Has my anxiety scared him off?

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Why he invited me out and then cancelled?

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Is he into me or am I just a side girl?

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What's his problem, every time I try to get over it he comes back

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I met two guys with similar patterns. We just chatted couple of lines on whatsapp and suddenly out of the blue, they call. And I am shunned because you never asked if its okay to call, you just call. And I didnt pick up the phone cos I wasnt ready. Then i just let it go into missed call. I then text them and told them that I am not ready and can we text more first or maybe call later in the evening. They got rude and pissed of and told me good luck with other partners. I am just shocked and wonder am I rude to not pick up the call? Why can we just text alittle more then go out on a date and then all the calling stuff comes later.

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Is he interested or I am in the friendzone?

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What does a man mean when he says, "let's be good"?

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He text me all the time, 2 week long. And sometimes he's very sweet, sometimes he answers a little bit short. We are friend but i don't know if he likes me more than that?

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Exchanged a few messages on Tinder, which led to whatsapp and a first date. Now we both know we will be away for Easter...

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Sometimes I wonder if I'm the problem. I meet a guy, we hit it off and then I start fantasizing about things. I let romantic notions and ideas get in my head and sometimes it really seems like the guy is responding.

Recently I met a guy online. We were emailing back and forth for about a month. He was quite into it, sending long messages to my shorter ones and it went along really well. We exchanged numbers and chatted. Things started going downhill from there. He would send me occasional non-sexual texts and I started getting the idea that he enjoyed our conversations and maybe wanted something more. When I started reciprocating he backed off a little and I got the idea he just wanted sex. Things started getting a little weird and he told me about having sex with someone else. I stopped texting him after that. I noticed he would log on and off Whatsapp every so often but only every few days. I thought maybe he only got Whatsapp for me and about a month later when I was feeling frisky and decided to text him and ask him how things were going. We met up, spent a few hours together getting along pretty well for a first date. I noticed he was fidgetted a lot like me and we laughed a lot. Then we had sex. I was tired and so was he. He was pretty good but he called me baby, said things like how tight my wet hole was, and asked me how having sex with him was like and how it felt to just stick my head into the bed for someone to fuck. He walked me back to my car but it was awkward and he wouldn't even look at me. I was confused and disappointed. Maybe I gave off the wrong signals. I noticed immediately when he deleted his whatsapp and didn't appear on my list anymore. I emailed him and he responded. I emailed him again and he responded. And this has been going on for a couple of weeks now. His responses have been brief and short. He has even mentioned things like "next time" and not to worry about the past. I know I should let him go but I'm feeling very sad because I thought we got along so well. He even told me he enjoyed himself. We were laughing and having fun. What happened? Should I just trust my instinct that said he just wanted sex and not feel too badly about it because at that moment when I messaged him that was what I wanted to? How do I save what little dignity I have left and just forget about him? Should I hook up with someone else?

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He sings to me... is he interested in me?

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I have been seeing this guy for nearly two months. I met him on Tinder and we get on very well. However he has been acting distant recently. We went with a week of no contact, even though we texted everyday constantly from the first day we started talking. I dropped him a text on Sunday asking if he wanted to meet up this week and he didn't reply, despite him being on WhatsApp so I know he got the text.

I assumed he ghosted me and accepted it as 'he's not interested' but he texted yesterday apologising for the lack of contact and said he was 'swept off his feet' and 'Hopes I am doing well'.

I really like him, however I have no idea what to reply or even if I should bother to reply.

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Ok.. So I am trying to figure this one out! As most of the stories go I met this guy ( at work ) We had a staff meal out and he was sat opposite, we had a chat and he was quite forward and said I should join him to see an event at some point. He seemed to be actively flirting at work following that ( teasing, joking around, nudging my arm ). Three weeks later he asked for my Facebook then later had his phone out and said oh well you can put your number in here if you like? He rings my phone and says now you have my numbeer too. That was at work.

He initiated first contact asking how I am.. a feeler text so to speak. We exchange quite lengthy texts and seem to have similar interests. He asks what music I like then, is quite joking/teasing. Sends lots of ;) and :P always asks a question in each message.

So after that he sends a text a day ( probs about the length of my thumb) after our initial 8 or so texts exchanged in one night. The worse thing is he used WhatsApp to initiate contact through! So.. He reads my messages instantly then replies several hours to a day later. I know in the grand scheme of things we shouldn't get too into analysing this.

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Last year, when I was a junior, I kept having eye contact with an older guy who was also a junior. He is older because he comes from another country and had to learn to speak our language. A few weeks before summer break I started hanging out with his 2 best friends. At the end of the summer I ended up getting into a relationship with one of his best friends.
This school year, now that I'm a senior, this older guy and I ended up in the same class. We started talking in real, and later also on whatsapp. At the end of October he heard that he had to leave the country, so he told me that he had liked me for over a year now. I then didn't tell him that I liked him too, but later I did and his reaction was really sweet. He also told me he would always keep loving me.

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We worked together Two years ago. He resigned and then I did, we were not friends really. He sent me a FB invite one year ago and sent me hi messages every now and then. A month and a half ago he sent me a message to go out with him. I sent him my number and he called me so we went out and did well. At the end he said, that we should go out more often or come over to his office to have lunch. Two weeks after, I sent him a message to go out for lunch and he said I am in, so he invited me for lunch that day and I was not expecting for him to pay for it, but at the end he said: it is not an option, I am paying for it. Next day a friend of mine asked me to invite him for a gathering so I did, and he said yes but it got rescheduled for the following week. I called him to invite him and he said he was not sure because he had to finish some study cases for his MBA, and next day he had to go to an early day wedding but he was gonna try. The day of the gathering he sent me a whatsapp apologizing saying he was still studying and sent the picture of his laptop with the business cases. I wished him good luck with his homework and the wedding. The next day he sent me a picture of him with his best friends at the wedding... So I am clueless

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I met this guy at a pub in 2010, I was behind the bar and he was fun, smart and flirty. Something clicked, I realised we were in the same University and be became friends on Facebook. We met a couple of times at random uni things during the year, he had a girlfriend at the time and nothing came of it. I finished my course and left the country. In the course of the last 4 years, he's messaged me whenever we were in the same part of the world and we never met(it's only happened twice though). Recently, I came back to the country and just dropped him a line letting him know that I was back and we got to talking regularly. He's still a lot of fun and he's really gotten better with age.

A friend of mine was sending me a parcel and I mentioned it to him in passing, he joked about how he travels a lot(work-related) and if he was in her part of the world he'd pick it up for me. I laughed about it and left it at that. A week later he tells me he's going to the exact city she's in and if she hadn't sent it already he'd pick it up. She hadn't gotten around to posting it and so he picked it up. At this point I was grateful, but didn't think anything else of it. He lives about a 4 hour drive away from me and I told him I'd drive down over the weekend to pick it up. He said he was busy for the next two weekends and said he'd let me know when he was free. However, on the second weekend(the one where he was supposedly busy) he called up and asked me if I minded him driving up, his calendar had just opened up, he needed a break, etc, etc. I usually have quiet weekends and this one was no different so I said I was free and he said he'd drive up on Saturday morning. He turned up mid-afternoon, that spark from all those years was still there and long story short we spent most of the weekend in bed.

I specified to him that I don't have time for a relationship, I'm simply too busy with my career and plan to stay that way for the next 10 or so years. He was fine with it, thrilled even, said that he wasn't looking for one either, his past ones had left him too scarred to trust in them again. It was an ideal situation, he's a nice, caring, smart, funny, slight wicked(in a good way) guy and we click very well together.

The problem with it is, I think I might be in a relationship and not realise that I'm in one. We're chatting on Skype, Snapchat, Facebook inbox, whatsapp, Hangouts through the course of the day, sometimes simultaneously on more than one of them. We're on call every second day, even if they're short 4-5 minute calls. We've hooked up 5 of the last 6 weekends. I've hung out with his friends, he's hung out with mine, I've even made tentative summer plans with one of his girl-friends. And as I'm listing all of this out I'm kind of realising that I might have answered the question I'm going to ask. But this all hit me last night when we were on call and he told me that he wanted to kiss me the very first time he saw me and how it sucks that we never managed to meet more often and how he wishes we'd hooked up sooner.

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