I've been working with this guy for a few weeks now and we've really hit it off, better than I could ever imagine. I initiated texting him first, and the very first time he responded in a very distant and awkward manner. However after awhile, we get along really really well and though we hurl insults at each other (well mainly me hurling them at him and he praising himself) we have been texting everyday since. He replies almost immediately all the time, even when he's at work we'd have conversations during his break time and vice versa, or on mutual offdays we practically chat the whole day. We talk about rather tribial stuff, inside jokes, stuff we have in common, things like relationships have never found their way into our conversation. In real life, I do notice that he does look at me a little more than necessary, and treats me perhaps a tad better than other female colleagues, such as staying back after his shift is done to chat or coming down on his off day to help me, lingering longer than needed? Then again I could be overthinking this entire thing. Here comes the main event. He's 9 years older than me and I'm just not sure if I actually mean as much to him as he does to me, and sometimes I feel like he sees me as a little sister.

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I've been hanging out with this new guy for nearly 3 weeks- we have seen each other everyday expect for 2 in the last 2 weeks. He hang out and watch movies, cuddle, tease & flirt with each other, have naps (lol), we've also drank together and gone to the pub, seen mutual friends, been out of town on day trips and just basically lounged around. We hang out basically all day everyday when I'm not working & when we are not with each other one of us is guaranteed to text the other making plans to catch up later (mutual amount of texting first, always quick replies).. We have also had 4 sleepovers with NO SEX. We have kissed, I sleep in my underwear and so does and we spoon and cuddle and talk but neither of us have made the move to go any further.
I know he's not chatting up anyone else (and neither am I), and we are always together anyway so neither of us have time to.

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So me and this guy were good friends a while ago and then found out we both liked each other, and were going to go on a date but I called it off. After about a year of occasional awkward small talk text convos, we finally talked for real and now we've been talking for about a week. We talk a lot, and we've been flirting back an forth for most of it, and he's started calling me sweetie and sweet heart and dear, and he's a romantic so I just went with it. Anyway, this morning he tells me he just wants to cuddle with me so badly, and then tells me how much cuddling turns him on, and said things like "just come over and spoon with me" and so on. We were going to be meeting up today in a public place so I joked and said we can hold hands and he said that it was cute but not the same. We keep on talking and he keeps saying things as if we are already in a relationship. But then he starts being too forward so I tell him, which I have had to do a few times, but he's always understanding. He starts asking if I'm ok so I text the first thing you see in the pic, and then he says he's not sure he likes me?

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I had a thing with this guys year ago, never really went anywhere but his friend and I both became pretty close for a while instead. At this time though he was very young looking so we weren't flirty just friends. Almost a year later he's hot af and we're back to talking again. We flirt all the time but have only went out twice, no kiss nothing. The first time was for coffee, it was nice and not awkward at all and it was after that that we started flirting a lot on text. The second time we went for ice cream and to a lookout point. I was expecting a hookup, and had hinted at it the whole time, but come the end of the date I got a hug, he payed for the ice cream and coffee though. Sooo I started thinking we're just friends but now he text me all the time, and is really flirty. His friends tell me he's never "been a closer", but I'm confused if he actually wants something or if he just wants to be friends? Or considering his "school status" if he's just keeping his options open. Whenever we plan to hangout he almost always cancels (unless it's to go do moto which we're both really into). I've never had a guy do that to me they're normally extremely eager. We're both seniors at different schools and his top snapchats are me and these two other very hot girls, which makes me wonder... Moving forward though we're going camping this weekend with a group of friends and I really want to know where this is leading.

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This guy and I have gone on one date that didn't really go anywhere because of a number of reasons (we're both working, there's an age gap between us that seems to create a lot of awkwardness). But we've known each other a while and basically had been going on "dates" for a while. We text each other all day, and I had opened up about this problem I was having and this was his response: "Sorry/got busy with something/ ugh, i don't know how to deal with you i.e., i don't know how to give you confidence"

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Okay so this guy and I would text on and off but the messages (on both ends) were long and the conversations could go for a couple of hours. The other day I got a message that said "Hey baby" and then like 10-15min later he said his friend took his phone and sent it. I said it was fine but He doesn't text me anymore, and I haven't tried to text him. When I see him in person I can tell he is looking at me, but he hasn't tried to talk to me since this happened.

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