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I've started seeing this guy and I'm not sure how I feel about him. He's infatuated by me and has been pursuing me for over a year, but only in the last 3 weeks have things actually progressed.
For most of the year that I've known him I've always thought he had an attractive personality (we have so much in common/ emotional chemistry etc) but he wasn't "my type" and I didn't find him physically attractive.
We began hanging out as friends 3 weeks ago and I noticed an attraction growing from my end. It helped that he has recently shaved off his beard/cut his long hair but I don't know if it was quite as superficial as that. We kissed and it was nice and since then things have progressed super quickly - we've been seeing lots of each other and have also slept together a few times.

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Okay so I knew this guy from high school and I'm going to be a sophomore in college and I moved away for college and now I'm back in town we matched on tinder I never expected to click yes on just figured I would because he would only know I did if he did as well and in our conversation he said he was thinking the same exact thing oh and I forgot to mention that I liked him a lot in high school and he knew but he turned me down he never dated anyone in high school or anything and neither did I so after we matched the next day he messaged me on tinder and we just did some friendly talking seeing how each others year had been and then he gave me his number and told me to text him and so I did and we were talking some more and I asked him why he now had interest in me and he also follows me on snapchat so he knows what I post and stuff and I've also lost 40 pounds since high school so I look much more attractive now and he said that he always thought that I was chill and that he had just matured since then which I would agree on I think I haven't seen him in person since high school so I then told him I did t really know that much about him I didn't even know his favorite color so he asked if I wanted to get to know him better and I said only if he wanted to get to know me better and so we were basically playing 20 questions and then we were talking about interests and we both mentioned something that we liked and he said that we should do that together among a few other instances where he suggested us hanging out and eventually he said he was falling asleep and that it was good talking to me and getting to know me better and that he would text me the next night to get to know me better and I texted back goodnight and so the next night he doesn't text until 10 at night he asked what I was doing I told him just got done with some homework and that I was watching tv and he said that he had just finished watching the giants play baseball on tv and so we asked two more questions of 20 questions thing and then I replied something and then I never got a text back it was at like 1 in the morning but it has now been three days and I haven't heard one thing from him but I know that he has looked at my snapchat so I'm just so confused why one night he was making potential plans and the next night he never responds and then I just never hear back from him again and he texted me first both times and since I used to have feelings for him I am just so confused what his intentions were and why he would text me like that and then nothing and I don't know what I would have done to him to play such a cruel joke and lead me on like that when he knew I liked him in high school

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So i went on a date this weekend with a guy in the royal navy. The date couldn't have gone more perfect. We went for a lunch date but ended up not finishing until after midnight. He paid, he was complimentary, we shared quite embarrassing things that we were both embarrassed about that we both understood and had amazing chemistry. He even planned to take me out the following evening halfway through the original date. Next day comes i text and i didnt get a reply. I then whatsapped him as on his current ship he sometimes doesnt get signal. He later replies much later to both my text and whatsapp saying that work is hectic and he would call me when he is done. He doesnt. I then whatsapped him the following day saying that i had a great time and understand if work is busy but i would like to see him again but upto him. He has read the message and not replied. He has been online on and off all day and looked at my snapstory but no reply. I dont want to scare him if hes busy but i dont understand how he cant text me when he was so keen on the date. Extra info: hes in my town until end of week but based about 30miles away. He also discussed picking me up for a date as he had the car i wanted to get when he was back at his normal base. I just dont know if i should text again or just leave it. Help please because honestly it was the best date ive ever been on and he said the same....

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What does a guy mean when he says "Text me when you get back in town!"?

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Any tips on how not to develop a parkinson's everytime I'm around a guy I like?

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Am I getting ghosted?

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Do i have a chance? I just get can't get him out of my mind!

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So met this guy about 4 years ago and I had a crush on him and apparently so did he but I was too dumb to realize it and we'll time went by and obviously people change and so did he. Well anyway the guy I had a crush on since forever messaged me and we had like a back and forth basic "how you doing?" "How's school type thing" but then we hung out, talked for like 2 hours and then kinda made out which I think he liked it because he was seriously shaking but I don't know if he does that with everyone, im not really experience but it's never happened before with other guys. I really like him and I should've probably not made out with him and I kinda wanna tell him I like him but when we were talking he mentioned hooking up with a lot of girls and just being in long dating relationships. I've never really been in a relationship so maybe I just want to be in one so bad but I don't know, What should I do?

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So I recently got my first kiss from this guy I met on tinder, I was his first meet up and he was my first meet up. He goes to a different college than mine and we went out on only two dates. After those two dates we continued to text but he would always text me at like 11 o clock when he's finally at home. and to be honest he doesnt do much but work and then go to the gym. You're telling me he can't take a break or while on break call or text? He texted me yesterday saying "hey munchkin" and then I didn't reply because Im a little bothered by the fact that he wont text me throughout the day. He also views my snapchats but doesn't answer. I havent replied but I want to. What should I say? Is he worth it?

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Why would a guy suddenly ignore a girl he has been sexting for 8 months? (we dont live close enough to meet up often)

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how to deal with an older guy, who works with you? Avoid awkwardness and remain friends?

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He missed me?

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40 year old dating 21 year old... My question is could there be a future for us with such different lifestyles or should I just appreciate it for the short term happiness it brings me?

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His talking small talk means he misses me and he'll come back?

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So i met this guy back in December and he honestly swept me off...

By purpletabou | Jun 27 2015

We've been together for seven months and he still calls me his friend? should i give up or give him more time?

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Why does he flirt at work but not in real life?

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