Hey everyone, so this isn't really a question regarding some cryptic texts, but just me trying to get some opinion/feedback on a certain banal situation that's become a statistic of some sorts. So, to make it short, I've fallen for my FWB of three years. I'm already past the terrible stages of trying to tell myself this would work out, and after about a year of separation, we've recently met up again, and now it's straight up just casual sex, except this time, I literally have no feelings for him, not even wanting to be friends. I almost feel disgusted that I'm still doing this, so I'm deciding to cut him off.

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You would have thought I broke his heart, the way he reacted?

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i got drunk and stoned and then blacked out...I said some horrible things that i don't remember and now he won't talk to me..he has alot of my belongings what do i do?

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Should i date him even though he has slept with other girls we've been talking and he always say i want you but when i talk to another guy or doing anything he gets jealous?

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My FWB 'dumped' me; I'm bummed & wondering if he's fabricating

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This guy and I have been dating for 2 months now and he still has not DTR. I don't know if it's a little early for that or not but what is bothering me is that I don't know what he wants. We have been sleeping together for a month now or so now... And everytime we do sleep together, he invites me to spend the night over, we cuddles, he often kisses me on the forehead. Even after we have slept together, he still reaches out to me and ask me on dates (outside his place); like we go to the cinema, we go eating, etc. The thing is he texts me once a week or we see eachother once a week (We both are pretty busy during the week). He's the one who starts the conversation all the time; but when we text sometimes he takes 4 hours or even more to reply to my texts... I don't know what to think of that. He's sending me mix signals. Does he still reaches to me because he wants the sex ? Or is he looking for more? I really want to have the dtr talk because I don't want to continue somthing that will lead to nowhere but I'm afraid its too early for that...

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My Hook up got into a relationship?

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Is there any rules with FWB?

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Hello :) I met this guy on Tinder and right off the first lines he subtly said he wanted ''fun'' instead of a relationship. I didn't want a relationship either, but I never considered fwb cause it doesn't fit my profile. Our texts still consisted mostly of major flirting going in the direction of sex. We decided to meet for a drink first in order to get to know one another and we concluded we both wanted to see eachother again and that we're actually both serious people. We don't text a lot, but when we do its immediately flirting and for awhile he tried to convince me (not in a douche way, he's actually decent) to try fwb. His arguments consisted of: we're both responsible, we don't sleep around and it will be first experience fwb for the both of us. So we're like on the same level. I eventually agreed and he seemed pretty hype about it. The first time i invited him over, he had to leave in the middle of the evening (didn't have sex) cause he had a family emergency . We texted a little afterwards and then he suddenly stopped answering my msgs. 2 weeks later i texted him again, he answers immediately, we flirt and he reveals he has doubts about starting fwb cause he's worried he might not be good enough for me. Eventually he changes his mind, we flirt and tempt one another. We set up another date and he doesn't show up! I texted him to make sure he was alright cause maybe something happened... He hasn't answered since then...

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How do I nicely break up with a FWB?

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Tindered

Am I just wasting my time...

By queen_303 | Apr 23 2015

When I signed up for tinder I didn't take it seriously at all. I just wanted a confidence boost, free food, and possibly a new FWB. Then I matched with R whom I still didn't take seriously... But after 3 dates I found myself in a whole new mindset. Before I knew it we were texting all day long and seeing each other as much as possible. On our first date we both made it clear we were just looking for something "fun" but obviously things have changed. I would just wait it out but yesterday he sent me a cryptic message. It said "I'm deleting my tinder. I want to move on with my life." And I replied "I kinda want to delete mine too..." And his answer totally threw me off... "But you're single. It's fun..." Huh? What? What the heck does that mean? So then we just kinda moved on and didn't talk about it again. Then today he brought it up again. Except this time he brought up the fact that his BFF is bringing a group of girls with them on their vegas trip. I made it obvious that I didn't care to know that and then he says "well you have a tinder babe" when I replied saying he's the one who told me to keep it, he says "I knew you would blame me " What is with this guy? Is he just playing games? Should I just move on?

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His actions are confusing me: he's so hot and so cold! Help!

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Is he getting borded? Is this his way of ending things, because that would really suck.

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why didn't he call was i not good ...

By stylishgal | Mar 27 2015

he is my best friends best friend. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day. we both made it clear to the common best friend that all we wanted was a casual relationship. we texted and snap chatted for a couple of days after then he asked me to dinner. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. we hooked up but he didn't call after. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work.

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