By tindermess | Sep 21 2015
So I went on a date with a guy from tinder last week and I'm wondering where we go from here. We talked for months previously to this. He drove two hours to see me, we went for drinks and he stayed the night. He was very cuddly with me and teased me etc. But he didn't really compliment me which is weird because usually he's super nice. He's snapchatted me a lot since then, so I'm hoping I haven't scared him off. Plus he text me as soon as he got home. He did mention seeing me again at the time and said I could come back with him and stay at his for a bit when he left but I didn't know if the offer was serious. He's mentioned seeing him a little since then but I'm not sure if he's being serious. He has slept with a lot of girls, which makes me not trust him and he's extremely smooth. But when I tell him what's wrong he says he doesn't have a commitment problem and he's just waiting for someone. He has had girlfriends in the past obviously. When I said I couldn't meet him when he originally wanted to and he found out I was seeing someone else he got very sulky. So I used it as an excuse to ask about my insecurities. He said we're too busy at the moment since we're both students but when he graduates he wants more. Which suggests either he's thinking of a future or is just stringing me along. I'm so confused. He deleted tinder before he saw me but he didn't mention it to me I just asked him when I noticed. He brings up seeing me but then he's never that keen to make me visit him.
By confusedx23 | Jun 29 2015
me and my hu buddy (no sex just everything else) we had plans last week but he canceled on me and hour before i was supposed to go. ive snapped him 2 or 3 times over the week and he opened it but didnt answer. now idk if i shuld text him bc i wanna see him or wait for him to text me that he was to hu?
By mfh | Apr 22 2015
Hooking up for a year..does he like me?
By dancer23 | Apr 20 2015
is it normal for a guy to go two weeks no texting after first date?
By immaunicorn | Apr 14 2015
Is he ignoring me now because I gave it up too easily?
By emisananimal | Apr 11 2015
I've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months now and a month before we met, he was trying to rekindle things with his ex girlfriend of 5 years after two years of being broken up. She basically wanted hookups from him when things weren't working out with other guys She was seeing. He still had feelings for her and talked about her all the time and shared all these memories. I finally told him I didn't like it because I didn't bring up other guys and i felt friendzoned. When we went out last night, she was there with her New guy and he is acquaintances with New guy not through her though and his other friend was with them. So he runs over and makes a point to talk to the two guys that she's sitting with. Then she walks by when were sitting down and he's like "hey! Come here. How he you been? Why did you delete me on facebook?"he didn't introduce me or act like I was there. As soon as she sees her new guy talking to him She runs over and grabs her guy and hugs him...and my guy doesn't make the effort to showbhes found something better than a girl who uses him and treats him bad. Than on the way home, he still cares about her. But when we got inside he told me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. This whole thing kinda bothered me.
By somerandomgirl_2 | Apr 07 2015
I was at a party last night and I guy I have met once before trough friends was there. I have just got out of a relationship but I find him attractive and we were talking quite a lot. Once everyone was pretty drunk I was talking to one of his friends and the friends said that the guy I think is cute thought I looked really got. The guy I think is cute (let's call him Sam) then told everyone how hot he thought I was. Later in the night we played spin the bottle and after a few goes (we were playing it so that whoever it landed on had to kiss for at least 5 seconds) he kept spinning it to make it deliberately land on us two. He is a bloody good kisser so I wasn't complaining. I had to leave earlier than most people but before I went he said I looked stunning and thanks for a great night. QUESTION, was he just enjoying a hookup at the party or do you think there may be some attraction? He didn't ask for my number which I thought was a bit weird but I will see him regularly because we have the same friendship group now. And he was pretty drunk but the end of the night, to the point were he went to sleep so I stayed with him to make sure he was alright and he woke up for a couple of seconds, grabbed my hand and then fell asleep holding my hand.
By julianakaarud | Apr 07 2015
I `ve kissed alot of frogs on Tinder. Figuratively speaking. But about two weeks ago I`ve met a guy on Tinder and the conversation went over several days before he asked me out for coffee. We went for coffee and he paid. He talked a lot about himself and seemed a bit nervous, but asked a lot questions too. We connected over common music interests and other common hobbies. Some hours later he went home with me and we hung out a couple of hours before he kissed me. Nothing more happened. When I drove him to the buss stop he asked me to come visit him. To weeks later I did. It was pretty early so he made us breakfast before we just hung out at his place. We talked about a trip he went on a year ago and he showed me some pictures from that trip and some family photos. That went on for about and hour before went out and he showed me around town. We made out when I was there, but nothing more happend. The day ended with him making us pancakes before I went home. When he made that batter for the pancakes he held me and kissed me while he was cooking. Before we said goodbye he said lets meet again sometime and update me on how school is going because I talked about a internship I was starting the following day. When I sat on the bus home I texted him and said thank you for today and that I love meet up again. One day has passed and no response. There was alot of sexual tension between us and I am bit afraid that this was just another hookup. I am not a big fan of the blurry lines between a hookup and a date. Was he just looking for the girlfriend experience for a day without further commitment? I am overthinking why he has not responded? Was this just another Tinder hookup? And above all will there be a third date? Tinders reputation as a hookup is really making me overanalyzing the situation. To clear to I am not looking for just a hookup.
By sennter | Apr 01 2015
I have been texting a guy for a week. He hasn't responded. We met 8 years ago in a college which I left and he stayed. We hooked up once six years ago. We lost contact then. I only got his number a week ago. I still feel a duck imprint bond towards him since he was my first. I want us to be friends again, we should only hook up if we are committed. How do I get him to respond and text me. Calling seems scary. Thanks.
By stylishgal | Mar 27 2015
he is my best friends best friend. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day. we both made it clear to the common best friend that all we wanted was a casual relationship. we texted and snap chatted for a couple of days after then he asked me to dinner. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. we hooked up but he didn't call after. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work.
By mfh | Mar 26 2015
Why did he leave without saying a word?
By 2isbetterthan1 | Mar 24 2015
I started talking to this guy again that I met some time ago while I was out. We hadn't talked for around 2 years and today he was helping me study for my math exam. Later, he asked me about my past relationships/old flames/sexual history but I told him I didn't want to tell him that info until after we had gotten to know each other more. When I asked him about his history, he said he has had a lot of hookups but nothing serious. However, he told me that now that he's 25 he's ready to get serious. He said he feels that there's a time to have fun and now that he's had his fun he wants to settle down now.
By amaris91 | Mar 18 2015
We've been seeing each other for two weeks. Out of all those days he's usually texted me first (on two occasions, I started the conversation or responded to his text from the night before) and on three days (in the beginning), there were no texts at all.
We seem to get along really well- he's alluded to other things we should do together and there's been a tone of laughing and deep convos too!
We went on three amazing dates (all initiated by him) and, at the last one, we hooked up (made out heaavilyyyyy but nothing below the belt). He texted me when he got home right away- I responded and he replied with a sentence that I didn't need to reply to... so I went to sleep.
That was on Monday evening. It's now Wednesday morning and I haven't heard from him.
By sarah9874 | Mar 15 2015
How often would you communicate with fwb/ fuck buddy/ casual relationship? Do you touch base in between hook ups?