By bambree12 | Aug 05 2015
Does he really wanna hang with me?
Ok so at 9:21am today I asked him if he wanted to hang out he wouldn't reply till I said plz reply he said Maybe so I waited till I felt wen I should txt him again. I wa sgonna wait to ask again at last min but wanted to kno
So I asked at 9:31pm ik same time I didnt do that on porpuse but I felt like he wouldn't gonna txt me bak an well I didn't give him enough Time but when I said I wanna see him b4 I moved to Florida he text back fast with the reply yea heres the text
Me: hey are u down to chill tommrow? I got money if u wanna get something to eat or something an I'm packing now(no reply)
Also I wanted to see you befor I moved to Florida
Me:yup ill be ready around 4-6
Detail: things are a little wierd im guessing bc the guys I stay with is bossy an liked to tell me wat to do always talk shyt get mad an i cannot do nothing an if I get caught talking to anyone he will kick me out anyways last week long story short we did it an well from there he seemed distance he tells me to be careful bc he doesn't want me to get kicked out or in trouble so yea but when I leave he always tells the guy I live with to get me an not leave me in the streets bc they don't well him mainly to be on drugs an streets again.
By daisy11 | Apr 13 2015
what is he doing? what should I do?
By whatever2015 | Mar 27 2015
Everytime I call him he says sorry can't talk now
By ej22 | Mar 25 2015
Should I trust him?
By midwestgirl | Mar 15 2015
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By laura5 | Jan 15 2015
Am I overthinking everything?
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By mudvchick101 | Dec 24 2014
Alrighty I am reposting my last question and adding more background to my situation. I met this guy about 6 months ago on a dating site. He lives 4 hours away from me in another state. AT the beginning he told me that he wanted to be friends with someone before he started a relationship. Get to really know them and trust them(he had a bad breakup with his gf of 7 yrs 2 yrs ago) Anyway, we started talking and it has been an every day thing. We haven't gone a day yet without at least saying hey to each other ( it was him texting me first and just us getting to know each other.) Then he took it to another level past what friends usually would talk about. I have driven up there 4 times within the last 6 months ( he can't get to me as easily because his truck can't make long trips.) so it would take him a 5 hr bus ride and a 3 hr train ride to come see me. It would take a lot more planning for him to come to me. Anyway, The last few times I have been out there, we did hook up but theres a lot of cuddling involved. (we stayed in a hotel so we could be more comfortable but He took me to his house and i met his mom. He cooked me burgers when I was out there (he's a vegetarian so making burgers for me in my eyes is kind of a big deal.. In my mind, meeting family and parents is a good thing... and I don't know many people that bring just anyone home to meet and stay at his house( I'm going up there this weekend to kind of get away from my life) recently He went to go see his friends and we barely talked while he was there( he doesn't get to see them very often) But of course the second he gets on his way back home, we talk like nothing ever happened...
By helpisneeded | Dec 13 2014
So we've been talking for a few months already and he seems like a great guy. But the problem is that I don't know whether I can trust him or not. I have his instagram and I go on it sometimes to see what he's up to and he doesn't know my instagram. I went to the page of a girls he knows and she posted a picture with him captioning it "my piece of perfects me or the girl on instagram.
By pinkcab56 | Nov 18 2014
This is just an update really.. So after I didn't go and see Mr. FWB who claimed that he wanted to be with me, he posts in fb 4 days later that he has a girlfriend. And that they would be always and forever. I'm glad I listened to everyone here and didn't go. I had even asked him if he was coming to see me and he said he couldn't, so that's how I knew he only wanted relations and not the relationship.
By vult | Nov 17 2014
I was seeing someone for 3 months. At first it went well but I'm not the type to fall in love quickly. Fortunately, I found out gradually that he was playing around and also kept seeing other women while seeing me. I decided to dump him because first, I don't want to waste my time and second, after finding out his habit of lying (saying I was the only one for him but also texts other women the same thing) I was emotionally done with him. I wished him luck while walking away voluntarily because without me, he's still happy with other girls. But this guy just keeps texting me out of the blue asking: "Is everything ok with you?"
By kali11 | Nov 14 2014
So I've been seeing this guy now for about a month now and he's absolutely wonderful so far. We have a lot in common and I love spending time with him even though we don't see each other as much as I'd like due to conflicting schedules, but he makes me feel special and the time we do spend together more than makes up for the time we don't. Sometimes he sends me these texts out of the blue, usually when I accidentally fall asleep in the middle of texting each other, that are really long and basically all about how happy he is with me and how beautiful I am, ect., but the problem is that I have trouble taking them seriously? This is probably due to my last boyfriend, who would send me texts just like those but then flirt with other girls in front of me, spend more time with his friends instead of me, and text other girls whenever he did spend time with me. He eventually ended up cheating on me. Those texts sounded so genuine, though I now realize he was just playing me. In between those nice, sweet texts he would text the noncommittal "K"'s and "Cool"'s that all girls despise. The only other time he'd send me longer texts were when he'd sext me. Now I have this new guy who is everything my old boyfriend wasn't (sweet, honest, told me to slap him if he ever texts a single "K" to me, reminds me of a puppy) and he sends me the same sort of nice texts, and though I'm not as naive as I used to be and I know he's not a player and he really seems to genuinely like me, I can't help but flash back to my old boyfriend who said all those nice things but didn't mean them.
By hc1010 | Nov 12 2014
He is my ex and I felt like he play too much game. I really liked him but now I'm really busy for school and graduating.
By jenks8806 | Nov 03 2014
I have known this guy for 13 years, we went to school together, I moved away and we lost touch for about 10 years. In July he found me and message me, we exchange numbers and I've been talking everyday since. We still have about 45 minutes away from each other, and we've talked about seeing each other, but we have a busy schedules. I like him, and I think he likes me, we talked about future plans and what we like in a mate. Whenever we talk, it's good conversation, we laugh and joke around as well as what's going on in our lives, or what's bothering us. But lately, it seems like he gets upset when I tell him I'm going out with my friends. I know that he's been hurt in the past by other women, and has trust issues. But he gets upset with me like I'm the one who hurt him or is going to hurt him, and that's not the case at all, but we've yet to discuss what we really are or where this may be going.
By eddybird | Nov 01 2014
So, I've been talking to this guy I met on a dating site for a couple weeks. He works in my town but is not from here. So on his time off he goes back home. We did meet and hang out before he left for his days off and have been in communication since he has been gone. We have really great conversations and chemistry at least in my opinion. He hasn't given me a reason to not believe anything he tells me but I don't want to be nieve and be fooled. I have been through a lot of bad guys in the past so I find it hard to trust and my mind will get the best of me most times. I haven't had any negative wandering thoughts about him till recently and I don't know if it's just my past trying to trigger false feelings or if I should worry. So here is what has me thinking... He has 4 kids back home and gets all of them on his week off so he has his hands full. He told me up front he could talk during the day but after about 4 he would be unavailable because he would be playing super dad and kept a tight schedule. All week we have been on this schedule and it's been fine until my mind started to wonder. He would be MIA for me all weekend, I get it he has 4 kids to take care of but is it to much to ask or do that he send a short text here and there just to touch base? I can't help but think he may be hiding something or someone back home. Why the strict cut off after certain hours? Is it him being a good dad or a good liar?