just sit back & let it unfold. Keep us posted!
If you've gone on real dates where you've done more than just hook up than he's interested. If he comes over, gets some, and leaves it's FWB. If the only time you hang out when not just hooking up is when you're with friends could go either way. If that's the case ask him on a real date and see what he does. That'll show his cards.
If your both single willing an able to see what lays ahead!! U may as well get some at the same time.. :$))funtimes
A date Is more promising, good luck!
He is a very nice and sweet guy. I think we might both be in a stage of we are unsure of what we want out of it. If all it is is a hook up, im also ok with that. We are also going out on a date tomorrow night. So we will see.
Sounds like a booty call for now...
I'm curious to see what develops in the future.
Booty call, definitely
He wants sex and is willing to spend additional time with you to continue getting it.
Doesn't mean it can't become something more.
But if "something more" was on his mind, when you asked what he wanted to do, he would have said something specific: "I thought we could go to see Wreck-it Ralph."
(My friend worked on that movie...go see it:).)
So I think your comment answers your question. Taking you for a quick frozen yoghurt is a pretty easy compromise for a guy that will get a hook up afterwards.
Lets face it all guys want to hook up and there's not always anything wrong with that.
If you want more i would try being less available to him and try avoid each others house/private places.
Is he nice to you, for he make effort outside of asking to meet up???
If not I'd day your giving him what he wants right now, so why would be need to develop it into anything more....?
Oh and btw we ended up going out for frozen yogurt and talked for about an hour or so but then ended up back at his place and hooked up.