By pkpkl | Jun 07 2016
He's not making an effort to see me after becoming official
By castillom | Jan 11 2016
Is he interested in me?
By linux12 | Jul 22 2015
I've been dating a guy for 6 months. Things have been great, great communication daily, time spent as much as possible with our schedules...up until recently. Lately, I've seen him once a week (usually Sunday afternoon) because of his commitment to his two sons from a prior marriage. I reiterated to him multiple times that my bday was coming up and I wanted to do something with him. Unfortunately, he had a pre-planned trip with his son and was gone the week of my birthday. Ok, cool. During the trip he contacted me very rarely. On my bday (Thursday), I got a text saying "happy birthday old lady", and didn't hear from him until 3 days later (Sunday). He arrived back in town Saturday. On Monday, I speak with him, he asks nothing about my week or how I've been, but informs me that his son is spending the night and he is busy. Maybe I was wrong for expecting something more than a text message from him. At this point, I feel like I am barely a priority. I understand he has commitments to his sons and that's great, we've been working around it this whole time, but now I feel as if something has changed. I certainly can't and won't complain about a man being a father, but I also feel like I barely matter. At this point, I haven't seen him in two and a half weeks. How do I proceed?
By firebelle | Feb 18 2014
So, we'd been out for a coffee date before and we'd got on pretty well but I wasn't sure of the chemistry so I hadn't really followed it up. Then last week we were at a gig together and ended up going out for drinks with his friends afterwards, we had a great time and ended up kissing back at his flat. We didn't have sex and the next morning everything was great, he invited to stay for lunch, we watched TV together and had a nap, I left in the afternoon. That night he texted me to say what a great time he had, I said I did too and that we should do it again, he agreed. That was nearly a week ago now, I already followed up his text by saying he should let me know when he was free. I haven't heard anything since.