So my bf and I have been together for almost 2 years. He is very nice to me. We met on tagged. Things are fine between us but I still have this feeling itching in my head about him and his "true self". I have no doubt about his loyalty towards me until I found out conversations of him with some people (including the girls he was meeting and involving with before we got together). I found out that he was seeing other girls while we were dating, I know we were not yet together at that time but it still bugs me that he met a lot of people and it appears to me that I was not even special to him. And I found out that, just before our 3rd date (which was when he kissed me for the 1st time) he was going out with this girl and tried to bring her home (you know what that means).
What is more is that I have this feel that I became his gf only because I was the easiest one for him to get along with and that it was easier with me than with those other girls, it didn't work out with them. I'm not sure if what i am talking about even makes sense at all but it's a very unpleasant feeling.
He told me he never slept around or had meaningless sex, but I also found out he randomly hooked up with some girl he met online (it was before we met). So I am having a trust issue.... I have talked with him about this and he said he had told me everything and that he had nothing to hide, that is why he was happy for me to know all his passwords and stuff... But still I didn't get the answer I wanted.
It still annoys me that all that time we were dating, he went out and considered other girls...
What should I do about this? Is he trustworthy?
This guy in my graduate program started texting me and asked me out on a date. I originally declined as I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship and thought it might be awkward to go on a date with someone in my program. He finally convinced me to give him a shot and over the course of two weeks we went on two dates while consistently texting on a daily basis. A few days after our second date I invited him over to watch a movie. He was more interested in hooking up than in watching the move, however I was hesitant to do anything because we had only been on two dates. He texted me first the next morning but then quickly started acting weird and taking hours to respond. I didn't respond to his last text because he no longer seemed interested in conversing. We haven't spoken since, through text or during class. Things seemed kind of awkward so two weeks after we hooked up I texted him to let him know that I didn't want things to be weird between us since we were in class together. He seemed completely confused as to why I thought things were weird.
Am I the one being crazy or is he acting weird? How do I make this situation non awkward?
I met this guy in college, and we hooked up a few days before I went off to grad school in France. It was difficult to just leave since he and I became really close before I left, but I had to go. A year later, he's graduated from college and found a job in the United States. I am almost 3/4 of the way through my grad school program, but this guy has miraculously managed to stay in touch with me. Every now and then he pops up all over my Facebook newsfeed, liking my photos and statuses and even leaving comments. I recently received a message from him saying: "hey ya, just thought i'd check in and see how's france?"
Every time I think he's gone, he shows up again and it drives me crazy. Why is he practically blowing up my newsfeed? Should I respond likewise by liking his photos and statuses? What is going through his mind? What does he want from me?
I am so confused and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
So I've been talking to this guy since college. We started off as friends but after a year and a half, our relationship became a sexual one. After that we would always meet to hook up, but it was nothing serious. We had our fights but we always came back to each other. I thought the relationship was only about sex..So I figured it would end. After I graduated from college I thought our fun time was over.. And I didn't hear from him again after some time. After six months he reached out to me saying we should be together and that I should move back and be with him for life. He has left me and came back into my life many times before.
Should I let him go ? Is this all a game?
I'm a senior in college and have been hooking up with a sophomore. This past weekend when we hooked up I was drunk and he was sober. He even came to pick me and my friends up from the bar. The next morning he drove me he and everything seemed fine. I felt bad and embarrassed for being such an annoying drunk the night before so texted him to apologize and never heard back.
Did I ruin things by being an annoying drunk?
I got a text from a dude I was hooking up with saying he may be entering a relationship and probably shouldn't see me "for the time being" and then went on to say he wants me to know that he really likes me and he's just confused about his relationship status and doesn't want to be disloyal or w.e.
Luckily we were not serious so I'm not upset or anything. Just a lost opportunity. Mostly I'm just wondering who says "I really like you" in a message intended to end things? What does this mean? I've sent and received my fair share of rejection, but I've never received anything like this l
I've been seeing this guy for over 6 months... He used to always come over on a weekly basis since April. We just hang out and have sex, nothing serious. Everything was great and chill between us. But lately I feel like we're playing games.
We tried to hang out twice since. First time he flopped at last min because "stuff came up". He said he felt really bad, and it was the first time he did. Second time, I made an excuse that I was already busy.
I invited him to a few Halloween events with me, but he either had work (he works 6 times a week), or he never got back to me on it..
Last Thursday he texted me asking how a halloween party the other night went. I replied nicely saying it was great but that it got really crowded. He replied: "Nice, sounds dope better too busy than too dead". I never replied. What was I supposed to say to that?
He hasn't texted me since last Thursday (October 30th) which is weird because he usually texts me at least 1, if not twice a week to see me. He complimented my smile in one of my new instagram last Saturday. I replied to his comment.
But I haven't heard from him since. He still views all my snapchat stories which doesn't mean much. I know I've been acting a little more distant too, but I'm thinking he should make an effort to keep me. So, I'm not sure if I should just move on, or if he's thinking I'm no longer interested in him?
The 3 screenshots above, I'm the green, he's they grey: the first one is from a month ago during thanksgiving. The second one was the time he was asking to see me that night, and then last minute he flopped saying "My bad for doing that to you :(". The third one were the lasts times I heard from him, 1-2 weeks ago. When he called me "loser" was when he asked to hang out at last min because he was in my area and I told him I was busy and didn't reply to him after that. Then of course around Halloween he asked me how the party went. I never responded after that.
What is going on through this guy's head?
I met this guy a few weeks ago. He came back to my place.and stayed most of the night. I knew then o reallly liked this guy.He Text me by noon the next morning and we have text never a phone call pretty much everyday since.
So he asks me if I lime him. I say a little and ask him if he likes me he says ur cool... what??
What does that mean should I keep up with the texting and ask him out
back story- in the beginning me and this guy were on the same page, we admitted to each other our insecurities, I met his family and even stood the night at his place once. Then he began pulling away little by little and so did I. we argue, I would say goodbye then he would send a reply and we began talking all over again this was back & forth, 9 months later we're still on and off talking and hooking up whenever we have free time. recently idk what the heck happened but I THINK he admitted something to me which blew my mind and now idk how to react towards him.
him: I spoke to you the way I did in the beginning because I wanted to see ya and be your friend and chill a lot. I was excited to talk to you and get out of depression talk to and see or meet anyone but you dragged it out way too long and I lost interest in speaking to you as often. All I want from you is sex that's it. If you emotional and want more please find someone else. I'll let you go and stay out of your life once you find that person. But I want to be the only one fuxking you until then.
what exactly is going on with him? and why would someone say things like that if its just strictly sexual?
this boy who is in my classes took me home from a bar one night and we watched netflix and had sex. it was fun i made him laugh and he gave me a lot of compliments. we agreed to be fuck buddies and started to consistently meet up for a casual bang sesh. But now we end up texting for hours and flirt a lot and joke around whenever we're together.
Is there any chance that he kinda likes me? It's hard to tell if we're strictly fuck buddies or if he secretly actually likes me a little.
I started talking to this guy about a year ago and we became good friends. He moved away and we lost contact. Last week he texts me to hang out. This weekend he comes to stay the night with me. I assume he just wants to hook up and never talk again. Instead he takes me to a movie and dinner. While we're catching up he just stops mid conversation and says "I could see myself falling in love with you". I don't think much of it thinking he's just trying to be flattering and what not. When were walking into the theater he grabs my hand and says "how did I get so lucky to be holding your hand" once again think nothing of it. While watching the movie, which by the way he really wanted to see, he keeps playing with my hand and kissing me. And again turns to me and says "how is it possible I've become this addicted to your touch and kisses?" I start wondering what is going on with him. The night goes on as planned. Next morning we get up and are talking and he says "it's nice to have a mutual agreement that this is just hooking up with no expectations of anything more." Which threw me off at first but then I remembered that was the agreement. Before he leaves he kisses me, walks away then comes back to kiss me again. That happens like three times. The last time he comes back he says "I'm not going to say goodbye because I want to see you again." The end of the day. He texts me with in an half an hour of leaving to see what I'm doing and say he misses me already. Then throughout the day he tells me he really likes me and doesn't want to mess things up.
What does he really want? Is he wanting just a hook up or more?
We matched on Tinder about a month ago and have been messaging each other back and forth since (he's 26, i'm 23). We ended up meeting up this weekend and went to the bar to get drinks (he paid), then ended up hooking up. I stayed over, then left next morning not wanting to overstay my welcome. Wasn't sure whether to text him so I ended up sending a text first later that night saying thanks for the drinks and I had a good time and to my surprise, he responded back within the minute saying he did too and it was nice to finally meet me. Not sure how interested he is though or if it's too early to tell?
Long story short… me and this guy met in first year and we only started hooking up towards the end of it. This was in Feb-March 2013. He's from out of the city stayed to work here over the summer and saw each other a couple times.
Since 2nd year started, we started hooking up on a weekly basis. Sometimes he would take me out on dates, go for coffee, made me breakfast in bed.. We were like fwb.
After christmas he told me he wanted to take me out on a nice date, and he asked me out.. but he meant as in an "open relationship.." which I wasn't too happy about. It went downhill from here.
Until one night a few weeks later he came over apologizing and saying how "special I am to him", that he wants me to be his, and slept together again. The next morning he left for class and texted me how he was sorry for doing it but he was just drunk and doesn't like me that way. I never replied and it obviously ended. This was in March this year.
At the beginning of third year (september) he messaged me, but I didn't respond. Again, 2 months later, he messages me again asking if we could meet up for coffee and that he really wants to talk to me.
Does he really want to talk to me about what happened way back in March, or is he trying to get back with me?