By immaunicorn | Apr 14 2015
Is he ignoring me now because I gave it up too easily?
By julianakaarud | Apr 07 2015
I `ve kissed alot of frogs on Tinder. Figuratively speaking. But about two weeks ago I`ve met a guy on Tinder and the conversation went over several days before he asked me out for coffee. We went for coffee and he paid. He talked a lot about himself and seemed a bit nervous, but asked a lot questions too. We connected over common music interests and other common hobbies. Some hours later he went home with me and we hung out a couple of hours before he kissed me. Nothing more happened. When I drove him to the buss stop he asked me to come visit him. To weeks later I did. It was pretty early so he made us breakfast before we just hung out at his place. We talked about a trip he went on a year ago and he showed me some pictures from that trip and some family photos. That went on for about and hour before went out and he showed me around town. We made out when I was there, but nothing more happend. The day ended with him making us pancakes before I went home. When he made that batter for the pancakes he held me and kissed me while he was cooking. Before we said goodbye he said lets meet again sometime and update me on how school is going because I talked about a internship I was starting the following day. When I sat on the bus home I texted him and said thank you for today and that I love meet up again. One day has passed and no response. There was alot of sexual tension between us and I am bit afraid that this was just another hookup. I am not a big fan of the blurry lines between a hookup and a date. Was he just looking for the girlfriend experience for a day without further commitment? I am overthinking why he has not responded? Was this just another Tinder hookup? And above all will there be a third date? Tinders reputation as a hookup is really making me overanalyzing the situation. To clear to I am not looking for just a hookup.
By sennter | Apr 01 2015
I have been texting a guy for a week. He hasn't responded. We met 8 years ago in a college which I left and he stayed. We hooked up once six years ago. We lost contact then. I only got his number a week ago. I still feel a duck imprint bond towards him since he was my first. I want us to be friends again, we should only hook up if we are committed. How do I get him to respond and text me. Calling seems scary. Thanks.
By stylishgal | Mar 27 2015
he is my best friends best friend. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day. we both made it clear to the common best friend that all we wanted was a casual relationship. we texted and snap chatted for a couple of days after then he asked me to dinner. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. we hooked up but he didn't call after. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work.
By mfh | Mar 26 2015
Why did he leave without saying a word?
By 2isbetterthan1 | Mar 24 2015
I started talking to this guy again that I met some time ago while I was out. We hadn't talked for around 2 years and today he was helping me study for my math exam. Later, he asked me about my past relationships/old flames/sexual history but I told him I didn't want to tell him that info until after we had gotten to know each other more. When I asked him about his history, he said he has had a lot of hookups but nothing serious. However, he told me that now that he's 25 he's ready to get serious. He said he feels that there's a time to have fun and now that he's had his fun he wants to settle down now.
By amaris91 | Mar 18 2015
We've been seeing each other for two weeks. Out of all those days he's usually texted me first (on two occasions, I started the conversation or responded to his text from the night before) and on three days (in the beginning), there were no texts at all.
We seem to get along really well- he's alluded to other things we should do together and there's been a tone of laughing and deep convos too!
We went on three amazing dates (all initiated by him) and, at the last one, we hooked up (made out heaavilyyyyy but nothing below the belt). He texted me when he got home right away- I responded and he replied with a sentence that I didn't need to reply to... so I went to sleep.
That was on Monday evening. It's now Wednesday morning and I haven't heard from him.
By sarah9874 | Mar 15 2015
How often would you communicate with fwb/ fuck buddy/ casual relationship? Do you touch base in between hook ups?
By jf123 | Mar 09 2015
Okay so I met this boy last month and we started texting and hooking up (no sex) and we went on dates met each others friends and stuff, so essentially we were dating. Apparently he really liked me and I really like him so then this past saturday he took me to the aquarium and dinner and then we came back to my dorm and just hung out and had fun. We had the talk on how far we've gone and stuff to make sure we were on the same page and he is more experienced than I am if you know what I mean but was fine with what I told him about what I am and am not comfortable doing and when I apologized he said not to worry he just doesn't want me to feel pressured or anything. I then asked him if he had or was hooking up with anyone else and I wouldn't get mad since we never agreed not to I just once again wanted to make sure we were on the same page. He said no and then asked me the same question to which I responded no as well, since I haven't nor have I wanted to. An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive. I said yeah if he wanted to and he said he wanted to as well so there we were now officially a couple. We hung out for a while longer and my roommate and her bf hung out with us then this morning he texted me hey can we talk in private at some point and I asked what about since he was making me nervous and he said about last night and some stuff he said. When he came over to talk he told me that he had lied and felt terrible he was just scared of hurting me since I had just told him the last guy I sort of dated hooked up with someone while we were essentially still sort of dating and how much it hurt. The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning. He told me one of my "best friends" saw him with another girl so he assumed I knew but felt terrible lying so had to come clean and would understand if I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I said he was being too hard on himself we weren't exclusive so it's fine I am just hurt/hate the fact that he lied but respect him for now telling the truth. We agreed to continue dating since I mean first tiff the first day, bound for success at this point...but we do like each other but things are a tad tense since he feels bad and I am sad about it.
By millemarie | Mar 05 2015
Is this a positive text to receive after a hookup?
By brebre_2 | Mar 04 2015
Okay so me and my ex broke up a month and a half ago. He said he broke up with me cause he lost feelings. I'm still in love with him. Well we still talk sometimes but last night got pretty serious, we were flirting and he was sending me snapchats and putting emojis. It was around 12am, he plays around and says he's coming over to my house I didn't believe him at first and I said prove it, he sends me a snapchat saying come outside. So yes he came to my house, so I get in the car with him, we just sit there, we talk for a little but I mess with him like I always do, then he says I'm gonna have to come over there and beat you up if you keep messing with me, (so naturally I keep messing with him) he ends up slidding Over with me in the passenger seat, he then reaches over makes the seat lean back and then gets on top of me, he just lays there then he hugs me, and then next thing I know his lips are in mine, we kiss, it was so sweet.. Then we start making out it gets pretty intense, he's still on top of me and I have my legs wrapped around his waist and next thing I know he has a boner and I can feel it right on me.. He starts moving up and down on me and I don't stop him. It gets pretty intense from there on.. We take our shirts off and he kisses all over my neck and chest, and then we starting kissing again and I kiss his neck and every so often if here him say "baby". It makes me want to cry cause I know deep down none of this is right but I just missed him so much.. So we continue.. He ends up fingering me.. And that's as far as it went but I asked him why he came, and he told me "honestly, so I could see you" I didn't know what to say so I said "I'm glad". And then it's now 2:15am, we have school in the morning, so he said he has to go, he then pulls me in for a kiss and hug, I didnt hug him right cause I just didn't know what to think about all that just happened, so he pulls me away and says "your acting weird, what's wrong?" I say "you told me you didn't love me anymore... I just having a hard time trying to make sense of what just happened.." He doesn't respond for about 3 min.. I just sit there and then I'm about to get out and go back inside I go to give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek, when I hug him he holds me tight and says "i still do love you... But you'd get pissed at me if I told you the real reason.." I said "no I won't please tell me" "he says I just felt suffocated by your mom, she was always up in our business and never would let you come to my house, I tried to think of a way to work thru it but I couldn't, so I'm waiting till you move out" (which is only two years away.) but I said "I knew that might've been part of it too" but I'm glad he told me.. But I got out and went inside, and went to bed I texted him and said goodnight like 10 min after he left, he said goodnight. But now I woke up this morning and was googling everything on "what happens when you hook up with your ex" they all say it ends badly and all that.. But now I don't know if I should text him first, like if I did what should I say? Should I even talk to him or should I let him contact me? I don't want him thinking, "oh she must not care she only wanted that stuff we did in the car, not me" but then again I know if think that if he didn't text me after... Help me what should I do and how should I handle this?
By lpioiuy | Feb 28 2015
so me and this guy have been best friends for years and we've always been kind of attracted to each other and then one night we were at a party and me and him were dancing and he asked me to hook up and I asked him what about the other girl that he had gotten with a week or two ago and if they were exclusive or not and he said they weren't exclusive and that it was a one time thing and that he wanted me so then we hooked up and it turns out the other girl thought they were a thing and it started a fight between all three of us and he fixed things with the other girl right away and now a month later the boy only texted me to apologize and has made no other effort since Im not sure what to do or say because i miss being friends with him because he's been one of my closest guy friends up until now and always been there for me but he's changed a lot recently and what he did was really wrong
By helpmeplz12 | Feb 24 2015
Did he ask me out or dump me or what???
By batdico | Feb 24 2015
there is this guy i hookup up with two years ago. he went to australia for a year so i didn't see him a while. than about two weeks ago we saw each other at a birthday party of a mutual friend. as i was solo nervous about the situation, he was more. he couldn't look at my direction the whole night. so i texted him during the nite that he should not keep his eyes off the whole time. after that he invited me to drink coffee on the weekend but it was valentines day so i think it was a bit challenging, so on sunday he texted that we could meet up on the coming week sometime. but the last weekend i didn't hear anything from him. and so far this week nothing at all. i don't get this. he was the one who asked for a coffee but now silence...