Hey hey, it's me again. This guy and I hit it off well, exchanged numbers and we were texting constantly for about 3 weeks. Then he left to Milan for a competition and wrote "Chat me on Viber, I'm gonna miss talking to you". so a week later I did, no response. I wrote to him a couple days later again because it was my birthday (he didn't know) I got a nice response a couple hours later. Wrote to him back again, took him a full week to answer!!!! His excuse was, he's very busy. I understand he is busy but it doesn't take long to send me a text right?

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I ask a guy if he can call me when he has a free time (I know he's awfully busy & we're in different time zones). He replies back a week later with "Sorry sorry, I got busy-_-, What happened though? I'll try to call you tomorrow.^.^" I write to him back a little bit about what happened and what time is good for me. He's been going online on Viber but never even clicking my message or chat, been the second day without a call! :(

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I'll try to keep this short!
I live in Canada and he lives in the US, we met at university. We were always just friends and it really was never anything more then that, we even mostly hung out with different people but once in a while we did hang out with a couple of the same friends.
SO it been about two years since we've talked. I found him on snapchat about 2-3 weeks ago and we've been talking everyday. Snapchatting, texting through viber etc. He's in the army so as of sunday there's been no communication since he is at ranger school for 2 months or more but he did say I could write to him while he's away. I know not to think too much into this but I do feel I am either just enjoying the attention I am getting from him or possibly I am starting to feel a little something for him. While we talk he has mentioned a couple times now that I should visit him after ranger school. The last big text we were talking about tv shows we watch and don't watch and when he found out I haven't seen the How I Met Your Mother series, he said "if you do visit after ranger school, we'll binge watch" and he's always complementing me too. like about my eyes and that I'm pretty etc. He is really sweet.

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December 2013 my mother had her work xmas party & as an ex-colleague myself (24 yrs) I went too - uninvited - but towards the end of the festivities as I wanted to catch up with all my old work mates. I'd already heard about a new employee (31 yrs) who works with my ma and expected to meet him for the first time as well. And when I did gosh, did it feel like I was meeting a 'soul connection'. At that time we were both in relationships, as I told him when he asked if I was single, because he wanted to hook me up with his younger brother, and I knew he was in one too from my mother and my best friend (who too works with this guy), but never heard it from the horses mouth that night. So anyway we got along swell, and talked like we'd known each other forever. He was keen to train me, as my request to tone and strengthen my body, and we tentatively agreed to organise this for the near future.

As a party we did a bit of a pub crawl, and I danced a lot, doing a lame sway to the beat, miming words, jumping around, carrying on etc. And so often he would come behind me, grab me and kiss me on the cheek from behind, dance behind me to match my sway…which was all kind of awkward for me because I was in a relationship…as was he (but that wasn't my business. Let me also tell you that my mother was there as well, and she loves this guy to bits and are very, very close). When he needed to go to the bathroom, my mother told me to show him, and he told me to hold his hand "so we look like a couple". I felt sorry for his girlfriend: here was her guy, flirting with me, comfortable with me…it was just a bad feeling. At the end of the night I went to give him a kiss on the cheek goodbye, to which he said "aren't you going to kiss me?" I told him no. He settled for a million kisses on my right cheek, and a hug that felt like he didn't want to let him go. He asked for my number, and I gave it.

I know he's not the only one that cheated, somewhat, that night.

The weekend before xmas was the first time I talked to him since that night via text. I was going overseas for the summer and I was getting his clothing sizes and brand of ciggies he wanted when we came back through duty free. He's dedicated to Muay Thai and the gym but smoking is a killer vice of his. So we spent my holidays texting on viber. We had this connection that just pulled us together, do you know what i mean? And Yes, I was still with my boyfriend at that time.

It was then while I was overseas and around new years 2014 did my boyfriend ask me if I would move in with him. Though a few days later he took it back because "I live interstate and i don't want you to give up everything to move here just to be with me." From January to the end of February I was preoccupied with THIS particular situation, as the relationship with my boyfriend disintegrated from there and then eventually, we broke up.
During this time I was training with that other guy; STRICTLY at a platonic level, and we never talked about THAT night. My mother was always there too, doing her own exercises as well, and eventually my brother turned up on invitation to get some training out of this guy as well (my brother only lasted 2 sessions though).

It wasn't awkward to be around him considering how forthcoming he was that night, nor have I ever been a person to hold back from doing something that i really want to do because of a past situation. He would give me reps to do and I'd do them best I could, get sweaty, look absolutely dreadful and not care at all about it.

So a couple of weeks after the break up, his gf moved back to Canada. And then a couple of days after that, as prearranged before her move, my mother and I took him out for dinner, as a thank you for my training because he doesn't have me pay him. We then went to a football game where we met his friends, where we spent the whole time next to each other, and then we all went out afterwards. As usual I danced a lot, mostly by myself, sometimes with a few girls I just met, and sometimes with one of his buddies. This buddy got hungry and I left the bar with him to get a feed. But when I came back, my guy was sitting next to my mother and he would not look me in the face. After a few convinces to tell me what was up, he told me he was jealous. And he stayed that way the whole night. When we left that bar, we yelled at each other down to the next one - he asking where HIS friend had gone, in a sarcastic manner, and I about the girl he let stalk him around the whole bar. When we found a seat at the next bar, he apologised over and over for arguing with me, but still would't look at me. It was as if he was shocked, I don't know. I did cry a little bit out of frustration. At about 4am we left to catch a taxi, and he got into an argument with my mother over me, she telling him he wasn't ready to go out with me yet, and this lasted 30 mins, walking about 500m. Then when we sat down again, as I was standing looking for he and his friends ride to come, he said to me, in front of my ma: "do you know why I'm angry? Everything about you makes me angry. The way you talk, the way you act, the way you walk, the way you dress. Everything." And then he asked me if I wanted a hug, and I did because I was so overwhelmed, and we cuddled while I was on his lap.

Later that morning he admitted he was attracted to me, and he liked me, and he was so very cut up with what happened with his friend. I told him likewise, that I was sorry i hurt him. But we made it easy on each other and we kept flowing on just being us as usual.
So we've been training together since, and recently I told him that I really liked him, but he doesn't have to do anything with it yet if he's not ready, to which he answered that he will bring it out sometime soon he hopes.

Our friendship, this kind of friendship, has been going on for a couple of months now.

We have been out again to his best friends birthday, and I was asked a lot if he and I were a couple because there was a 'vibe' between us, to which i would say 'no, we're just friends', to which they will always say, that he isn't looking at other girls. But that doesn't mean anything. At the gym he doesn't look at other girls either, it is just us in our own world. We go to the movies and he's nervous and quiet, and we have never kissed.

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