By swagtheleg | Sep 10 2015
So, I broke up with my bf about a week ago.. actually our relationship is already dead. He stops seeing me and his texts get lesser. He only texts me at 10pm then didn't reply in the middle of conversation. Always. He is acting distance. Our relationship is based on just texts. No proper effort made by him. Before this happens, I told him that I was going to move to another new house, because of my parents and of course I was teasing him, telling him that my new house is "somewhere" and I didn't want to tell him,yet. And the conversation stops just like that. I don't know why. He didn't asked me anything. Why or when. So I thought he was ok. So I waited for him to reply my text but no he didn't and guess what he went on silent for a month, no text no everything just disappear and then he came back with no explanation. No apologies or why he went cold or it is my fault. You tell me how am I supposed to feel after that? He texted me and I did welcome him, because I don't want to appear desperate and I thought maybe he needed space that time. So I gave him a month. I know I'm weird. Then he disappeared again for a day then came back with the "good morning" text. I got mad because he treating me like crap and I didn't replied for a month too. I'm not doing the revenge. I needed time to really think about our relationship and had my last words to him.. I'm not a coward like him. I will not go distant or act shady just to look like the nice girl. No. I told him that its not working anymore. That is not ok for him to give me the silent treatment. A month is too much as a couple. Also I don't like being an option to him. I told him that, I don't have feelings for him anymore, because of how he treated me. And now the problem is why the hell he didn't replied to me again? Why? He should say something instead of giving me the silent treatment again. I just need a clean break. That's all. I don't want to be his friend, that's for sure. And I did gave him a month to think but still he doesn't make any effort and if he is not ready to be with me or losing feelings, he could just be honest with me instead pulling away or want to look like a nice guy. Tf
By incognitolover | Oct 06 2014
I'm a junior in highschool and recently started talking to this guy that I've known like existed since freshman year but we've just never talked. He asked for my snapchat and we snapchatted for like a week pretty regularly (he initiated) but then he stopped replying. We still talk during after school club meetings though. We flirt and he says sweet things and gives me hugs and gets jealous/hurt if I say other guys are hot. But during school if I ever see him (which is rare) he just keeps staring at me and will maybe say hi but that's it.
By dramaisforllamas | Aug 02 2014
Ok, there's this guy who randomly added me on snapchat after me posting my username on instagram, and he's really sweet, not to mention very attractive. Now he's been following me on insta since my cousin posted a picture of her and I on her account, which was weeks ago (they go to school with eachother). He snapchatted me saying hi and that he didn't want to seem like a creeper and he told me who he was. We ended up snapchatting till' 4 AM, we started snapchatting around 7PM before that. Almost everyday since then we've been non stop snapchatting each other till the wee hours of the morning. We have A LOT in common, but he's got a shy personality. He said I'm cute, but I wanna know how he really feels. I mean guys don't usually stay up that late just to talk to a girl, especially for days on end.
By jamiechaos | May 30 2014
So here is the deal I been seeing this guy for about a month in a half and he has been the perfect gentlemen. He actually takes me out on dates , sends me good morning text every morning has introduced me to friends. Although he has never used the term girlfriend he has said things about us dating. We have also not out right said we are exclusive but have said certain things that have applied it. This sort of dating is completely new to me in fact I have never been treated so nicely and sometimes I don't know what to do with it. I consider that alot of his gentleman act amd the actually dating part and me not being used to that has to do with our age difference [I'm 24 and he 33] he is also in a band which I have not seen him play yet since there has been no shows since we started dating but this Friday his band is playing a small acoustic set at this charity event his family is apart of. I didn't think anything about not being invited to go since it's something his family is going to be at and he is busy with running the sound and other mechincal work for the event. However the other day he sent out a fb invitation to see his band play there. I asked him about cause I wanted to know if he meant to send it to me since it is something where his family is involved with. He told me that it is was sent to everyone on his friends list but that I am welcomed to come. He then also said that he will be busy there alot seting up and mingling with people and that it's a far drive to me all while saying I'm still welcomed to come.
By icechipsandfiddlesticks | Oct 29 2013
me and this guy are in the same science class, we used to sit near each other and he used to always look at me and make full on eye contact and flirt etc. and I used to talk to him not often but when we did it'd be quite a deep convo.. i asked his opinion on me once and he said i was nice, funny, and good looking, he's also said i'm pretty and hot.
I also asked him in the same conversation what he looks for in a girl and the way he described me and his 'ideal' girl were quite similar... but then now we hardly talk but he comes up to me and says random stuff and still looks at me sometimes. i'm just really confused... help!
By memewho | Oct 21 2013
My ex-long-distance boyfriend and I broke up because I found some raunchy pics on his phone that one of his friends sent him during our time apart. Since the break up, he desperately tries to stay in touch and be friends. However, I know he's been dating other women. What's the deal? Does he still care? Is he just looking for attention? I'm ready to be friends since I've moved on, but I kind of don't want to.