By melanne | Mar 13 2015
He has a flip phone. He told me he prefers phone calls over texts.
By jsmith90 | Mar 10 2015
By chbreyes | Mar 05 2015
He texted me: "How about Saturday afternoon and then a casual dinner?" I replied 90mins later:"I just left you a voice message but it cut me off" and than 15mins after that I texted "Leaving work now. I am FREE on Sat. I do not have to go to the Music Hall as I said in my voice message. I am really looking forward to spending time with YOU." this was all at 4:30pm and now 9am next morning still have not heard anything from him
By hopelessroman116 | Feb 20 2015
I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and we've only hungout once...
By lamk519 | Feb 16 2015
Just a quick question. I think I may be over analyzing this anyway, but just wanted someone else's opinion. The guy I'm dating has been really sick for the past 10 days. Not to get into details, but he was in the hospital for 3 days this past week. He texted me Friday evening to let me know he's home and resting, and thanked me for looking out. Saturday evening I texted him just a quick note "hope you're feeling better and getting some good rest!" He texted me Sunday morning that he has been out of it; he said he's on the mend, he's just tired. I was out all day with friends so I didn't write back until much later in the evening. I said glad you're feeling better. Then I asked if I could call him later, I said I'm out right now and would like to chat a little if you're up to it.
He hasn't responded yet (this was yesterday evening), which I'm not really concerned about as he has been recovering from a pretty serious illness. My only concern right now is - did I come off as insensitive or selfish in asking if I could call him? He did just say that he has been out of it and is tired. Then I asked if I could speak to him on the phone. He probably doesn't feel like talking. I honestly was a little liquored up last night when I sent that text and just wanted to talk to him. I feel bad now though, I hope he doesn't think that was a selfish thing for me to do, to ask to speak to him on the phone while he's recovering from a hospital stay?
By jens_2 | Feb 14 2015
I did mess up. I did text more than once after having an altercation with someone I'm dating. It wasn't a big deal but now he isn't responding to my texts which before he always would. I tried to call, left a message, with no return. I'm not sure where to go from here but I don't want to not see him anymore over some silly text fight. He's worth more than that to me. If only he'd let me tell him that. At this point he might even think I'm crazy for trying to get in touch with him so much.
By sian | Dec 10 2014
Hello,I ve met a guy,aged 39.We exchanged phone numbers and he started texting me for about 1 month.He comes to the city for business.He proposed to meet for drinks or dinner.His last text was asking me when was best for me to meet up but me tired of the texting situation asked him to call me when he comes back so we can arrange it.Its been almost 2 weeks and never called back...Moreover i know that he has visited the city within these 2 weeks time.
By jane_4 | Dec 06 2014
We went out yesterday night,we had a dinner and a drink afterwards.
when he left my at home he gave me a little kiss.
this morning he texted me to say "thank you for the dinner,i loved go out and the most ,the company"
By hmc793 | Dec 03 2014
I was set up with a guy through mutual friends. He is probably the nicest person I have ever dated in my life. I just am not feeling that *spark*, but he is definitely feeling it with me. I don't want to lead him on by continuing to see him, even though I do enjoy spending with him.
By tanveerkaur | Nov 26 2014
We meet once and never after as we live in different places. We text a lot and are at the point were we told one another we like each other. When he gets drunk he will call me and be all romantic, but on normal days he never calls or message , I message him after 10 pm because it got a habit of that's when where gonna talk. He talks when I call after 10 but is kinda boring sometimes. I still like him and he says he likes me to , but I don't understand why he doesn't make an effort, I kinda told him how I felt about him not messaging and calling and he got all mad saying this is the reason he broke up with his ex and he doesn't like texting all the time and stuff. He never says anything cute or flirty unless hes drunk but I know thats just his shyness and he says he wants to meet and date and then go from there. But when hes drunk hell talk about being together in future and loving me and all.
By gemini_2 | May 07 2014
i like this guy who i have a lot in common with and i want to come clean about my feelings but i feel like i never get the right timing. I wrote a letter for him that ive been trying to give him but it never works out, and i was thinking i could get his number from my friend and just text him telling him if he can meet me somewhere so i can give him something or should i just call him and let him know? how should i let him know that i like him?
By judii | Mar 29 2014
I was flirting with this guy
By purjuseesel | Mar 23 2014
I was on a course that lasted six months. In the same place there was also another course. We didn't have any activities together with those other people but we worked in the same place sometimes so we knew each other faces.
Once I was at a club and I was really wasted. Happens to me extremely rarely but this time I was. I was sitting somewhere when this little Asian guy came sitting next to me. He asked me did I recognize him. I tried to focus and said no, but then realized he was from the other course.
I don't really remember what we talked about, I only remember him bringing me water when I asked to, and then we left the club, he wanted me to come to his place. I think I didn't really say yes, I think I didn't say anything. We took a taxi but in the taxi I said I wanted to go home. He said it was okay. I was in a really, really bad condition.
I gave him my number, he sent me a text later saying he was going to call the next day.
He didn't call the next day but a few days later. We talked for about twenty minutes about random things and he said I should let him know if I had some free time during some weekend, because he wanted to see me.
I didn't call for a month. Not that I really didn't want to but sometimes I didn't have time and when I did, I think I didn't have enough courage.
And then there was this punk-concert coming. It was on Thursday night. I texted him asking if he wanted to come. He agreed to come.
I didn't really take it as a date, but he paid the tickets, and when I said I was going to buy us beers he said he was going to buy them. I said that he already bought the tickets so it would've only be fair if I bought the beers. He didn't even consider it and bought the beers. During the concert he bought us two beers more, I didn't have even a chance to buy them myself and I felt a little bit bad because well.. it wasn't a lot of money but still, I wasn't used to this.
We talked before the concert started and he touched my hand couple of times, on purpose.
Then after the concert he took me home. He was VERY polite, even opened the car door for me. In the car there was couple of energy drink bottles, I said that I didn't like them because they tasted like crap. He asked me how this tasted and kissed me. It was just a little peck on the lips. I said not bad. He laughed and took me home.
Before I left the car he gave me another little peck again.
After this night I didn't hear from him for couple of weeks. I really wanted to talk to him again so one night I texted him asking how he had been. He answered saying that he was quite good but sick at the moment and asked how I had been. Since he was sick, I didn't even ask if he wanted to meet so we texted a little bit but there was nothing special, just some jokes. I sent the last message. It was a message that didn't really require an answer but he could've answered if he wanted to continue texting. But well, he didn't.
So I decided to leave him alone.
Now yesterday morning, I was 50 km out of town with me friend at some house party and we didn't know how to get home. We could've gotten home in the evening but I really didn't want to wait till evening. Everyone we called to we're either at work, drunk or didn't pick up. So I decided to text to this guy. I knew that this wasn't going to lift my reputation in his eyes but I really wanted to get to home. And besides, it gave my a chance to see him and talk to him.
He answered and he agreed to come.
So he came. When getting into the car I asked "Has some dwarf sat here?" because I couldn't really fit my feet there, had to move the chair back. He laughed and said something like "Yeah I am a dwarf." I am quite tall and he is about 30 cm shorter than me. At this concert it actually came up and I said that I didn't really care. Because I don't.
We took my friend home and then he took me home. During the drive we talked about random things again. I said that I had to go and take money from ATM to pay him but he said he didn't want my money. I protested a little but gave up and asked if he wanted at least some breakfast. He smiled and said that he probably wasn't in a condition to meet my mother (he was a little bit hangover).
So in front of my house I tried to speak my mind, saying that I really didn't think he was going to pick me up, he asked why, I said because I thought he didn't want to talk to me anymore. He smiled and said that if he didn't want to talk to me he wouldn't have responded my text. I muttered that I just hadn't heard of him long time and then thanked him, said goodbye and left the car. No peck this time. Of course.
By qteeh | Mar 10 2014
I met him online last April and we had undeniable chemistry. Things were going great, he was making the effort to see me frequently with his busy schedule. However, we were not intimate because I wanted to wait till I was sure we had the potential to be something serious. So I decided to ask where things were headed after a couple of months. He said that I was one of the sweetest girls he'd ever met but he didn't see it going beyond friendship. Therefore, I made the decision to stop talking to him and move on with my life in September. I would message him randomly asking him how he was but the conversation would only last a few texts mutually. He wished me a happy new year at 12 on new years. We haven't really conversed in the new year. Anyhow, I happened to run into him yesterday and we talked for a couple of minutes, just about work and vacations. He then called me at 4 am, drunk, telling me that he missed me and that he was so happy to see me and glad that I'd said hi. He said he wanted to kiss me and feel me in his arms. Anyhow, I haven't heard from him since or messaged him either.
By kc15 | Mar 06 2014
He and i met last summer. We live an hour with the plane from each other, so we don't really see each other. We used to text everyday. He used to send me things like: i wish i was there with you, you are amazing, not only your looks but also your personality, interests,..are perfect. But now we text like a just a few times a month. It has been a while since we talked and a couple days ago he sent me: i miss you, maybe we could call again sometime? I aswered but we never called.
By en11e2n | Feb 07 2014
Went on date 3 with a great guy. Pretty interested in him. Had a lovely evening, but just as we were settling down to have some drinks post dinner (still at restaurant), I had to run to the bathroom to be ill. Totally out of the blue. Was so, so humiliated, left pretty quickly but he still insisted on walking me to the taxi rank and then texted me saying 'You are the highlight of my weekend. Call me soon.' It's the last sentence that concerns me.