So I started speaking to this guy a few weeks ago that I met on a dating site. He seems really nice and says all the right things like he can't stop thinking about me etc. we have swapped pictures and he said he thinks I'm amazing and always gives me compliment which as a women I clearly love. I'm not so sure on him, I know it's quite shallow but looks wise he isn't what I would normally go for, but don't get me wrong his body is amazing! So I arranged to meet him next weekend but didn't really want to wait that long and neither did he so I made plans with him for Tonight. So at 2 today he texts me to say he doesn't think he can make it as he cant get away from work and can't make it over this evening. Tbh he does live nearly an hours drive away so I can understand but he hasn't mentioned making any other plans with me

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I have been chatting back and forth with a guy for about 8 months, we connected through a dating site but have never met in person, we clicked very early on and there was a definite spark between us, we made plans to meet in person but that never happened as he made excuses to get out of it, he said he was afraid of meeting so soon, this was over Christmas last year. I was really pissed off with him for a while after that but we still continued to text, he says he does really like me, but was unsure how it would work long distance, when I say long distance, it's just a four hour drive away, we both drive and I don't have a problem with it. This has really got to me because he's making no attempt to actually meet in person, I have not suggested it since last time because I'm afraid if he avoids it again, we're done, I am looking for a proper relationship and I presumed he was to, why would he be on a dating site if he wasn't looking for something? He said before he doesn't really know what he wants, he's always changing his mind. We talk most nights still and seems to me to be a genuine guy, I am developing real feelings for him, but I'm terrified to actually say it too him, he could feel the same or could reject me just as easily

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