I met this guy a little over a month ago when I was visiting friends in a state 2000 miles away. We hit it off almost immediately and got along so well that someone asked if we'd known each other before. Exchanged numbers, but then I had to return home before we could hang out again. At first the texting was somewhat frequent but sporadic, but for 2 weeks now we've texted basically every single day for hours on end, such that it's almost become routine.

The tone of our interaction has always been laid back because I initially thought he had a girlfriend and history with my friend. Turns out I was wrong on both counts (he *had* just broken up with his girlfriend when we met though). Somewhere along the line things escalated and nudes were exchanged… we've talked about our sexual preferences and such but not to the point of sexting.

He finds me incredibly sexy, which is kind of new for me because I've never seen myself in that light, not even with my previous partners. He even told me about a very vivid dream we had where we had sex, and how amazing it was. Undoubtedly the sexual attraction is there…. Even before the nudes, when we went out as a group he and I were pretty much all over each other on the dance floor. I know for a fact that we'll be having sex whenever we see each other again, and I'm perfectly fine with it.

But besides the palpable sexual attraction, we're still texting nonstop via whatsapp, except when he's swamped at work (and even then he gives me a heads up and responds to everything I say when he's more free). We talk about any and everything, and share links we find interesting with each other. When it felt like it was getting a bit much and he needed a bit of space, I gave him a breather and didn’t contact him till he reached out to me again 1 day later. We've gone back to the norm ever since.

I think he's awesome and I wouldn't mind getting into something more serious. I don't think it's something we can discuss until we see again… but then, he unequivocally blamed the distance for his recent breakup. Because of this I'm wary, but I can't help but like him.

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