Does he actually want a third date with me?

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Met a guy on Grindr (not usually my thing) and we had a really fascinating conversation. He suggested we exchange numbers and said he'd blow me up the next day, which he did. We went out for drinks, then ended up going to dinner and having a great time. When I headed home sent me a text asking if I made it home alright, and if I'd be interested in seeing him again the next day. We met again for dinner and drinks and then went to his house. We slept in the same bed, but he said he wanted to hold off on having sex (which was totally cool with me.) He asked me to text him later that evening, but he wasn't particularly chatty for the next day. We made tenative plans for this weekend, but considering he's usually so talkative I can't help but wonder if the communications slow down is a bad sign.

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I `ve kissed alot of frogs on Tinder. Figuratively speaking. But about two weeks ago I`ve met a guy on Tinder and the conversation went over several days before he asked me out for coffee. We went for coffee and he paid. He talked a lot about himself and seemed a bit nervous, but asked a lot questions too. We connected over common music interests and other common hobbies. Some hours later he went home with me and we hung out a couple of hours before he kissed me. Nothing more happened. When I drove him to the buss stop he asked me to come visit him. To weeks later I did. It was pretty early so he made us breakfast before we just hung out at his place. We talked about a trip he went on a year ago and he showed me some pictures from that trip and some family photos. That went on for about and hour before went out and he showed me around town. We made out when I was there, but nothing more happend. The day ended with him making us pancakes before I went home. When he made that batter for the pancakes he held me and kissed me while he was cooking. Before we said goodbye he said lets meet again sometime and update me on how school is going because I talked about a internship I was starting the following day. When I sat on the bus home I texted him and said thank you for today and that I love meet up again. One day has passed and no response. There was alot of sexual tension between us and I am bit afraid that this was just another hookup. I am not a big fan of the blurry lines between a hookup and a date. Was he just looking for the girlfriend experience for a day without further commitment? I am overthinking why he has not responded? Was this just another Tinder hookup? And above all will there be a third date? Tinders reputation as a hookup is really making me overanalyzing the situation. To clear to I am not looking for just a hookup.

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We were going out on a third date, but he canceled that same day with the excuse he was sick?

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I know he's into me and we text all the time. Why hasn't he asked me on a third date?

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By sueallen12 | Nov 16 2014

I need advice: So basically I've been talking to this guy for over a month and he's been super sweet. Our first date he didn't try anything at all. Our second date we hung out and held hands really and cuddled. The third date we kissed he initiated and we made out actually things for kinda hot and heavy. And shirts came off that's about it. After I left he texted me telling me how much fun he had with me with a kissy face emoji. The next day I Rarley heard from him until Late late that night. And the day after that he texted me in the morning and told me to have a good day but that's about it. He didn't text me at all yesterday only a couple snapchats and he sent out some snapchats to everyone else but me. Should I be worried?

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This is an update to my last post below

We met on Tinder back in July and after our third date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He was very into me and things were going great. He would not stop telling me how awesome I am and how lucky he is etc. We had discussed on our first date that we both wanted serious long-term relationships. We are both 30, educated and have stable jobs. Late August he went to Colombia to visit family for 2 weeks. He would text me everyday, all day. When he came back we were both happy to see each other. He met all my friends and everything was great.

The past two weeks I noticed he became more distant and seemed almost not as into me. My gut told me to check Tinder and I saw he was active on it. I asked him about it in a very calm way and then everything just unraveled. He said he only turned on the app that weekend and told me has not been seeing anyone else. He said he did not feel the same way. He told me wants to be with me and sees us together long term but he is unsure. We decided to talk a day or two later and I told him I want to be with him if he wants to be with me and I am willing to work out any issues. He said there is nothing wrong and we can get back together "and see". This was not good enough for me so I left. This happened last week.

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We met on Tinder back in July and after our third date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He was very into me and things were going great. He would not stop telling me how awesome I am and how lucky he is etc. We had discussed on our first date that we both wanted serious long-term relationships. We are both 30, educated and have stable jobs. Late August he went to Colombia to visit family for 2 weeks. He would text me everyday, all day. When he came back we were both happy to see each other. He met all my friends and everything was great.

The past two weeks I noticed he became more distant and seemed almost not as into me. My gut told me to check Tinder and I saw he was active on it. I asked him about it in a very calm way and then everything just unraveled. He said he only turned on the app that weekend and told me has not been seeing anyone else. He said he did not feel the same way. He told me wants to be with me and sees us together long term but he is unsure. We decided to talk a day or two later and I told him I want to be with him if he wants to be with me and I am willing to work out any issues. He said there is nothing wrong and we can get back together "and see". This was not good enough for me so I left. This happened yesterday.

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Thank you for a lovely evening. Woke up early so came home but slept well thanks. V comfy bed! Speak later and have already blocked my profile on Match.com

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"Hey, hope it wasn't too hard to get up this morning." - Him
"It wasn't too bad. I haven't even had coffee yet." - Me
Hours later...
"I've been so bad at texting you back today. It's been busy! Hope you're still not in the office."

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