He Texted Me This...

...So Now I'm Wondering?

ok so...i like REALLY like this guy. we have a great connection, and i'm really falling for him. i really want to get to know him better but he is always so busy with work and lives thirty three miles away. should i move closer?? i think this could really work out but i dont want to move all the way out there and have my heart broken. thoughts??
  • He's into you25
  • He's not into you1919
  • Verdict is still out10

Comments

truthteller's picture

get out of that relashionship, babe. i know this one, by experience.

minacrys's picture

I'm going to live in my little fantasy bubble and rationalize that this one is a joke. I hope no one is really that clueless.

Colleen2308's picture

I hate to break it to you, but he doesn't care about you or meeting your parents. And I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you're over thinking thing "relationship".. If he doesn't have the time of day to have dinner with you and your family, why would you MOVE to be closer to him??? That's just absurd, please don't be so desperate, have some respect for yourself! And I mean this from one girl to another. I was desperate for many years. Find yourself a guy who gives you the time of day!!

Casper123's picture

If he's going to be like that he's not even worth wasting your time texting, let alone moving for him. Just forget about this guy

Dafna79's picture

He responds "Nah" after mentioning meeting your parents and you respond "ok miss you"??? How long are you guys dating, first of all he doesn't meet your parents until he takes you to meet his, second you don't offer to go and pick him up and third you don't move anywhere for a guy that says "hey sex was cool..."
Believe me when you meet the right guy you won't need to to do anything of wonder if he likes you, he will make sure you know and will show it with his acts. You really need to cool it with the next guy and just let him set the pace of the relationship, don't rush...

Bathory13's picture

Your making yourself to available and coming on to strong. Tone the parent talk down and the cute talk. Guys like a bit of a chase and mystery. let him come to you. Plus the way he said sex was cool the other day? He's not into you, it's like if he had said it in person he would give you a slap on the back like he would a mate...

ccch's picture

He's texting to rid guilt for no contact. Also wants to see if he can go there again. Move on he's an idiot

Clare14's picture

There is obviously only one thing he wants... THE V!!!!!!

cantreadguysmind's picture

DUDE! you are way way way too keen on this. Stop texting him he doesnt worth it!

m-sh's picture

No, no, no and no! That guy's an asshole! Don't put your life bad for him!

Frobin2's picture

Okay assuming this isnt fake and you are this needy...

As a guy, I would say that if you have been seeing him for a long time (6 months to a year) and you guys act like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship but he doesn't want to meet your parents then yea...he doesn't give a shit about you and just wants to bust it...

If this is like a month into it and you're being all clingy like this, then yea you put this on yourself cause you're being psycho. You would actually do better with getting this dude if you weren't so available for him. A sense of losing a girl is a good tactic against a guy.

sunset's picture

I really hope this is fake. Casual sex usually ends badly for the girl! Save yourself the heartache and have some self-respect: Love only those who love you.

breakfastcat's picture

This can't be real. No one can be this needy. CLINGER 5000 ALERT.

Dude, chill. Take a step back..waaaay back. Also, quit texting like an idiot. Add another character in there and make your "2"s into actual words.

tisofia's picture

You wanna move closer to a the guy? LOL ... Stalker much?

Sofsss's picture

You are not really serious, right. Good one. I almost thought this was real. Come on, girl!!!

wolfwhistle's picture

You are a crazy person. He may have dodged a bullet.

Alexia_Lauren's picture

sex is cool? only a tool says that. i get more respect from guys that i casually hook up with. dont change your life for him.

Desperate4luv's picture

I usually do a kiss next to the names but then when it does not work out I change it to a sad face :(

emmy_kiko's picture

You pull the parents card?? That would scare off any guy! Especially one you're not even dating....

Matilda25's picture

Reading stuff like this makes me sad. It sucks being 'that girl.' Whatever you do, do NOT text him again. DO NOT.

blossom's picture

uhm, thats your sex-ed brain talking I hope and not your poor heart...

WANT TO MEET MY PARENTS? My boyfriend met my grandmother after two dates...and it was kind of like, oh we were crazy about about each other. After a nice lunch, I was tired of just wearing the damn sexy dress and making out with him so we snuck back to my place and had sex. He wanted to get a hotel room (later that week) but my now boyfriend is hot and we have amazing chemistry. I didn't want to wait. Anyway, my grandmother comes home, while we've been getting busy. When my boyfriend leaves to go to work he insists that we tell my grandmother that we are officially a couple. THIS IS A MAN WHO WON'T BREAK YOUR HEART.

Jake just wants booty.

amandasoupa's picture

Grade A douchebag. SHUT IT DOWN.

missmunchymunch's picture

Are you nuts? Why would you suggest meeting your parents? He said nah to that and you said Miss you???? He probably thinks you're crazy! I think he's "cool" with sex but not any other part of you........you gotta find someone else and maybe go on some dates and introduce him to your rents before you jump into bed with him...

ArjNaik's picture

You have gone from having cool sex to meeting parents. maybe you should not get ahead of yourself, you will scare him off.

DannieSays's picture

Kind of amazed your counter move was '... meet my parents'. I think the next level down is "I think I love you".

Imagine a guy who you're not into, who went on a date with you, showed you all kinds of attention, and you kissed on the cheek. Then the text convo goes like this:

You: Cool that you picked up the check.
Him: Thanks! I had so much fun with you! What are you up to today?
Him: Want to meet my parents!? I've told them all about you!
You: Nah
Him: Ok... I MISS YOU! <3 <3

QueenofFrance's picture

Okay, you have two options.

Earn a new fuck buddy who wants to get in your pants only, and WILL break your heart or leave and move one to find true love with a guy who WANTS one. In my opinion as soon as I read "sex was cool" my brain processed the word 'RUN' because he obviously only wants one thing and one thing only. There is no way in hell this guy is good for you, so find someone who's worth your time.