I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years I love him to death and I know he loves me. Sometimes though I feel like he is not into me as much as I'm into him. He has a bad temper when he gets mad (which somehow he easily does) he calls me names like stupid and stuff, he used to throw things and push me but now has stopped. (Been 4 months since he has) . He's 23 and I'm turning 21 so I know we are young but I think I want to marry him and he does too but he wants to wait after law school. That would be four more years. I'm thinking at least maybe we should be engaged but he thinks he is too young. What does age have to do with it? I feel like he will not be ready even after law school. How can I know for sure he will marry me> He could meet someone else in school. Also he complains about how I rely on him emotional and he thinks it's too much. We have different views on a lot of things (we have a few things in common tho). I don't know what I'm trying to ask. Is it normal for a guy to behave this way? He's my first boyfriend. Also he treats me great when he is not mad/angry. Like cooks for me and says he loves me. He's just busy to not be texting so much and likes space. Is something wrong with me tho?

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Am I a home wrecking bitch?

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There is this guy, he became friends with me a few months ago. I had hinted to him that a girl in my dorm liked him and a few days later he asked her out and she said yes. They kept dating for about 2 months or so, and I didn't know but things weren't going well between them and meanwhile we became even better friends, I started noticing that he spent more time with me than he did with her. I was into someone else at the time so i just thought he was being friendly. Well she broke up with him about a month ago , and he didn't feel too badly about it, then he started hanging out with me even more and even increased the amount of times he texted.
I still thought he was being friendly, then we closed school for Easter break and we both went to different places, but the moment school opened he seemed to be different, he even started flirting and stuff. And I actually realized that I liked him. He asked me out and we started dating.
But now I just found out that his ex claims that they supposedly broke up with him cause he kept hanging out with me, that I was the problem, that because of me they couldn't hang out. But when I had personally asked her why she broke up with him she said it was a mutual agreement and also cause he was too clingy.
I am so confused on what I should do! Like what the hell? Should I confront her, or just leave it be? Because I talked to him and he admitted that he already liked me even when he was with her, he didn't want to hit on me while he was with her.

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