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Prom and high school within a week...

By radvibes13 | May 12 2016

I am very confused and embarrassed. So this guy(a Sr.) that I ( a Jr.)l like is often staring at me. We were in the same prom group with different dates, and my mom who was taking the pictures noticed him staring at me often. I then noticed this at the actual prom and still happening at school 4 days later.

we have hung out in a group together once about 3-4 months ago after a school dance, this is when I realized I liked him) and I got his snapchat from a friends friend, and snapped him a simple pic saying hey. he opened it but didn't reply.

When I noticed him staring at me so much, I thought that maybe he finds me attractive and I now have a shot. I was afraid to snap him again in case he would do the same thing, but I was told to man up and do it, so I snapped him again the week after prom hoping to strike up a conversation by asking him if he wanted any of the rom pics my mom took.

He once again opened it and didn't reply.

Now I feel really dumb and embarrassed and don't know if he just isn't really into snapchatting, as this is his only source of social media, or If his prom date (a Sophomore) is actually his girl friend. she told me during pictures that he was her bf and asked her to prom three days before. I didn't know if I believed her because no one else in the school knew of their "relationship" and during the pictures they didn't act like a couple at all, barely walking next o each other. (they definitely danced like a couple at prom though, but even during some slow sons he and I would make eye contact). I am really scared to see him at school tomorrow in fear he may not like me anymore or something. I want to be able to get his attention before he graduates. HELP! WHAT DO I DO?

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There is this guy, he became friends with me a few months ago. I had hinted to him that a girl in my dorm liked him and a few days later he asked her out and she said yes. They kept dating for about 2 months or so, and I didn't know but things weren't going well between them and meanwhile we became even better friends, I started noticing that he spent more time with me than he did with her. I was into someone else at the time so i just thought he was being friendly. Well she broke up with him about a month ago , and he didn't feel too badly about it, then he started hanging out with me even more and even increased the amount of times he texted.
I still thought he was being friendly, then we closed school for Easter break and we both went to different places, but the moment school opened he seemed to be different, he even started flirting and stuff. And I actually realized that I liked him. He asked me out and we started dating.
But now I just found out that his ex claims that they supposedly broke up with him cause he kept hanging out with me, that I was the problem, that because of me they couldn't hang out. But when I had personally asked her why she broke up with him she said it was a mutual agreement and also cause he was too clingy.
I am so confused on what I should do! Like what the hell? Should I confront her, or just leave it be? Because I talked to him and he admitted that he already liked me even when he was with her, he didn't want to hit on me while he was with her.

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