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I'm afraid of myself....

By paleta | Jan 07 2016

Okay, here's the deal... and it's kind of fucked up. I demand to much attention from everyone, not in a creppy way but attention. I'm not self-involved, actually one of the things I'm not really used to talk about, are my feelings and how I feel toward things, but still I like to have attention, to get a text from the people I care everyday, I might not respond sometimes, but I just want to recieve it. The things is that, when some of the people I care, do not pay me attention at all, I get extremly anxious. I had a friend, we where Bff, I used to be her personal advicer in every subject of her life, but we've been quite apart lately, and when I ask her to give me some attention (I don't go, hey give me attention, It's more like I text her to tell her something) she doesn't even care, she do not call me or text me back in the way she used to. This leads me to kind of a anxiety breakdown, even more when more people it's involved. I would even try to hurt myself because the pain I feel from hitting my body can not be compared to the pain I feel inside, so I try to focus on that pain, so i can live with the one I have inside. This is becoming worse and worse, I'm afraid someday I'll hurt myself in a more serious way. The thing is, nobody knows this, everybody things I'm just a fun, nice and crazy girl who doesn't care about what people think, or do or whatever... But I'm not like that, It might seem like I'm but I'm not... and I don't wanna show this side of me, to anyone... what can I do?

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Ok ladies I need your advice. I met this guy a month ago. We started talking and have some things in common. At first he was the one texting me but now a few weeks have passed and well it seems like I'm the one who's initiating things. Last week he was being super cute w me and telling me good morning beautiful and cute things but now this is week I feel like he's gotten annoyed or simply loosing interest. I think that I came of as needy and I think that's why he doesn't want to try and hang out. Last night I let my anxiety get to me and I asked him what was up and what had happened to the guy (him) I was talking to last week. He told me that he was gets busy and he likes to chill by himself sometimes. Also he told me that I don't need to be texting him every hour or every day because last night I will admit I was sending him a few snapchats. Now I don't know how to interpret as if he doesn't want me to text him anymore or if he just simply cut me off. I really like this guy and I don't know if I ruined my chance with him.

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