I met this guy at a St. Patrick's Day party who's really good friends with a guy that lives on my floor in residence. He's super nice and we talked for pretty much the whole night before he walked me back to my residence (he lives in the same building). I was being very flirtatious with him and was rubbing his leg while at the party, and when we were walking back he grabbed my hand and we held hands the entire way. I went to one of his friend's rooms and we all hung out together for a couple hours before going to bed around 3am. When I went with him back to his room he asked me if I wanted to spend the night there, but I said I probably should go back to my own room. He said "that's fine, you have my cell number. You should come out with me and the guys again tomorrow" then proceeded to give me a goodnight kiss. We've been texting a little bit over the last two days, but he's a really shitty texter and takes at least an hour to respond every time. There hasn't been any talk of seeing each other again though, but I really want to. What should I do? I don't want him to think that I'm too forward or clingy by asking him to hangout as I was pretty flirtatious at the party, but I really want to see him again and I don't know if he'll ask me out. He seemed/seems interested in me though, especially with the hand holding and goodnight kiss.

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My best friend is a guy whom I have known for the last 10 years; we met in high school, kept in touch in college, dated after college when we both wound up in the same city, broke up after a few weeks because he "didn't feel that way about me". Now we pretty much live together we spend so much time together...

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By yhgh123 | Jan 22 2015

So me and this guy we go to the same college,we take at least 2 or
more lectures together. He always hangs around with my x-boyfriend and I am kind of
attracted to this guy but I find absoultley no chance to talk to him on my own without
having my X around us. We talked few times on our own when my X wasn't there and we got
on very well and I really like that plus he is a good listener. The other day I downloaded
tinder and we matched but he didnt start a conversation or anything I dont know what is that
supposed to mean and what should I do ?

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By sportsfanaticxoxo | Jan 14 2015

Okay, so I met this guy on Tinder a few months ago. He started chatting me up with small talk and we seemed to be getting along great! After a few days of messaging, he asks for my number which I give him (we go to the same college). At first he kept insisting on hanging out and being really flirty and fun with me via text. We finally hang out one night and it was a ton of fun. We watched a movie and just got to know each other. We hugged goodnight afterwards and that was that. He continued to text me pretty frequently and we hung out a few more times.

Eventually, I spent the night and we were finally going somewhere. We made out all night, but I was too drunk to want to move any further and he insisted on waiting because I was so drunk. Wow, did I finally meet a good guy? After that night, the texts were more and more infrequent and his responses to my texts were next to nothing. When he text me out of the blue to hang out, I was excited and shocked all in one. Then I went to a party at his house where I found out he had been talking to his fraternity brothers about me and I was like wow, maybe he does feel something then! Again, the texting was bare minimum, if it happened at all. Well, when we finally did have sex, it was so great. It was probably some of the best sex I've ever had, not to mention I stayed the night and he drove me home the next day. Then our winter break came and he lives 2 1/2 hours away from me so seeing him wasn't expected. I came back to my college for NYE & got a random text from him asking if I was in town and wanted to hang out. Obviously I said yes... I couldn't stop thinking about him over break. The hang out went really well and I haven't talked to him since. It's been almost 2 weeks already. I know he's busy with work and school, but what did I do wrong? Side note: he deleted his Tinder and got it back, but hasn't matched with me again even though I've seen him on there twice. Also, he hasn't accepted or denied the friend request I sent him months ago. Every time we've hung out he asks me what I'm looking for to which I respond, "I'm not sure.." Because I don't know what I want out of this, but I do know that it's really hard not to text him and try to hang out every day. I even made it a point in one really drunken, idiotic text that if he wasn't feeling it to let me know & he said he had been meaning to text me, but he got caught up at home. Help.

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Just dated a guy for 2weeks, seen each other 4times.
This morning we went to run on the beach, I changed my pants in his car(he waited outside) then forgot to take it with me. When I came home I texted him saying I forgot y pants, he said lol I prefer you forgot them in my bedroom! I said you can take them to your bedroom yourself! He replied I prefer you took them off in my bedroom yourself!
Actually it reminds me of one time he joked about my pants. I prefer you without them!

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Hi guys,
Here is a guy I met online, he is a phd student at the same university as i am. We live 2 miles away. We went on first date, he dressed very formally, and we had a good time and took pic together. I said i will delete my online profile, and he said he will do it too. I deleted it and sent him a pic.Next day he asked me out again, and texted me good morning and good night. And he kept asking me out the following week everyday, we went to the beach, the museum, the library.. in seven days, then he went to another state to visit his friend and still texted me everyday. When he came back he brought me a gift. I asked him whether he already deleted the profile he said he disabled it. After we meet last time(2 days after he came back) I checked the dating website and found he was there! I called him and told him i felt cheated, he said he was busy and didn't have time to delete and then he disabled his account and sent me a pic. he called me that night and talked a little. But I haven't heard from him for two days.

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