By lillywills | Nov 17 2015
I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years I love him to death and I know he loves me. Sometimes though I feel like he is not into me as much as I'm into him. He has a bad temper when he gets mad (which somehow he easily does) he calls me names like stupid and stuff, he used to throw things and push me but now has stopped. (Been 4 months since he has) . He's 23 and I'm turning 21 so I know we are young but I think I want to marry him and he does too but he wants to wait after law school. That would be four more years. I'm thinking at least maybe we should be engaged but he thinks he is too young. What does age have to do with it? I feel like he will not be ready even after law school. How can I know for sure he will marry me> He could meet someone else in school. Also he complains about how I rely on him emotional and he thinks it's too much. We have different views on a lot of things (we have a few things in common tho). I don't know what I'm trying to ask. Is it normal for a guy to behave this way? He's my first boyfriend. Also he treats me great when he is not mad/angry. Like cooks for me and says he loves me. He's just busy to not be texting so much and likes space. Is something wrong with me tho?