By caligirl07 | Feb 24 2015
So, I matched this very attractive guy on tinder. We hit it off pretty well. He asked me to hangout with him, but I let him know that I wasn't ready to hangout with someone I didn't really know. He asked for my number to text me so we text for a little over a week. He was charming, sweet, and good with his words (not in a sexual way). He asked if I've hook up with someone on tinder which we both haven't. He told me he wanted to hangout with me, but not until I'm ready. So we hung out last night, and he was sweet and complimented me a lot, and I complimented him as well. We ended up hooking up, and later on that night went our own ways and he told me to hit him up whenever. He did not text me after as well as today. Should I text him first and talk to him, or should I let him text me first??
By taylor222 | Feb 22 2015
I matched this guy on tinder and we had a lot in common off the bat so he asked for my number to text me. He texts me fairly regularly, sometimes it's questions to get to know each other better, some times its witty small talk, other times its flirty, but we're meeting for the first time soon. He doesn't always initiate conversation but always replies to me instantly. He didn't suggest the meetup, I did. He mentions things he would do with me (not sexually) like "I'm a good cook I can show you how to make this" and "Oh we both like the same music we should hit up a show" but sometimes does bring up the sexual thing and I tease him a lot. I mean he is a guy I've met from tinder and we've only been talking for a little over a week, and only text he hasn't asked for facebook or other social media.
By hll1309 | Feb 17 2015
Hi! Broke up with my ex in December and we were hooking up for a little while after we broke up. I decided it wasn't a good idea and pulled away without telling him anything. It had been a month since we talked. He called me one day randomly and I missed his call. I called him back the next day and he never responded so I left it alone. Another few weeks went by and then I received this text from him and we talked a little. I'm really missing him and wanting to get back together just not sure what he's thinking and why he would just text me saying that and nothing else. What do I do?
By brendog | Feb 17 2015
He hasn't texted me back
By lagunabchgirl007_2 | Feb 16 2015
I have 2 questions:
1. How do I end it with this guy?
2. Do I tell his best friend^ that I like him?
By lucy_4 | Feb 15 2015
Should i answer his text after we hooked up
By batdico | Feb 14 2015
there is this guy i hooked up with 2 years ago. on wednesday we saw each other at a birthday party(we had no contact until then) but he was so nervous that he couldn't look at my direction the whole night. so i messaged him that he shouldnt have to turn his eyes away. than he asked if i wanna go out for coffee this weekend. surely i agreed but today he didn't write anything.
By rose1222 | Feb 13 2015
I met R two years ago at a party. I wasn't into him, but we talked for a bit, and he asked me out. I wasn't really interested, but after stalling him for a month, I went out with him. At the end of the date, he walked me home and I thought he was nice, but I still wasn't attracted to him. It should have ended there, except that my friend (who was also at the party) liked him. I tried to set them up, but R didn't like. Instead, R and I became friends. We're not super-close, but we hang out now and then.
Lately, I had been getting frustrated with dating and not meeting anyone I like. R is always telling me to loosen up a bit and not be as hard on guys and lower my standards/expectations. I've always been the good girl who does everything right, but that approach clearly isn't working. Now I just want to do something bad and see if it shakes things up a bit. I am at a point where I am so frustrated that I want to just have a mindless fling, but I don’t want to do it with a random stranger. I thought R may be a good candidate because I feel pretty comfortable around him and R has engaged in one-night stands regularly, and we’re both single. Plus, we’re friends, but we’re not that close of friends, so I was willing to risk the friendship. And clearly, R was attracted to me when we first met…
R asked me to go to dinner a few days ago and I agreed. He gave me the same dating advice (to loosen up) and toward the end of the night I said “OK, I am going to take your advice. Let me try this.” I leaned in to kiss him and he freaked out! He said “Don’t, this is a really bad idea.” He also said that he had been having a lot of one-night stands and it messed with his head and he really doesn’t feel well and that he needs to clear his head. He said we should think about it and not rush in. And I was thinking that I don’t really want to think; I need mindless! It’s just ironic that the one time I am ready to do a mindless fling, my guy friend who regularly engages in one-night stands isn’t in the same place!
By a_t1224 | Feb 13 2015
Alright so this guy and I have known each other for about 5 years , we dated when we first met for a little over a year and it just didn't work out because we were both young and dumb . We always stayed in touch and at one point tried being something along the lines of friends with benefits just to see if maybe the "no strings attached" approach would work better for us . It didn't , there was too much of a history and it just felt weird plus I was afraid of things only being physical .After that we kind of backed off of each other for a while but the past few days we've been talking again and he asked if we could together, not hook up ,but like how things used to be . I still care about him more than anything and I don't want my emotions to fool me here .
By mfh | Feb 11 2015
He said he's going to be up North this Valentine's weekend…BS or not?
By megr339 | Feb 10 2015
So he and I dated a while back but never officially so I left but he would get jealous and check in with me randomly. We hooked up a couple of times twice of which were when he was in a relationship (I didn't know that he was either time) I know I'm stupid for those times. But he said that I was always part of his life because he cared about me and doesn't want to loose me. (This is all when I confronted him about cheating on his girlfriend with me.)
By yuju5 | Jan 31 2015
AHH I'm still confused. After hooking up with a friend in college he calls and i know what he wants, ORAL and I'm not allowing that to happen again so last night he called and i said I will not come over he was okay with that; however, he is in a frat and he is experimenting with heavy drugs and he needs someone to tell him the truth. I want to be that person but because we are more friends with benefits that real friends I don't have a bases to tell him what to do I want to help him but I don't know how to. I would hate to see a great person fall into an addiction because we live so close and it would make me feel a little guilty.
By applepie14 | Jan 29 2015
I sent a text to a guy I've been hooking up with very specific and NSFW details of what I want to do to him.
By ihaveadalmatian | Jan 29 2015
I hooked up with a guy over Christmas break. A couple of weeks late he found me on Facebook and asked for my number. We texted for a but, and he said 'we should hang out some time' more than once. I always responded enthusiastically, but no definite plans were made. Now he has stopped texting me. Should I reach out to him now? Or wait it out? It's been about a week.
By wwuaxo | Jan 25 2015
Guy texts right after hooking up?
By mshan_ | Jan 22 2015
What does he mean by "any guy would date you?" Is that him dropping a hint that he'd date me?