By ihaveadalmatian | Jan 29 2015
I hooked up with a guy over Christmas break. A couple of weeks late he found me on Facebook and asked for my number. We texted for a but, and he said 'we should hang out some time' more than once. I always responded enthusiastically, but no definite plans were made. Now he has stopped texting me. Should I reach out to him now? Or wait it out? It's been about a week.
By wwuaxo | Jan 25 2015
Guy texts right after hooking up?
By mshan_ | Jan 22 2015
What does he mean by "any guy would date you?" Is that him dropping a hint that he'd date me?
By ah4773 | Jan 21 2015
Getting a vibe off my unoffical friend with benefits. Not sure how to read into it
By jms792 | Jan 21 2015
Is he saying what he thinks I want to hear?
By char_2 | Jan 14 2015
My work friend had been telling me about how perfect i'd be for this guy. She said he was really nice but had had trouble with crazy past girlfriends and was looking for a good girl. I don't like set ups so ignored her then one day she got him to txt me and the conversation flowed. We got on so well and had really good banter, so he asked me out. Our first date was amazing, we went out for drinks, walked a popular street for christmas lights and then talked untill 4.30am. The first time we had sex was undescribable, I have never felt anything like it. We continued seeing eachother 3-4 times a week and each time was so much fun. He spent Christmas with me and even made the effort to get dressed up and bring me a present. We already made seperate new years plans but on the night i was snapchatted pics and videos of him hooking up with another girl. In the morning he txted me but I was really upset, he apologised profusely and said he missed me and couldn't wait to see me, sent heaps of x's blah blah.. then when I got back he put off seeing me until I ran into him at a party on the 3rd. He was drunk so we talked for a bit but didn't spend long together. He came over on the Tuesday with a bottle of wine and said sorry again and it was back to normal. On sunday I was out and heard his friend saying he had slept with a girl from the party we had been at the previous Saturday. I was upset so I messaged him. He asked where I had heard it and said that I wasn't his girlfriend and that because we never had the 'talk' he wasn't sure what I wanted. He then sent me this 'I think it is best if we end it. I would never be able to treat you how you should be. Id like to be friends if you want x'
By wwuaxo | Jan 14 2015
I met this guy on Tinder and we talked for a week and a half before meeting. We texted everyday before we met. He had told me that he seemed to always get cheated on or lied to, so I was waiting to meet him before making a final call of whether or not I truly liked him (as online dating goes, you may like talking to someone but once you meet there may be no sparks). Before we met he seemed to be so sure that he knew he would like me, saying he liked talking to me. Well...prior to our meeting after one tipsy night of drinking the conversation turned to sex. I then steered away from that topic as I don't do hookups...I can get easily emotionally attached, which I told him. When we finally meet we have some drinks and we kiss goodnight. He texts me right after saying he had fun so we decide to hang out the next night. Before that night he's texting me during the day, kind of teasing me about what he should expect. Long story short, we did mess around a bit on night two but no sex. He again texts me right after saying it was so great and whatnot and practically begging to get laid the next time. He texted me the next evening and we kind of went back and forth for 3-4 hours with some sexual innuendo toward the end. I decided to be upfront with him and tell him I was currently off birth control (and that I could get back on it again) so he would need to bring some protection if we were to have sex. He seemed ok with the fact.
By jerseygirl609 | Jan 13 2015
Met a guy online. We have been texting every day for two months. He always initiates the texts. We have gone on 3 dates and seem to have went great. I recently text if he had plans the following night and didn't get a response back until the next morning. I was a bit annoyed as it usually doesn't take him that long to respond. I text him later that evening and I haven't heard back from him. It's been two days. I'm just confused as to how or why he'd text every day for two months and then just stop. And no, I haven't hooked up with him besides kissing so I don't think its that.
By katiewilliams9237 | Jan 11 2015
I met this guy back in November at a bar. He's a security guard and he was stationed at this parking lot. We sat in his car and talked for hours and we ended up hooking up. He drove me home and texted me all the next day. We tried to meet up again, but he works crazy hours and a bunch of people at his company quit so he had to stay late and got called in to work early a lot. Now his company has him working at a lounge my friends and I go to a lot, so we'll talk when he has a minute at work.
Because he's so busy, he doesn't really answer my texts at all, but he says he doesn't answer anyone back, not even his mom. I didn't really believe it at first, but he answers when I call him, and he sometimes calls me, so I know he's not ignoring me or anything. Also, he does make an effort to see me. A few days before Christmas, I was flying off to Chicago to see my parents, and he drove over to my apartment straight after work to surprise me. Also, I just got back home after my trip and he came over this morning after work, even though he worked a really long shift and was exhausted. I really like him and when we first started talking, he told me he thought I was special and interesting and he liked me, but this morning when he thanked me for doing him a favor, he said that I wars "a great friend" and that I "mean a lot to him".
By nikki17 | Jan 06 2015
I went to a rave in on new year's eve with my friend Alexandra. And i hooked up with about 3 guys but all they were doing was touching me so i immediately walked away from them. However, there was this one guy named Christian who's 20 and who also gave me the spark i've never felt in forever even though we were only together for 3 hours during the rave.
You would expect yourself at the rave just dancing all the time, but we walked, we talked, we danced and and he would always kiss my forehead whenever we would end up laughing at something. I haven't been in a relationship for about 3 years now, is that why maybe I'm feeling this way? He gave me butterflies and i still feel them right now.
We kissed during the countdown, and after he kissed me on my forehead and i find that really respectful.
After the rave, he told me " i really like you" but i don't know he really meant that and just hugged me but that time i had to go. I asked for his number but i lost it and he told me to call him.
I cant stop thinking about him. No matter what i do he'll always end up on my mind. I found him in Facebook and Instagram but i don't know if i should message him because i don't even know if he is feeling the same way that i do.
Please help me!
By mariah2014 | Jan 03 2015
Hi. I'm 23 years old and have never had a real boyfriend before. I have dating a lot of guys and have talked to them and messed around with them..but nothing serious ever comes out of our interaction with each other. For the past year that I have lived on campus, I have noticed that I have attracted a lot of athletes and they never want relationships. They just seem to want to make out, hookup (have sex with me), or mess around. It's starting to become a track record where every guy who I meet on campus or when I go out to a bar is an athlete or someone who just wants to hookup and doesn't want a relationship. I actually want a relationship, but I don't want to tell the guy who I'm talking to that I'm looking for a relationship because I don't want to make things awkward between the guy and I. There was a guy who I was talking to for 3 months who I met On Tinder who I thought I was close to being in a relationship with a different he was supposed to come visit me at home during the summer (we lived an hour away from each other) and he never came to visit. He said he was busy working 2 jobs, 7 days a week so he wasn't sure when he could come and see me. Nonetheless, he ended up going to another school Out of state so it wouldn't have worked out anyways between us. He seemed to have been against us being in a relationship when I had asked him what we were, 3 months into us talking. He also tried to sleep with me 3 times before the summer came but I told him I wasn't ready. Then there was one guy who I lost my virginity to stopped talking to me after we slept together. I thought guys stuck around for the most part after that happened.
By anita1107 | Jan 01 2015
Well back in october i met this guy online and he seemed pretty cool. I had talked to other guys before where i met him but the other guys always wanted me to send them naked pics n it was so annoying but this guy never asked for that instead we had really good normal conversations. We exhanged numbers n since then we talk n text everyday. We live in two different states. We are about 7 hours away from each other and we have already met and hooked up. We are apparently dating not in a relationship but were basically dedicated to eachother and i know he doesnt talk to anyone else cuz hes always texting me throughout the day and calls me. Im seriously falling for him and he tells me sweet things everyday on how he loves the way i am and that im sweet and how he wants to give me the respect and the opprotunity to be myself. I had a very messed up relationship before with the father of my twin daughters where i was cheated on and mentally abused n he also had a messy relationship and hes still struggling with the mother of his son (his kid is also 3 like my daughters) where she doesnt let him see his son. Well lately there have been days like today in which he hasnt contacted me. The last text i got was from 2pm in which he said he loves me and he would normally call me every night after i put my daughters to bed but he didnt call tonight or texted. I know he has his son tonight so i know he is busy but i guess there are days that im thinking hes loosing interest n i kust dont know what to think of it cuz im really falling for him.
By guysarecomplicated | Dec 31 2014
So i met this guy at a music show early in December, it was a friendly conversation at first, we exchanged numbers without any intention of hooking up at all. He lives two states away and was visiting for the weekend. We hung out everyday of the weekend and then before he left we hooked up. The next morning before he left to go home, he asked me to keep in touch and so we did. It was a Sunday.
The next day, he texted me (at 2.43 pm - he knows/prob read HeTexted book) to check which big music show I'm going to next so he can visit here. We didn't actually decide on which show until the next week. So we decided that he would visit next week, from Thursday till Sunday. It was implied that he would be staying at mine but we didn't really talk about the logistics until yesterday - it just hit me that he will be staying with me for the whole weekend and im freaking out.
By lagunabchgirl007_2 | Dec 30 2014
So I met this guy on Tinder like 3 months ago but we talked when I posted a moment saying that I was deleting tinder. This was in November, so we've been talking for a little over a month now. We went on two dates last week and then two this week.
He came over and spent the night and we cuddled both nights. Didn't have sex, just some other stuff. Talked to him more the next morning and found out he's done a ton of stuff with people, which turned me off a bit. I'm 21 and he's 24 so I guess it's natural for him to have more experience because not only of his age but also since he is a guy. I had reservations about him being a player but I wasn't so sure because he is also Christian and comes from a good family. He basically proved my theory that he is a player
And his Instagram is a wholeeee other story, pretty sexist humor.
We would have been good just hanging out and whatever but I'm so turned off that I'm upset now and wondering if he is seeing other girls. I asked him flat out if he could be honest with me and he said "sure :)" instead of something like of course or yea. And he said he was not seeing other girls. I apologized for freaking out and he told me not to worry about it. Tonight he is out with a female friend to dinner, so I'm going crazy wondering if they're gonna hook up or what.
By ohio_babe | Dec 29 2014
I hooked up at a beach party last night with this guy (just a lil making out). I was pretty drunk and he took really good care of me. I left really abruptly on him because my mom called asking where I was. He Snapchatted me a couple times making sure I got home okay etc. but I don't remember much about what was said. Later the next day I realized that he unadded me on snapchat. I asked his sister if I had done something wrong and she said she would talk to him. Now he readded me, but his replies seem really short.
By singingcanaries | Dec 24 2014
as it may already be known I just ended things with a MAJOR douche bag. A guy that ive crushed on for 2 years is showing interest. The thing is he wants to hook up. I clearly told him i didnt want to just be a hook up. So he said ok and asked to just hangout but it was still late at night and I mentioned that i was in bed... I work til 11pm so anytime we hangout would most likely be late which means we'd probably just be at one of our houses alone.. i always give in.