I have a friend coming through on a road trip and staying with me for a few days... Once this all is through i'll be free and clear again...

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This is a really weird, scary question- but here goes! I have been on one date with this guy who I met in on tinder. I am 20. His tinder profile says that he is 22 years old. Before meeting up I said to him randomly 'when's your birthday?' and he said he was born in 1994, making him 20. He apologised and said he didn't realise that his age was wrong on there.
However, on the date he accidentally said his birthday was 1998. I said 'excuse me?' and then he said that he was just thinking of his younger sister's birthday. I got very suspicious and did some cyber stalking- all of his friends look young. I googled him (I know, super creepy, I was just desperate to find out if I hooked up with too young for me) and I found a paper from his school, stating that he was in his second last year of school and it seems to be dated from this time LAST YEAR. I'm very confused.
The worst part is its possibly the best date I've ever been on and we kissed. The age of consent in my country is 16 and I'd hate to accuse someone of lying- it just all seems so suspicious.

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Okay so I met this boy last month and we started texting and hooking up (no sex) and we went on dates met each others friends and stuff, so essentially we were dating. Apparently he really liked me and I really like him so then this past saturday he took me to the aquarium and dinner and then we came back to my dorm and just hung out and had fun. We had the talk on how far we've gone and stuff to make sure we were on the same page and he is more experienced than I am if you know what I mean but was fine with what I told him about what I am and am not comfortable doing and when I apologized he said not to worry he just doesn't want me to feel pressured or anything. I then asked him if he had or was hooking up with anyone else and I wouldn't get mad since we never agreed not to I just once again wanted to make sure we were on the same page. He said no and then asked me the same question to which I responded no as well, since I haven't nor have I wanted to. An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive. I said yeah if he wanted to and he said he wanted to as well so there we were now officially a couple. We hung out for a while longer and my roommate and her bf hung out with us then this morning he texted me hey can we talk in private at some point and I asked what about since he was making me nervous and he said about last night and some stuff he said. When he came over to talk he told me that he had lied and felt terrible he was just scared of hurting me since I had just told him the last guy I sort of dated hooked up with someone while we were essentially still sort of dating and how much it hurt. The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning. He told me one of my "best friends" saw him with another girl so he assumed I knew but felt terrible lying so had to come clean and would understand if I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I said he was being too hard on himself we weren't exclusive so it's fine I am just hurt/hate the fact that he lied but respect him for now telling the truth. We agreed to continue dating since I mean first tiff the first day, bound for success at this point...but we do like each other but things are a tad tense since he feels bad and I am sad about it.

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I recently started dating or rather seeing a older man. He...

By notheotherwoman | Feb 04 2015

The other woman older man younger woman

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He was on his phone most of the time during his visit.He lied to...

By theaustrianmissedoutonthis | Feb 02 2015

He kept texting me before his visit,that he couldn't wait to see me and not just to have sex with me.

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There's a guy I was with a few years ago. We knew each other from childhood and ended up dating. Long story short, I broke up with him because he started talking to a girl I'm no liner friends with, AFTER I told him about her. He lied about it but I found out from social media. Confronted him and broke it off. He made it his business to have me in his life some way and after a year or two we became friends.

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I am in the grade above him but he is only like 4 months younger than me. So I don't get to see him that often. And I hadn't texted him for like 7 months and we hadn't seen or talked to each other in forever. But like 3 weeks ago I texted him randomly and we talked for a little while. Then a couple days later for the first time ever he texted me first and we talked until early morning. He told my friend that he thinks I like him, and she told him I don't, but said that I was lying. We haven't ever mentioned it to each other but he has texted me randomly first, and sometimes at really late hours.

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I was seeing someone for 3 months. At first it went well but I'm not the type to fall in love quickly. Fortunately, I found out gradually that he was playing around and also kept seeing other women while seeing me. I decided to dump him because first, I don't want to waste my time and second, after finding out his habit of lying (saying I was the only one for him but also texts other women the same thing) I was emotionally done with him. I wished him luck while walking away voluntarily because without me, he's still happy with other girls. But this guy just keeps texting me out of the blue asking: "Is everything ok with you?"

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So I visited Chicago and met with a close friend of mine and his gf. We went bar hopping on a saturday night and their friends came along too. I ended up being the only lady in the group of 8 (other than my friend's wife).
I started chatting with this 35 year old investment banker. He was thoroughly engaging and paid a lot of attention to me. He teased me a lot and kept making fun of me for still living with my parents. We talked and laughed so much that when the group was walking to the next bar we would lose sight of the group and he had to call them up to find out where they were. This happened Twice in a row when we were moving to the next location. He joked and said it was all my fault and that I was distracting him on purpose. He also told me that one of my jokes was lame. I liked that he didn't pretend to find it funny. While walking on the streets he then started to put his hand on the small of my back. There was no need for him to guide me as it wasn't a crowded street and neither was I drunk. He did this 2 to 3 times. I did not reciprocate by touching him but neither did I move away. He also did impressions of me to make fun of me and after a while he told me he was just messing with me, as if he thought I might be offended? We got to a club and it got a little too noisy to talk. After we tried shouting in each other''s ears a couple of times we gave up trying to have a conversation. He slowly drifted off to another part of the club. After that I had to leave as something had come up and I did not get to say goodbye to the group. The next day I added the rest of the group on facebook and realized he wasn't on it. I IMed one of his buds for his number saying I just wanted to keep in touch since I was leaving the city. His friend then responded that it wasn't a good idea as he had a very serious girlfriend.

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So, I've been talking to this guy I met on a dating site for a couple weeks. He works in my town but is not from here. So on his time off he goes back home. We did meet and hang out before he left for his days off and have been in communication since he has been gone. We have really great conversations and chemistry at least in my opinion. He hasn't given me a reason to not believe anything he tells me but I don't want to be nieve and be fooled. I have been through a lot of bad guys in the past so I find it hard to trust and my mind will get the best of me most times. I haven't had any negative wandering thoughts about him till recently and I don't know if it's just my past trying to trigger false feelings or if I should worry. So here is what has me thinking... He has 4 kids back home and gets all of them on his week off so he has his hands full. He told me up front he could talk during the day but after about 4 he would be unavailable because he would be playing super dad and kept a tight schedule. All week we have been on this schedule and it's been fine until my mind started to wonder. He would be MIA for me all weekend, I get it he has 4 kids to take care of but is it to much to ask or do that he send a short text here and there just to touch base? I can't help but think he may be hiding something or someone back home. Why the strict cut off after certain hours? Is it him being a good dad or a good liar?

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So I met this amazing guy on OkC a month ago and we have been texting on a daily basis ever since. He is really smart and sweet and he always initiates the conversations, which never turn dull or boring. The problem is he is currently very busy :( I've asked him if we're ever going to meet in person, but his answers are vague and so far I don't see him quite interested (he says things like "hey, now that you mention it, I do want to go out with you, but there are some details that need to be taken care of, since we don't live so close to each other" or "hey we could maybe go to this restaurant ... but I'm not sure if I'll be busy next weekend") He also told me he never checks his profile anymore, but I see him online quite often.

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My boyfriend and I have just recently broke up. I'm a compulsive liar and so I haven't spoken to him in a week after the breakup. I do love him very much and I can't stand the fact that I can't be with him. So I just ordered a ticket to move to Portland because I don't know what else to do. I'm unsure if he will forgive me, or if he'll come back because he had so much going on to begin with. I wish I hadn't lied and I learned my lesson on that. It cost me the love of my life. I'm so unsure I don't want to make the wrong move.

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Okay so me and this guy are friends.. And we aren't going out or anything, but a lot of people think we are. Once a random kid in one of our classes came up to is while we were talking and told us we were totally going to get married. And then once me and him were talking and one of his friends gave him a thumbs up. Then just the other day another one of his friends was standing behind me making hearts at him because he was talking to me. I've mentioned to him that a lot of people think we are going out but he doesn't care and is all for just letting them think that. He also gave me some of his icecream at lunch the other day which was sweet. But yet he says he doesn't have a crush on anyone.

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This occurred in snapchat: he asked me if he should take his shirt off. We had a playful dispute and finally I said yes. He took about 10 mirror selfies and each time the pants got lower until you could see the "v" muscle lines. But later he said he was just joking because I said I was confused as to why he would do this since we hadn't talked in a long time.

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so in the beginning of the school year there was this guy I really liked he liked me too( we are both 13), and we texted literally 24-7, but he never asked me out. toward the middle of the year he told me that he liked one of my best friends. My hart sunk! but we still texted at the time just not as much. I decided to move on and I didn't like him anymore. I then told him that my friend who he liked didn't like him. so he told me he was going to move on. we still texted and he flirted with me a looott in class and acted like he liked me. we began texting more. towards the end of the school year I liked him AGAIN. school ended and now that its summer he has been texting me even more. just about 3 weeks ago he texted me asking me who I liked, I finally told him I liked him. then he replied back he likes me too. hours later he texted saying that, that was not him who texted saying he liked me.."it was my friend" and he told me that he was sorry and didn't like anyone right now. So I texted him back saying that I didn't like him either when I really did. now after that, we have been texting more then ever! like last night I stayed up till 12am texting him. It has been a lot of back and forth between us. Now I'm not sure if I still like him. I'm also not sure if he was lying that his friend was the one who texted me about liking me. sorry if that was confusing..?!

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