He was with another girl!

You're meeting up after you both go to different parties? Doesn't sound like anything more than a late night (planned) booty call. If you want anything more than that, run.

He doesn't even sound sorry

I think he had a girl over and they were getting a little friendly. He's sounds like a douchepipe. You should just dump him.

I admit to having fallen asleep while waiting for someone and not even known I'd fallen asleep when it happened. One time I had eight texts from him and I woke up around 6 am on my sofa, fully dressed and with the television still on.

trust me on this one - he's def not interested. If he were, he'd have forced himself to stay awake until you arrived or at least rescheduled for another time.

Just run!

im totally in the same situation..i think he just want to sleep with you and doesnt really want to put effort in... at the end of the day, r u interested in one night stand only? and trust me sex with this sort of guy is not going to be good anyway.. ;)))

He could've just been super tired for various reasons but still texted to follow up & apologize & then offered an immediate reschedule date.

I wouldn't worry, doesn't mean he's not into you, after a party i would be tired especially if i had some booze. BUT you should play it cool don't reply for at least 3 days and act like it didn't bother you...and don't do any late night meet ups for a while.

First time offender? It happens, he may have just had too much to drink. Sometimes people are tired and fall asleep! How did he know you were outside though? Did you tell him in one of the txts? If you did then no worries, give him another chance, if it happens again then you may have a problem but if he knew you were outside without you telling him then dump his arse!

He was with another girl. You're just an option. Don't bother.

idk, either he really was passed out drunk or he was with another girl, just give him more time it ll all come out in the wash eventually :)

Seems like a booty call, especially since he was so quick to ask you to come over again! No no buddy! He should go to you this time since he flaked out the night before. If he's really into you then he'll do that.

I've fallen asleep when a girl friend was coming over after going out, man was she pissed, but I was into her for sure.

I have done this myself to a guy that I ended up dating for six months. I had too much to drink and literally passed out with my phone next to me. Give him a break.

Omg...I just had to sign up so I could comment. My bf (of 2 months) did this to me just last week. He had contacted me 15 minutes before I arrived at his home. When I got there I sent texts...called. Knocked and knocked but nothing. Waited around in my car for 10 minutes and started to leave. Was getting very aggravated. Wondering wth? My bf has severe hearing problems, had taken out his hearing aids, and had fallen asleep. I know this for a fact, because I found his back door unlocked, let myself in, and he was sound asleep with his phone in his hand...aww. He had worked late and was exhausted. So...there is a chance your bf is telling the truth. Esp. if it was late, and he had been at a party drinking.

well, he knew you were coming over, so him falling asleep is odd. Just think if it was the other way around you would stay awake or at least try to?, its not that hard, and worse texted you, I mean really? he should have called you at least.

If he was truly sorry he'd have made the effort to say it person or at least call you. Not text you x

The thing is, there could be 2 things that could of happened. He could have been busy with something (or someone) else and just not interested in you and totally blew you off. OR he genuinely could have fallen asleep- BUT if a girl is coming over I highly doubt anyone is going to fall alseep...

He just wants sex when its convenient.

As much as I would like to think that he really fell asleep and forgot all about you. I would think that as a guy, if a girl you like is coming over, you would make the effort to stay awake instead of making her wait outside in vain.

Drop him, please.

You need someone you can rely on, he shouldnt have fallen asleep if you were coming round. If he was tired he should have kept himself occupied until you arrived.

or he could have really fallen asleep

Truth is, you'll never really know. The possibility that he may have someone else "lined up" will always be there no matter what he writes. Us men, can be sneaky at times (which i'm certain you're aware of that) but here's what happened here;

1- He apologized - which can be seen as genuine or not, that's up to you to decide. Just ask yourself this, why is he tired. Does he work late? Is he doing something that would normally make him loose sleep? Or is it just a usual nap time?

2- He created initiative by saying, lets try this again.

There are two fundamental things here, that i think you shouldn't overlook. He stated the problem and what he could do to make it better.

It's now up to you to decide how genuine you think he is about it.
(can't believe you was outside, can probably feel like sarcasm but i doubt it)

He had another girl over. He lined up two of you just in case you didn't make it over.