Okay so I knew this guy from high school and I'm going to be a sophomore in college and I moved away for college and now I'm back in town we matched on tinder I never expected to click yes on just figured I would because he would only know I did if he did as well and in our conversation he said he was thinking the same exact thing oh and I forgot to mention that I liked him a lot in high school and he knew but he turned me down he never dated anyone in high school or anything and neither did I so after we matched the next day he messaged me on tinder and we just did some friendly talking seeing how each others year had been and then he gave me his number and told me to text him and so I did and we were talking some more and I asked him why he now had interest in me and he also follows me on snapchat so he knows what I post and stuff and I've also lost 40 pounds since high school so I look much more attractive now and he said that he always thought that I was chill and that he had just matured since then which I would agree on I think I haven't seen him in person since high school so I then told him I did t really know that much about him I didn't even know his favorite color so he asked if I wanted to get to know him better and I said only if he wanted to get to know me better and so we were basically playing 20 questions and then we were talking about interests and we both mentioned something that we liked and he said that we should do that together among a few other instances where he suggested us hanging out and eventually he said he was falling asleep and that it was good talking to me and getting to know me better and that he would text me the next night to get to know me better and I texted back goodnight and so the next night he doesn't text until 10 at night he asked what I was doing I told him just got done with some homework and that I was watching tv and he said that he had just finished watching the giants play baseball on tv and so we asked two more questions of 20 questions thing and then I replied something and then I never got a text back it was at like 1 in the morning but it has now been three days and I haven't heard one thing from him but I know that he has looked at my snapchat so I'm just so confused why one night he was making potential plans and the next night he never responds and then I just never hear back from him again and he texted me first both times and since I used to have feelings for him I am just so confused what his intentions were and why he would text me like that and then nothing and I don't know what I would have done to him to play such a cruel joke and lead me on like that when he knew I liked him in high school

Show more Show less

Read More

So about two weeks ago I re-added this guy on Snapchat and we got into quick and playful conversation (I'm 18, he's 19). Then after that night we kinda stopped, then after two days I decided to ask what kind of music he prefers, which started up another conversation. After that for about three days he would randomly send me a snap asking a question or a video of himself singing along to one of the songs he mentioned to me to see if I liked it. I liked him. I became interested and wanted to know more about this guy, because he seemed like this sweet and awesome person to he around. But then one day he just quit answering. I let it hang for a few days and posted pictures on my story to see if he'd try, but he never did. So as a little push I 'accidentally' sent a picture to him hat was meant for a friend to see if a conversation would start up again. It didn't. Then I just plain asked him, "what's up?" and hour later he answered in response, "hitting the sack." That was it. I answered him trying to see if I could get a response but it never came. I'm just frustrated, for what am I doing wrong? He seemed interested and I sure am, but now I don't know? Is it me? Or what should I do to see if I can start another conversation with him again?

B

Show more Show less

Read More

Help me understand why this guy led me on and went ghost on me twice. Why couldn't he just be upfront and say how it is?

Read More

Any tips on how not to develop a parkinson's everytime I'm around a guy I like?

Read More

0

0

3

Tindered

We met at a thrift shop then headed to my place. This was...

By lovelessone | Jan 10 2016

So, I met this guy from Tinder a few days ago. We met up that same night. We went thrift shopping, then I invited him over to my place. However, I totally said upfront that I'm only down to chill...like make out and fool around. No sex. No Relationship stuff. He comes over, first thing he does is make out with....that's totally fine. That's what I wanted. Then, we make it to my bed in our underclothing. There's just a lot of touching and kissing. However, we do a lot of talking and laughing, holding hands and things seem to be going great; didn't intend to have chemistry with this guy. So, of course, I catch a feeling like an idiot. I mean...it's perfect. It's been like 3 hours. It's 12am. He's like...let's take a shower and I'm like naaaah. Then we just got back in the bed. And know, he has work in the work. He asks me if I do and I say no. In my head, I wanted him to stay so badly. But, sometimes when I don't want to be vulnerable with guys I pretend that I'm not interested. And he's like..."man, it's 1am." And I was like, "bye!" Then he got up and left. I have no idea if that was a cue for me to invite him to sleep over or what. Because, after we went thrift shopping - he walked me to my car and just stood there...looking. I guess that was a cue that he wanted to come over. I asked him, "so, you wanna come to my place?" So, I'm confused. Before he left, I told him to text me when he got home to make sure he made it there safely. He texted me he was safe and that was it. The next day, I was like...if you ever wanna hang out, I'm totally down. Then like hours later, I asked if he wasn't interested. No response. I haven't texted him anymore because I don't want to come off as clingy and crazy. I'm just curious as what happened. If it was me that pushed him away; I honestly did not mean to tell him to leave in a bitchy way - that's a total defense mechanism for me not wanting to appear vulnerable. I've done it before with other guys. But, I just wanted your take on this. Do you think I could have possibly pushed him away or do you think that he just was not that into me? Thanks!

Show more Show less

Read More

0

0

0

Texted

I met him on tinder about a month ago. We have met up twice....

By christinemartin | Dec 31 2015

Do guys ever get tired of texting a girl everyday? When dating someone, how many days is appropriate to not text someone?

Read More

I've had two really good dates with a new guy and we barely text except to say hi and arrange a date. He's been a bit flakey getting back to me on things, so I've backed off a lot. He texted this week, apologized for not responding to me and then asked what I was up to this weekend. I mentioned that it was up for grabs, so he suggests we go out either Sat./Sun afternoon. I say why not Saturday and he comes back with saying he isn't sure if he's free because of a party that may or may not be going on during the afternoon, but that he'd check and "definitely" let me know if he was indeed free. This threw me a bit, but I said sure, that works. It's now Friday and I have yet to hear from him. Do I wait and let him follow-through with his plan to get back to me (or not) or do I prod him a bit with a friendly "How's tomorrow looking?" I'm leaning towards remaining chill and planning my own things since so far, it's been radio silence from his side.

Show more Show less

Read More

Went to homecoming and grinded w/ 2 different guys. should i text one of them?

Read More

0

0

6

"I'd like to bring new excitement into your life"

Read More

The story is i have seen this guy three times on actual dates. Two of them was to days in a row and the third one the uppcomming sunday. We have a good vibe. But lately I have been very unsure. Probably in my head, and that is why i hate dating. All the waiting around. Where do we stand etc. He planned a real date with a picknik in the park for the first date. Nice and all, but i really did not feel a spark. But because he seemed like a genuially nice guy, and they dont come around often, we met up again. The last date was in a museum, but he seemed bored and tired. Later the same evening we went to my place and we ended up cuddeling. I asked him if he wanted to take a walk, but he only wanted to cuddle. Now I ask myself... When is to soon to have sex, how much contact should you have early in a relationship? And do you guys have any dealbreakers for a blossoming relationship?

Show more Show less

Read More

1

0

2

Confusing remark from a guy

Read More

How do I get him back?

Read More

We met on a cruise. He lives in FL, I live in OH. Fortunately though we text and skype and call. I wish we lived closer, but for now, we'll just havw to talk on the phone amd things like that. On the cruise, we stayed out til 3 a.m holding hands and he put his arm around me at one point. Though now, he isn't answering my texts. I've sent three. I know that might be one too many, but i really like this guy. I cried for a good hour after the cruise. I cried again 6 times after that. I think i might be in love. I feel like instead of falling in love, i'm flying in love because when you fall in love, you have that insecurity that you will hit the ground. Fly in love and you know you can make it through anything. But yeah, you see my problem.

Show more Show less

Read More