By lailaa | Nov 16 2016
I had sex with one of my guy-friends. It was my first time and I wasn't really sure I wanted to do it. He was convincing me or actually... talking me into it. I kept on saying that I wasn't sure. I'm not 100% sure that I was drunk, but I definitely wasn't sober. At some point I even was really dehydrated so I think I must've been sort of drunk.
He said he wouldn't do anything without my permission. He asked me if I wanted to and I eventually gave in and said yes. One of my other friends, also a guy, whom I've told about this said he thinks I'm sexually abused. But I didn't push him off of me and I never said no. At some point, because it was my first time, it really hurt though. So I asked him to stop and he kept going. Can I consider this abuse?
I do feel a lot of guilt and keep on wishing that none of it ever happened and I think especially the guilt part isn't normal...
By mrsjones | Aug 24 2016
Why does my man kiss my stomach right after sex?
By bee_4 | Aug 11 2016
I've started seeing this guy and I'm not sure how I feel about him. He's infatuated by me and has been pursuing me for over a year, but only in the last 3 weeks have things actually progressed.
For most of the year that I've known him I've always thought he had an attractive personality (we have so much in common/ emotional chemistry etc) but he wasn't "my type" and I didn't find him physically attractive.
We began hanging out as friends 3 weeks ago and I noticed an attraction growing from my end. It helped that he has recently shaved off his beard/cut his long hair but I don't know if it was quite as superficial as that. We kissed and it was nice and since then things have progressed super quickly - we've been seeing lots of each other and have also slept together a few times.
By walterbalan | Jul 05 2016
By miri123456789 | Jun 30 2016
a guy friend came up to me in class and made a joke about his dick size and how he was gonna hit me with it. I was shocked and disturbed and went to one of my gal friends for help. Later that day, she, being closer friends to him than I was, talked to him. He told her he wanted to fuck me. She slapped him, and reported this back to me. Several days passed and I decided to email him asking if he realised what he said and how much it had freaked me out. He replied the following morning, apologizing and saying it was all a joke and he never meant to hurt or disturb me. Do you think he is a messed up freak/ player or genuinely sorry.
By agrace | Apr 14 2016
I made a big mistake with a guy who I didn't expect to like as much as I do now. What can I do to fix it if possible?
By samanthah | Mar 26 2016
He asked for anal...what do I do?
By girly_07 | Mar 02 2016
This guy and I have been dating for 2 months now and he still has not DTR. I don't know if it's a little early for that or not but what is bothering me is that I don't know what he wants. We have been sleeping together for a month now or so now... And everytime we do sleep together, he invites me to spend the night over, we cuddles, he often kisses me on the forehead. Even after we have slept together, he still reaches out to me and ask me on dates (outside his place); like we go to the cinema, we go eating, etc. The thing is he texts me once a week or we see eachother once a week (We both are pretty busy during the week). He's the one who starts the conversation all the time; but when we text sometimes he takes 4 hours or even more to reply to my texts... I don't know what to think of that. He's sending me mix signals. Does he still reaches to me because he wants the sex ? Or is he looking for more? I really want to have the dtr talk because I don't want to continue somthing that will lead to nowhere but I'm afraid its too early for that...
By crustylotion | Feb 22 2016
how do i ask my best guy friend to lose our virginititys to each other
By mny | Feb 10 2016
What do guys really think of virginity?
By nicolejones3 | Jan 03 2016
It's only been a week since we exchanged numbers & he's already talking sex & sending penis pictures. Should I stop talking to him?
By mistletoe1 | Jan 01 2016
My Hook up got into a relationship?
By flipphone1986 | Dec 24 2015
I'm a 29 yo female spending New Year's Eve with my boyfriend (he's also 29), at his place, after dinner out, etc., but how do I tell him I don't want to have sex with him yet? Do we talk about it after we've been out, when I get to his house, late at night? Before New Year's Eve? I'm out of town for a couple of days, so I just don't know how to handle this situation. I'm not a virgin but I like him a lot and don't think a month is enough time to know someone as a partner before I sleep with them (sex is strictly emotional for me). He's a great guy, and I'm sure he'd be fine, but I worry that he might think that's what's happening; I just don't want him to feel rejected. 🤔
By allieap | Nov 03 2015
What's up with this out-of-the-blue 2am "Hey what's up?" message?
By michella | Nov 02 2015
I went on a few dates with this guy, and in the beginning, he was all enthusiastic and called me on the cell phone everyday. After we did the deed two weeks ago, not a single text. I mean, come on. I thought we had a good time and he said that himself afterwards. I think men should do all the chasing so I have not texted him. But I would like to see him again, so should I text him? Just a little about me: I'm cute and I know how to keep a man, since after I saw this guy, my old boyfriend texted me and wanted me back. But guess my ego won't let me forget the guy who hasn't texted after we did it. Please respond: should I text him and what should I say?
By thesunnylife | Oct 19 2015
I met this guy at work 2 years ago and we don't work with each other anymore. We would flirt with each other and he would catch him checking me out. I noticed he was always friendly and chatty to me. A friend of mine had a crush on him but, he ignored her and every other girl at work. We started texting each other few months ago. Mainly about work stuff but, as time progresses we started to chat about about common interests and found out we has a lot in common.
Over the last few months he would say someday we should catch up. I thought that it would never happen, then recently he asked me out on an actual date. In one of his texts he said he wants to have sex with me and get to know me even more in person.
He picked me up and we went out for lunch. We had a decent face to face chat. He then took me back to my place where we kissed and hugged passionately before we headed back to my bedroom to have sex. After we had sex we lay down for a while and held each other. We got dressed and had a another chat in the kitchen for a bit. He thenchecked his phone and said that
there was message on his phone saying his father was in hospital and he needed to go and see him. He seemed upset and kept apologetic and said he was sorry he needed to cut short the date. He said he would make it up to me. He did look quite upset and kept shaking his head. He then held my tight and kissed me for a while and appologised again.
I received a text from him that night to say he was sorry for cutting short our day. He told me that his father was OK and was glad he went to see him. He said he had a long but good day. He said that at some point we should meet again for an actual face to face chat. A proper coffee and chat. He then concluded the text with he hoped I also had a good day, and that he hopes I am not too mad at him. I responded to his text and said that I understood why he had to cut short our date and was looking forward to meeting up again for coffee. This happened over a week ago and I haven't heard back from him since. I know he received my message and has even read it as I get notifications when someone reads a text.