By hopelessromantic294 | Apr 09 2015
Red Flags everywhere or overanalyzing?
So I started dating this guy in January and he was everything I wanted and more. He was sweet and kind to me and was nothing like my ex. However, because Ive been hurt, I told him I wanted to take things slow before I committed myself to him. A month later he thought was the right time and then a month after that he told me he was in love with me while we were drunk one night at a party. He said how much he cared for me and tried to have sex with me that night when I told him before I want to take things slow. At the time I didn't think too much into it but now looking back I am so shocked. This past weekend we got in a huge fight and I haven't talked to him the past few days because when he gets angry, he gets angry. I saw him throw things and start screaming and swearing and that was a big turnoff. So incidently we got in a fight and he started acting really rude to me. The reason why we never really fought before was because he would always stop a conversation before it got too far. I also found out that he has been lying to me about smoking pot even after I had asked him to his face if he was doing it or not and he said no. So now I am doubting my trust. We were supposed to talk today but I haven't heard from him yet.
By ashb | Mar 21 2015
When a guy casually makes a joke about sex, does that mean that he wants it? I got mad at my best guy friend because I wanted to go out tonight but he was feeling tired and didn't want to. These are some of his messages..."don't feel like I'm rejecting you haha." "I know you're thinking that I am." Then "if you want to sleep with me you're welcome haha." Is it just a joke?
By butterflygirl | Mar 20 2015
He texted me " Ok" after i told him that he sucks. Is he mad or he just doesn't care ?
By iamhellalost | Mar 15 2015
Okay so me and this guy have been together for three months now, hes in a different city right now for vacation. He texted me early this morning saying he needed to see me as soon as he came back and that it was important. I asked why and he said he "needed to know the real me" , I asked what this meant and he is just trying to figure out what his sister told him is what i'm really about. this makes no sense to me, but we set up a time to meet up. This is a few days from now and he hasn't texted me anything else, he said he wasn't mad but has made it clear he doesn't want to talk. Should I text him and say anything? or just wait it out? It's killing me
By kathy_jeane | Mar 13 2015
Last month, a friend of mine told me he had a tumor. It just casually came up in conversation, but I was still a little surprised he told me, as he doesn't usually talk about things that bother him. He said he was fine, and thanked me when I said he could always come to me if he needed to talk. Then last week, he texted me to tell me he got the results of his MRI back - "the thing grew or whatever." I could tell he was upset (but who wouldn't be) and asked if it was cancerous; he said most likely, and he would need to get more tests done and possibly get surgery as well. He said he was really pissed off. I didn't know what to say. I told him I was sorry and and again offered to be there if he ever wants to talk (we don't live near each other). He didn't respond to that text, but I figured he needed some time. I texted him later to see how he was and he acted like nothing was wrong. I was so surprised and scared when he told me that I'm worried I said the wrong thing and he wishes he hadn't told me.
By shay112 | Mar 01 2015
Is there a reason why he stopped talking to me?
By fancywick | Feb 28 2015
Been meaning to congratulate you on that Pats championship
By megan80561 | Feb 28 2015
So I was seeing this guy for about 6 months, we decided to take it a little slower when my grandma passed away cause I had a lot to do and deal with. We had started talking and hanging out again. He was telling me he thought I was a woman he could put a ring on and could picture himself with. He asked me if I thought I was ready for a relationship now and I told him I was. He waited 6 hours to respond, then told me that he wasn't sure we communicated well and wasn't sure if he was ready. Then said goodnight luv and that was it. So I got mad and sent more txts then I should have I will admit but how do you go from ring talk to idk. And now even after I apoligized sincerly for texting too much he blocked my number and blocked me on facebook. What gives?
By socalgirl_2 | Feb 25 2015
By hopelessroman116 | Feb 20 2015
I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and we've only hungout once...
By jasmine_3 | Jan 24 2015
Did he wait for me to talk to him first?
By jms792 | Jan 21 2015
Is he saying what he thinks I want to hear?
By char_2 | Jan 14 2015
My work friend had been telling me about how perfect i'd be for this guy. She said he was really nice but had had trouble with crazy past girlfriends and was looking for a good girl. I don't like set ups so ignored her then one day she got him to txt me and the conversation flowed. We got on so well and had really good banter, so he asked me out. Our first date was amazing, we went out for drinks, walked a popular street for christmas lights and then talked untill 4.30am. The first time we had sex was undescribable, I have never felt anything like it. We continued seeing eachother 3-4 times a week and each time was so much fun. He spent Christmas with me and even made the effort to get dressed up and bring me a present. We already made seperate new years plans but on the night i was snapchatted pics and videos of him hooking up with another girl. In the morning he txted me but I was really upset, he apologised profusely and said he missed me and couldn't wait to see me, sent heaps of x's blah blah.. then when I got back he put off seeing me until I ran into him at a party on the 3rd. He was drunk so we talked for a bit but didn't spend long together. He came over on the Tuesday with a bottle of wine and said sorry again and it was back to normal. On sunday I was out and heard his friend saying he had slept with a girl from the party we had been at the previous Saturday. I was upset so I messaged him. He asked where I had heard it and said that I wasn't his girlfriend and that because we never had the 'talk' he wasn't sure what I wanted. He then sent me this 'I think it is best if we end it. I would never be able to treat you how you should be. Id like to be friends if you want x'
By katelyncreative | Jan 08 2015
I used to be friends with this guy in 6th grade. I accidentally got mad after I got moved away from him and stopped talking to him in whole. He got a phone over summer, and I texted him 'round the clock. Since we have school again (and he has more friends), our messages are usually fairly short to another. BUT ANYWAY: He texts me, asking for math numbers. His texting style is definitely not emojis. It's literally creeping me out. I have the sneaking suspicion he likes me, from so many past hints as well. (Examples: friends sending purple heart emojis when they got a hold on his phone. Sends photos of himself whenever he can. Also, this subtle flirt: "Every conversation we have, I hear a little wheeze cough laugh.")
Oh. And there was this really creepy scene that went down. I told him I was at the local park and he flipped out all like "THATS THE PARK I GO TO!!! Srsly!!! I am super close!!!"
By angel_5 | Jan 08 2015
Its been a month that have been dating online a bipolar guy that just came out of rehab 4 months ago and he is been sober for 4 months and a half. We met online through a friend and we still didn't meet because he lives in a country that is 30 minutes far by plane from mine. He loves me since the first day we talked! I said to him it's so early how can u love me without even have seen me! Anyway little by little I started loving him too.
My family is very traditional and will never let me travel by myself to see him therefor he has to come here to see me. The problem is that he has some financial problems therefor he can't come for another month or two. Yesterday he got me very angry because he said if he doesn't see me he won't be in a relationship me and that he needs to stay away from
Many things he likes and he can't stay away also from
Other things he likes and he feels down bc he still didn't see me. Ok and that's logic but its been a month that he tells me he loves me every single day and that he sends me messages all day long and that he will do the maximum it takes to make it work. So we had a fight and I blocked him On facebook and thought it was over. This morning I found 10 messages from him that he couldn't sleep the whole night long that he is very sad and that it can't be over like this and that he is sorry and to please talk to
Him. I didn't feel like answering his FaceTime call but I answered his iMessages and said I was so upset at the things he said. He said he loves me and that I'm perfect and all he wants but that its so hard bc he didn't see me yet. I said ok but I don't see you are patient and you have ups and downs with me and I don't like that at all. I'm 29 years old
And had many heartbreaks in my life. I need stability and a man that doesn't have ups and downs. I want to make a family and want a man that will love me sooo much! I have alot to give. He said he will try all his best to come see me here.
Oh and today in the early morning while he couldn't sleep he took heroine for the first time in 4 months and a half because he told me that it makes him feel as if I'm there. And he wanted to commit suicide due to his family issues and because we had broken up. He has big family issues! He said it would of never been my fault if he commited suicide. He said he was sorry for wat he said that it was so painful to say those things.
By thezone_2 | Jan 05 2015
There's a guy I was with a few years ago. We knew each other from childhood and ended up dating. Long story short, I broke up with him because he started talking to a girl I'm no liner friends with, AFTER I told him about her. He lied about it but I found out from social media. Confronted him and broke it off. He made it his business to have me in his life some way and after a year or two we became friends.