By crustylotion | Feb 22 2016
how do i ask my best guy friend to lose our virginititys to each other
By singingcanaries | Dec 26 2014
Im 20 years old and have never had an official boyfriend. In high school i was always shy plus guys just never pursued me. My freshman and sophomore year no one approached me either plus any time a guy would try to get to know my i would just shut down and get panick. Then my good friend told me about tinder and how she was talking to all these guys. I was curious and so i made one. Its like crack every time i match with someone im attracted to because my biggest fear has always been rejection. Ive always been told im beautiful but the flirty guys on tinder just made me feel so sexy! Once i got more comfortable I started meeting up with the guys. Ive hooked up with 5 guys since having a tinder in may. Ive been physical with only those 5 guys. they all were hookups and only one wanted to become more but i wasnt into him. I want more with a person who i actually want but they dont want me that way...I was kindof seeing them all at once but recently i ended it with 4 of them. Then a couple of weeks ago i had sex with one of the guys who id been talking to since september. He was the biggest douche ever and he even knew how i felt about waiting until i was in a committed relationship. I was also a virgin. He just made me feel like i was being stupid for not doing it with him so i just did it. Ive been ready to have sex so i dont regret it i just wish he respected me more. I ended it 2 days after and now hes an even bigger douche and hes rude to be. Now he just completly ignores my texts. I dont want this to happen to me again. A guy ive had a crush on for 2 years has been texting me booty calls and Its been really hard to say no especially because im no longer a virgin. I dont want to rack up my numbers though and it just sucks the one guy ive had sex with i cant be with anymore... I have no idea how to be in a healthy relationship and keep a man. Plus i work 3-11pm 5 days a week so dating and meeting people are really hard.
By animefreakxo | Dec 22 2014
Hey guys so i liked this guy for months now and everyday i see him i have been trying to impress him to make him like me. I'm always the one to talk to him. Every time i do talk to him, he acts as if he likes me by giving me tight hugs and even one day he told me he loved me. Our conversation are only about sex since we're both virgins. At first I wanted it to be a love game kinda thing; but now I'm in love with him. He asked me to hang out with him but his kinda hang out is not just going in the movies.
By curlyqsx | Dec 05 2014
We had been on a few dates and texted for weeks. He invited me over and all the sudden I was no longer a virgin. I had not expected to have sex with him for my first time! Once I had sex I wanted to try it more and more times so I stuck with the same guy. We continued or fun and agreed on the label of Fwd. Now six months later I find us talking all night. Laughing together about jokes. Spending the night and eating breakfast together. We even call each other cute names...
By laurarebecca | Dec 01 2014
Okay so my brother lived wiv my nan for a while an hes just moved back home its bin rly nice an we get on rly well. so weve bin hangin out an the ova day this rly weerd thing happened i was in his room an i said somethin that made him laff an he tuched my leg an we looked at each other for a bit an then it was ova rly. that nite he sent me this text an Im wodering wat i shud do now. hes rly hot an all my friends fancy him an say then wanna shag him an he always says how I'm blossoming into a pretty young flower an he grabs my bum an stuff and says i alwas luk nice an i dunno if hes being nice or he likes me as Im only 14 and he usually shags girls who are 16 (hes 19)
By annabanana68 | Mar 20 2014
This guy at work seemed really interested in me, asked me for my number back in December, and we had super casual conversations until about February. Then I realized I should probably put a little more into this and he responded well, wanted to take me out for drinks, and we started flirting more and more. We got a little dirtier over texts, he sent some pics, I responded with some of my own. Mine were way less "inappropriate" but he wanted more, which I was uncomfortable with and I told him. I'm also a virgin and extremely inexperienced and he knows that. He seemed okay but is now backing off some, which is okay, but I'm kind of confused now. And now when I try to be flirty, he seems less interested. But he sends me pictures of him flexing and then talks about how big he is...
By sandy93_2 | Mar 07 2014
Alright here's the deal. So for the LONGEST time, I have had a crush on this guy, but it was always admiring from afar. Then a few months ago, he started Facebook messaging me... I mean really I didn't think anything of it, just thought it was whatever. We never hungout or anything, just messaged. Then he got my number and would call/text me sometimes but when he was sober, it was never a good time and when we were both drunk it was always like when I was going home. Then a month ago we were both at the same party (rare) and talked and he wanted me to come with him to his friends house but it didn't work out because my friend (and ride) just wanted to go home. And then a couple weeks ago I drunk texted and was all "oh come here" (to a party at my friends) and he did...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. I was a virgin. I don't wanna be a stage 5 clinger so I've been trying not to text him or anything... I did a few days after it happened and he did respond, we texted for a couple days then it kind of ended and I didn't feel the need to awkwardly continue it. The thing is, I really wanna hookup again, and while sure, I guess something more than that would be nice.. I don't expect it. I mean, before we had sex it had been the kind of situation where if I played it right it could've but I mean now I just drunkenly lost my virginity to him.
By shes_bree18 | Feb 24 2014
We are dating, we have been dating for like 4months. I'm a virgin and he's not, i said we should wait before having sex he said he totally understood , but lately he's been subtly bringing up the topic of him getting a fuckbuddy. Then later he apologizes and says its selfish of him to ask and he's sorry. But he is bringing it up a lot and saying that he is sexually frustrated, even though he apologizes for it later i don't feel good about this, and i don't know what to do.
By demiboo | Jan 09 2014
I told him i wanted to lose my virginity to him and he said "Hehe, I would love to take it from you ;)
but then called me perfect and adorable
By pebbs_88 | Jan 06 2014
I want to be friends with this guy but he will not tell me anything at all not even what he's doing at the time. I need advice because he says he really wants to be friends.
By webster | Nov 26 2013
I feel like I post here too much, but I am constantly confused by guys and today was probably the worst guy-incident yet. So a few days ago I posted about a guy I met who, within one weekend, he had slept over at my place, kissed and cuddled with me all night, we talked for hours, went for walks, got food, and eventually did some things that I had never done before (not sex, as I am a virgin, but still pretty far for me). He doesn't have a cellphone bc it's broken, but he said he would get it fixed and then call me. It took him 6 days, but he did call and leave a message, which I couldn't respond to bc it still wasn't his phone, it was someone else's. He called me again on Monday, and we made plans for today. He was supposed to come over to my place, and we would hang out, maybe get food, whatever. It was a casual thing, but I still made sure to shave/wax everything and look generally presentable. I was all excited for it, but he never showed up. It's been 2 hours since he was supposed to be here, and I haven't even heard from him. I know he doesn't have a phone, but he's been able to borrow ones in the past to contact me, so why not now? To be clear, he has always been the more affectionate one out of the two of us. He always wanted to kiss, cuddle, etc. He was the one who suggested plans the last time we hung out. And he was the one who asked me to hang out later in the day on monday, I was just busy so we made plans for today (tuesday) instead.
By adriana26 | Nov 23 2013
We've known each other for about a year. When we first met he was in a relationship so the communication mainly didn't happen, or when it did, it was just friendly and weird, cause the undeniable chemistry was there, but neither of us acted on it. He's been single for a while now, we don't live in the same country so this "long distance fun" thing we're currently trying happens via texting and seeing each other once a month. He came in October, we hung out, one thing led to another... I panicked and told him I'm a virgin, so he didn't push it further. We kept talking after he left, but more rarely. I wanted to give him space & a way out so I didn't pursue him, I waited for him to text first and I never said anything more than superficial nonsense. He came back this month and I was simply ready to do it this time. Only he didn't want to. He kept saying that he doesn't want me to do it because I feel pressured and that I shouldn't rush into it.
By webster | Nov 22 2013
I've posted here a couple times before about a guy, but this is a completely new guy that appears to have entered (and exited) my life very quickly. I already know that he is not interested in pursuing me further, but I still want to post the story here because I'm honestly confused about how I should have handled this/how I can avoid these kinds of guys in the future. I'm in second year university, went to a college bar last Thursday for a night of dancing with some girlfriends. I danced with this guy, we made out, and never left each other the whole night. When I had to leave to walk my friend to the subway, he says he'll come with us, and leaves without even telling his friends. It turns out the subway is closed already, so I offer both him and my friend to crash at my place which is literally next to the subway station. My friend says she'll taxi home, but the guy can't really do that bc he lives almost an hour away. He ends up staying over at my place, though I explicitly tell him that I never just invite random guys over and that hopefully it's ok if we don't have sex that night (I am a virgin at 19, weird, I know, but he seemed ok with it.) He asks if we can at least cuddle, and I tell him that I'm not a very touchy-feely person, but maybe. We both get into my bed, and we talk for the next 2+ hours. Eventually we end up cuddling, kissing, but nothing below the belt. We end up staying in bed until noon the next day, he is constantly kissing me and cuddling with me, and it's not something I'm used to, but I warmed up to it pretty quickly. (I don't have much experience with guys, so it was new to me.) We make plans to hang out that same Saturday, his phone is broken so I write down my number on paper and give it to him, and we set a time/place to meet. I end up being 5 minutes late on Saturday, so he calls me from a random guy's phone to make sure we're still on (This is only important bc it shows that he does have my correct number). We then hang out all day, going for walks, getting food, watching tv on my laptop, and then eventually getting physical. We got to third base, but I stopped it before it turned into sex, and he seemed genuinely ok with that. I joked that he kept doing things for me (sexually) but I wasn't doing much for him bc I didn't know how, but that I would google it and get back to him next time. He said "then maybe we'll need to meet up again" and I agreed and he said he "would like that very much." and we continued kissing, cuddling, etc. Eventually I had to go to dance practice, so we got dressed, walked to the subway, and he kissed me goodbye very intimately. He said his phone was still broken, but that he was going to get it fixed soon and then he would call or text me. I said ok, we kissed again, and then went our separate ways. It has now been about 6 days, practically a full week, and I've heard nothing from him.
By jessie_2 | Oct 08 2013
So, I have been talking to this guy online for 2 days and we were to meet up today. I texted him that I would be a little late, and he replied
Him: "Hey, I have to reschedule, I'm really sorry.. I literally just found out my sister had cervical cancer... I have to go see her.."
Me: "Oh I am really sorry for your sister. Don't worry about it."
Him; "Thanks. I'll message you later to plan another time?"
Me; "Yeah, sure"
So far no text, but usually we talk at night so he'll probably text later. Now the deal is, when we were talking about soccer I asked him which team he supported. He said he used to be with Portugal since his ex is portuguese. So, he is single. Even the profile at that app where I met him ( Skout) says single.
Anyway, I go on fb today and look him up. His profile seems to not be active as he doesn't have a cover pic and old posts from 2012, and is like only pics of him as a couple. So, I thought well he just doesn't use it anymore. I look at his ex's profile. Her relationship status says: ENGAGED. she has recent pics with him, the latest on August and also on Sept had changed her profile pic to one of them as a couple. Reading the people's comments it looks they are a couple. But she has moved to British Columbia, from what I saw. And they are friends on facebook.
Also I don't think he wants a hook up, as when we were talking about the first date he said to me
Him " Don't expect me to bed you on the first meeting. I don't roll that way."
Me " I don't roll that way either. You wish I wanted to do that with you :p "
Him "thats for the 3 date"
Me "Make that 6 months :p "
Him "Thats a joke right?"
Me " Actually not."
Him " thats alright. especially if someone is worth it ;)"
Me "Exactly...anyway it's way too early to talk about that"
I am 20, still a virgin he doesn't know that but he knows I am not looking for a hook up.
By chocopops54 | Sep 15 2013
We met in Asia a month ago doing volunteerwork. He is 4 years younger than me (I'm in my early twenties). He lives in England, I live in France.
After we had dinner with the other volunteers, we went clubbing, had some drinks and he kissed me after I said I was sad for him leaving Asia to go home. He literally picked me up and swept me off my feet. When we got back at the hotel, we talked for hours about university, parents, the way our accents were funny, etc. He told me that he wasn't a fan of relationships because at his young age he finds it useless because he doesn't know who he's going to end up with in life. But he kept on repeating that it was unfortunate that he had to go home. I felt awful for him leaving so soon and he said that it was very shitty.
Back home he contacted me and talked about visiting each other. We're both still studying and are broke after the trip to Asia. He keeps saying that he'll let me know when we could meet up but that "it looks like it won't be anytime soon". Ps: I think he's a virgin.
Most of the time I have to start a conversation, I don't know if he's interested. I don't want to waste my time. I already told him that I won't wait too long and that if he doesn't want to see me, he should just tell me.
By xodaydreamgirlxo | Aug 27 2013
So I’ve known this guy “alex”, since December. Alex is 27, I’m 18. I know that’s a huge age difference, I choose not to care. Alex and I started talking a lot, and then we started hanging out. I would go to his house, which he shares with 4 other male roommates. The first time I went was really awkward, we watched a movie then went upstairs and made out. I didn’t think it went well and didn’t think I’d ever see him again.
Alas, we kept talking, and started to hang out more. I would always go to his house (he can’t really come to mine since I live with my parents). We would screw around for a little, and then go out to get food, or I’d run errands with him and we’d just spend time together. We kept things like this through July. WE DID NOT HAVE SEX. To make a long story short I was a virgin and he didn’t feel comfortable taking my virginity. We got in a couple fights now and then, and a few times I really thought I’d never talk to him again, but we always ended up making up in the end. I met someone new, and decided to stop talking to him for awhile. I couldn’t tell whether he was hurt or not; it’s always been hard to read his feelings. I feel like he puts stuff off and acts like its not a big deal but really actually cares. Anyhow, I lost my virginity to this new guy, broke up with him within 3 weeks (don’t judge me), and texted Alex. I missed him, because I really care about him. We started hanging out again, and had sex in mid july. We’ve been good ever since. This past weekend, my parents were away, so he came over my house after work and slept over. We watched movies and cuddled and got drunk and had sex and it was totally amazing but now I’m totally confused.
I don’t know what I am to this guy. He’s obviously not my boyfriend. We’ve talked about this before we ever started having sex, and while he agreed I was not just a hookup, he said it would be hard to have a legit relationship because of our ages (he never said he wouldn’t try though). I’m hoping that now that we’ve had sex and I’m no longer a virgin, things will seem a tiny bit less complicated.
When we go out he pays for me, he opens doors for me, I’ve met a lot of his friends, he texts me frequently and asks how my day or weekend was, he calls me babe, he’s offered to have me sleep over his house multiple times (I’ve declined), he’s willing to hang out with my friends…
Whenever I mention guys, he gets weird and automatically assumes I have a date or a boyfriend. He’ll be like “oh you have a date” or one day I answered my phone when I was with him and it was my guy friend and he was like “was that your boyfriend?” He plays the stuff off but always brings it up randomly.
I start college again soon, which is super close to him, and he’s already said he plans on coming over my dorm.
I’m sorry this is so long and I probably sound stupid and annoying and just like a total teen girl. I’m just really confused and want to know what’s going on but I’m too chickenshit to ask him. Am I a fuckbuddy? Is it possible I could be more? HELP.