By gizelle | Jan 06 2015
I have this guy best friend that I do everything with, holding hands when walking, cuddling in cinemas, exploring and adventuring together all that. We do love and care for each other, but he never wanted a relationship with me so I just gave up any romantic feelings I had for him, and we've been best of friends for 2 years now.
So recently I found a boyfriend that I really like, and my best friend started being very clingy and whiny, saying I would leave him all that. Doing couple-ly things with my best friend just feels automatic and right since we've been doing it for so long already, and I know my boyfriend wouldn't be happy even though he accepts the fact that I have a guy best friend and knows we do everything together but doesn't want to sabotage the friendship we have.
By brooklyngirl3_2 | Nov 17 2014
My friend likes her ex again they broke up after a week of dating she broke up with him. She likes him again and I said I'd get his number for her cause she erased it. I got his number and gave it to her and a rumour started that I liked him then he started staring at me in a love dovy way. He liked me for the previous year. My friend wanted me to text him to find out who he liked so I did and he was flirting with me! I finally got her to text him and she asked, "who do u like... Brook" and he said "kinda"! What does that mean when I was texting him I started to like him!!!!! I LIKE MY FRIED S CRUSH?!??????? Anyway there's way to much details to put in. I'm a good friend but I like her ex is that ok? Do I date him I think I want to?!
By jellyhead | Nov 15 2014
Me and this guy have been very close friends for about eight months now - talking every single day and discussing everything from the small details of our day to the deep secrets of our past. He went through this phase where he was unemployed/where he kept getting rejections/where his ex who he still had feelings for got married and I would do my best to support him through all the hard times. I would describe him as very close to my heart.
He does know that I like him because I admitted so. He stayed friends with me and said he really respected me for having the guts to tell him although he didn't say that he sees me romantically in any way. I don't think he does, but he actually calls me "bro" and "sweet sis" a lot. Hahahaha - I'm OK with that and can enjoy our friendship for what it is.
However, two things have been bugging me lately. After his unemployed phase, he recently got a new job and he has become very close to one of his co-workers. They take lunch together at a separate time from everybody else in the office and he often asks me to help decipher her texts and stuff. He says he doesn't want to fall in love with her (I haven't asked explicitly why, but she is roughly 6 years older than him and also intercultural marriages aren't very common in his family, so that might be a reason.) He said that he is trying to control his feelings, but they spend a lot of time together and it's difficult. I have seen the things she texts him, the flirty compliments which she gives him and the way she behaves around him, so I think she definitely likes him too. They have a lot of fun together, so what I can see is the definite basis of a romantic emotional connection forming - if not an outright relationship.
By girlonqwerty | Oct 24 2014
I have this guy friend who I met in 1st year of college. He was in a relationship at that time, and he is a good looking guy. I started liking him since day 1, and I became really good friends with him. I usually did things for him, and he often took me for granted but at the end of the day he was a very good guy, he was there when I needed something, mostly, at least. His girlfriend, I got acquainted with her, and we became friends too and I usually had 1-2 occasions of being the third wheel, which I made clear to him I did not want to be, and he respected my judgments. We became closer as we did college events together, and he made it a point to delve into my talents and appreciate, compliment them and encourage me. We made a common friend and and we are called the 'trio' in our college for our friendship. In between, he stopped talking to me ( or for that matter, anyone) in college because his girlfriend wanted more time of his, which he tried giving. Then the second semester of college started and his visits to his girlfriend lessened. We had our usual friendship going on. In between I told him I liked him, but he told me that he has a girlfriend already. I told him I do not want a relationship or something, I was just letting him know, and he appreciated it and took it in the positive stride. It made it easy for me that he was okay with it. Meanwhile, I used to flirt with guys and he used to make fun of me with their names. His making fun was often mocking at me, and it was weird, because others teased me but when he teased, it felt weird. As if he were saying I know you like ME so why put the garb of liking someone else? But this might be me just overthinking.
Anyways, so our friendship grew deeper and I took a trip to his hometown, and we had long walks and long chats together. Before going to his hometown, he had broken up with his girlfriend. More like, she had broken up with him, because he was not giving her time, plus they had come to a decision that they wanted different things in their lives. Their relationship had been physical, and it was a long time one, 4 years strong.
I told him how beautiful my friendship was for him and he also reciprocated the same. We held hands and walked together.
During the trip I got a message from his ex saying I should not come in between them and destroy what they have for each other. Here is where he acted very weird. When I told him this, he told me to ignore her. While on the same day, he went and dropped her off to some station as she was leaving somewhere. He easily managed to keep both the parties happy. Pretty clever of him, is not it? I was pretty angry, that he did not take my side, did not advocate for me, because she was being pretty rude.
Then she said Sorry, and I acquiesced.
Coming back to college, everything was normal and he and one more friend of mine got close to my mum too. My mum has a habit of being friends with my friends, and she is not one of those nagging mothers, but she is often the cooler of the lot. She is actually a 18 year old at heart. So one day when my mum came to college, he and the other friend of mine welcomed her with really beautiful surprises. It was really sweet of both of them. This intensified my feelings for the guy.
Both of my friends decided to come to my house . Which they did.
Here is where a weird thing happened- This guy became very close to me. In college even hugging was problematic to him ( plus I myself am not a person who hugs easily). I had a habit of pulling his cheeks which he detests, and often scolded me for it. But at home, he became really free and different. He touched me by my waist, held me in his arms, once I sat on the bed and pulled me towards him.
He became emotional while seeing my childhood photos, so much so that he clicked photos of my childhood photos for keeping with him.
And, the clincher of all- one fine day at my home when my parents were sleeping, my friend, he and I were watching a movie. Both of us were in a separate sheet, and my friend was in the other. This guy hugged me, put his legs on mine, clenched me, and dug his face on my neck.
Then he felt me up. All over. ALL OVER. And I did not stop him, because well I was emotionally inclined towards him and I felt that he has feelings too.
But coming back to college, he became normal, again. Very stand-offish. When I confronted him, ( via text), he told me that he did it without analysing or weighing, something he wanted to do once. I told him I did it because I had feelings, he said regardless of feelings one could have stopped, and if I had stopped he would have stopped. And he told me not to think of him as desperate. And also, he told me to get over him. He said it is high time to get over him, to do good to both him and I.
Then, he has lessened conversations with me. He is in his formal best, as if he and I dont know each other. he does not give me good vibes at all.
By julie1218 | Jul 07 2014
HERE'S THE DEAL...
Ok so there's this guy who we can name "S" and another who we can name "C"
So almost everyday I talk to S and he often refers to me as his girlfriend and jokes around about all that kind of stuff... Problem being I slept with C a few times who happens to be S's best friend.... S is always asking me wether he can "still do what he wants" and says "you would sleep with my best friend" and stuff like that but in real life S is really quiet and I'm not sure if I'm getting the wrong message from him or if he is actually interested in me. Or just wants to be close friends.... Also he tells his friends that he talks to me I have had one of them ask me "how's S" and also another one of his friends snapchatted him and told him that he just dropped my sister somewhere when I have no clue who his friend is so he has obviously been talking about me...
By kyb0000 | May 31 2014
Okay so there's this guy we have been talking for almost a year I have feelings for him some people say he likes me back yesterday he told me he couldn't stop thinking about me but then he went on to say I like you as a Freind then he told me about this girl he like.
By rj | Apr 17 2014
We've been texting all day everyday since we met nearly two weeks ago. He's polite and a real gentleman. He never steers the conversation in the direction of sexting. In fact, he was showing me his progress from working out, since we're both into fitness, and asked for my permission before sending a picture without his shirt. (Such a relief from the guys who send unsolicited dick pics! But I digress...).
He has been saying the sweetest things but I'm a cynic at heart so I'm on the fence about it all. For instance, we both want to go to the same country for our 30th birthday (he turns 30 in two years). He's turning 30 a year before me and he said he felt bad because if this goes well, I won't be able to go to the same place for my birthday since I'd be going there for his. He also told me that he's going out of state for a couple months later in the year for training for work. He said he was scared to tell me because he didn't want me to think he was wasting my time.
I had my friend and the guy she's seeing over to my house last Friday. I was telling him that I was the awkward third wheel and he volunteered to come save me. I was a bit skeptical about having him come to my house, even in a group setting, since we had only been texting for a week at the time and never been on a date. I asked him playfully why he was trying to come to my house when he didn't really know me. He replied that he was just trying to rescue me from the third wheel situation, that the place didn't matter and we could meet somewhere else. That was the first time we saw each other since we met. I had mentioned I was going to a party with some friends on Sunday and he said he was interested in going too since I was going. It ended up raining and my friends canceled and so did his. He then said next time we should "plan something just for us".
We've been texting this week and he keeps telling me that he's looking forward to seeing me but hasn't suggested an activity or anything yet. I got asked out by someone else for this weekend and I'm considering going just to distract me a bit. I really like this guy and he seems great but can't figure out he's a nice guy or just ACTING like a nice guy.
By matt0001 | Feb 14 2014
Were dating. There's another guy in the picture. Were currently on a bad note. She said she thinks I'm drama.
By polasei | Feb 13 2014
I sort of started dating a guy from work about a month ago. He's sweet, smart, a perfect gentleman, but he's taking things very slow. I had to tell him I liked him first and ask him out, and while he said he liked me too, he's always seem a bit conflicted about it. We go out on dates, we have fun and click, but we haven't had sex or put a label on it yet. The other day he explained to me that for the last four years he had been in an online relationship with a girl from far away, and while it could seem weird, their bond was really strong, like epic. They cut off the romantic aspect of their relationship when he started dating me, but they are still friends, and sometimes I feel like he misses her a lot and that's what's not letting us to take the next step.
By michellb3 | Jan 07 2014
So I met this guy in July(2013). We started talking and then started hanging out and become friends. We were going to take it to the next level but he said he was talking to this girl (pen pal) since January and he wouldn't feel right. The catch. She lives in Florida and we live in Washington. They email and talk on the phone sometimes. So a while goes by and he says "we can take it to the next level because she is telling people they are "just friend" and he likes me". So we continue to hang out and start having sex. I go away to my best friends wedding for two weeks and talk everyday and talk on the phone for like 12 hours. (Crazy I know) When I get back of course we are so happy and see each other that day....Everything goes on.. Fast forward two months he is in a bad mood and "says she cant't talk to him anymore". A week later he moves on and is back to himself... Then we continue...Well she started talking to him again and he got a call while we were together.......
By diamondgirl1313 | Aug 21 2013
So I met this dude 2 weeks ago and we are going to to greenville drive together, i asked him if it was considered a date to him then it would be my first. He said then its a date. He's a sweet talker and me and him are very popular, but he is always hanging with this girl, like at lockers and stuff.
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By farosea | Feb 22 2013
Me: A 28 year old asked me out the other day
Him: I would ask you "out" if I was single.
By paaaradise | Feb 14 2013
Me: So what about the loves ?
Him: I really like a girl :) and you?
Me : It's too complicated :)
Him : Well explain :p
Me: no I said it was too complicated :3
Him : But say it to me :p
I: " it to me " :p
He: God you're stupid haha