By overthinker_5 | Jun 26 2016
How do i know what we are exactly, how he feels and how to make it into something more?
By girly_07 | Mar 02 2016
This guy and I have been dating for 2 months now and he still has not DTR. I don't know if it's a little early for that or not but what is bothering me is that I don't know what he wants. We have been sleeping together for a month now or so now... And everytime we do sleep together, he invites me to spend the night over, we cuddles, he often kisses me on the forehead. Even after we have slept together, he still reaches out to me and ask me on dates (outside his place); like we go to the cinema, we go eating, etc. The thing is he texts me once a week or we see eachother once a week (We both are pretty busy during the week). He's the one who starts the conversation all the time; but when we text sometimes he takes 4 hours or even more to reply to my texts... I don't know what to think of that. He's sending me mix signals. Does he still reaches to me because he wants the sex ? Or is he looking for more? I really want to have the dtr talk because I don't want to continue somthing that will lead to nowhere but I'm afraid its too early for that...
By foodislife | Feb 11 2016
What does he want?
By brittdech | Dec 29 2015
Is he into me? Should I give him space for now?
By tindermess | Sep 21 2015
So I went on a date with a guy from tinder last week and I'm wondering where we go from here. We talked for months previously to this. He drove two hours to see me, we went for drinks and he stayed the night. He was very cuddly with me and teased me etc. But he didn't really compliment me which is weird because usually he's super nice. He's snapchatted me a lot since then, so I'm hoping I haven't scared him off. Plus he text me as soon as he got home. He did mention seeing me again at the time and said I could come back with him and stay at his for a bit when he left but I didn't know if the offer was serious. He's mentioned seeing him a little since then but I'm not sure if he's being serious. He has slept with a lot of girls, which makes me not trust him and he's extremely smooth. But when I tell him what's wrong he says he doesn't have a commitment problem and he's just waiting for someone. He has had girlfriends in the past obviously. When I said I couldn't meet him when he originally wanted to and he found out I was seeing someone else he got very sulky. So I used it as an excuse to ask about my insecurities. He said we're too busy at the moment since we're both students but when he graduates he wants more. Which suggests either he's thinking of a future or is just stringing me along. I'm so confused. He deleted tinder before he saw me but he didn't mention it to me I just asked him when I noticed. He brings up seeing me but then he's never that keen to make me visit him.
By confusedx23 | Jun 29 2015
me and my hu buddy (no sex just everything else) we had plans last week but he canceled on me and hour before i was supposed to go. ive snapped him 2 or 3 times over the week and he opened it but didnt answer. now idk if i shuld text him bc i wanna see him or wait for him to text me that he was to hu?
By dancer23 | Apr 20 2015
is it normal for a guy to go two weeks no texting after first date?
By immaunicorn | Apr 14 2015
Is he ignoring me now because I gave it up too easily?
By julianakaarud | Apr 07 2015
I `ve kissed alot of frogs on Tinder. Figuratively speaking. But about two weeks ago I`ve met a guy on Tinder and the conversation went over several days before he asked me out for coffee. We went for coffee and he paid. He talked a lot about himself and seemed a bit nervous, but asked a lot questions too. We connected over common music interests and other common hobbies. Some hours later he went home with me and we hung out a couple of hours before he kissed me. Nothing more happened. When I drove him to the buss stop he asked me to come visit him. To weeks later I did. It was pretty early so he made us breakfast before we just hung out at his place. We talked about a trip he went on a year ago and he showed me some pictures from that trip and some family photos. That went on for about and hour before went out and he showed me around town. We made out when I was there, but nothing more happend. The day ended with him making us pancakes before I went home. When he made that batter for the pancakes he held me and kissed me while he was cooking. Before we said goodbye he said lets meet again sometime and update me on how school is going because I talked about a internship I was starting the following day. When I sat on the bus home I texted him and said thank you for today and that I love meet up again. One day has passed and no response. There was alot of sexual tension between us and I am bit afraid that this was just another hookup. I am not a big fan of the blurry lines between a hookup and a date. Was he just looking for the girlfriend experience for a day without further commitment? I am overthinking why he has not responded? Was this just another Tinder hookup? And above all will there be a third date? Tinders reputation as a hookup is really making me overanalyzing the situation. To clear to I am not looking for just a hookup.
By sennter | Apr 01 2015
I have been texting a guy for a week. He hasn't responded. We met 8 years ago in a college which I left and he stayed. We hooked up once six years ago. We lost contact then. I only got his number a week ago. I still feel a duck imprint bond towards him since he was my first. I want us to be friends again, we should only hook up if we are committed. How do I get him to respond and text me. Calling seems scary. Thanks.
By stylishgal | Mar 27 2015
he is my best friends best friend. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day. we both made it clear to the common best friend that all we wanted was a casual relationship. we texted and snap chatted for a couple of days after then he asked me to dinner. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. we hooked up but he didn't call after. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work.
By amaris91 | Mar 18 2015
We've been seeing each other for two weeks. Out of all those days he's usually texted me first (on two occasions, I started the conversation or responded to his text from the night before) and on three days (in the beginning), there were no texts at all.
We seem to get along really well- he's alluded to other things we should do together and there's been a tone of laughing and deep convos too!
We went on three amazing dates (all initiated by him) and, at the last one, we hooked up (made out heaavilyyyyy but nothing below the belt). He texted me when he got home right away- I responded and he replied with a sentence that I didn't need to reply to... so I went to sleep.
That was on Monday evening. It's now Wednesday morning and I haven't heard from him.
By jf123 | Mar 09 2015
Okay so I met this boy last month and we started texting and hooking up (no sex) and we went on dates met each others friends and stuff, so essentially we were dating. Apparently he really liked me and I really like him so then this past saturday he took me to the aquarium and dinner and then we came back to my dorm and just hung out and had fun. We had the talk on how far we've gone and stuff to make sure we were on the same page and he is more experienced than I am if you know what I mean but was fine with what I told him about what I am and am not comfortable doing and when I apologized he said not to worry he just doesn't want me to feel pressured or anything. I then asked him if he had or was hooking up with anyone else and I wouldn't get mad since we never agreed not to I just once again wanted to make sure we were on the same page. He said no and then asked me the same question to which I responded no as well, since I haven't nor have I wanted to. An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive. I said yeah if he wanted to and he said he wanted to as well so there we were now officially a couple. We hung out for a while longer and my roommate and her bf hung out with us then this morning he texted me hey can we talk in private at some point and I asked what about since he was making me nervous and he said about last night and some stuff he said. When he came over to talk he told me that he had lied and felt terrible he was just scared of hurting me since I had just told him the last guy I sort of dated hooked up with someone while we were essentially still sort of dating and how much it hurt. The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning. He told me one of my "best friends" saw him with another girl so he assumed I knew but felt terrible lying so had to come clean and would understand if I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I said he was being too hard on himself we weren't exclusive so it's fine I am just hurt/hate the fact that he lied but respect him for now telling the truth. We agreed to continue dating since I mean first tiff the first day, bound for success at this point...but we do like each other but things are a tad tense since he feels bad and I am sad about it.
By millemarie | Mar 05 2015
Is this a positive text to receive after a hookup?