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By bitterhoney | Feb 10 2015

I met this Australian guy 5 years ago, he was my English teacher for three months. After that, we met occasionally for a cup of coffee or little things like that. He seems interested in me but never told me much. I am confused because when he is drunk he call me through Skype or by phone (even if he is in Australia) showing interest for me...last time he told me: "I love you"...but I know..he was drunk!

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How do I handle a situation where a guy is moving too fast?

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What do i do? How do i get over this and not wanting to talk to him all the time?

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So I made a friend two years ago through a game. I met up with him after talking to him everyday for about 3 months. Since then we have continued to talk every day without fail he's never had a girlfriend before but we have kind of been seeing each other since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.
He lives about an hour away which makes seeing each other difficult but we Skype and text everyday and I tend to see him every few weeks for the weekend and get on really well with his family.

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I started talking to this guy on December 16. He lives in Canada and I live in Florida. He used to live in my exact town, however we have never met. But he reached out to me on Facebook and we just hit it off. For a while we skyped every night for at least 12 days or so. We are quite different. I'm more girly and he's basically a stoner. He's like on of those guys that aren't very good on paper. Has tattoos, smokes weed, career goal is to be a tattoo artist. However, he has the best heart. I love his personality. And he wants to come visit me for spring break which is nice. But anyway, on thursday we stopped talking. I've sent him a snapchat (which he viewed and didn't reply to) and a few messages on Skype and he never answered...at all. I don't understand what made him cut me off. So finally I confronted him about it after giving him space and he apologized and we worked it out but once again he has been distant. we used to Skype overnight now we haven't skyped in a week. He says he's busy but often times I'll ask what he's doing and he will say he is smoking and watching Netflix and will say we can't Skype tonight because he has work in the morning. When we used to Skype he always had work in the morning... I don't get it. Like he could just call for a minute.

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I met this guy at a camp. He started facebook messaging me when we both got home. We live about 1,000 miles apart. He told me I'm beautiful and was very forward in his compliments. He asked if I ever had a boyfriend. We chatted constantly for a few days straight, and talked about setting up a Skype date. He didn't text me for a whole day. I didn't think much of it. Another day went past. I texted him that night and he answered within seconds. The conversation didn't last long, felt short and like small talk. He said he had a finals test the next morning. I fell asleep before answering his text so I replied saying "good luck on your finals!!" He answered within seconds again.

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I met this guy at a pub in 2010, I was behind the bar and he was fun, smart and flirty. Something clicked, I realised we were in the same University and be became friends on Facebook. We met a couple of times at random uni things during the year, he had a girlfriend at the time and nothing came of it. I finished my course and left the country. In the course of the last 4 years, he's messaged me whenever we were in the same part of the world and we never met(it's only happened twice though). Recently, I came back to the country and just dropped him a line letting him know that I was back and we got to talking regularly. He's still a lot of fun and he's really gotten better with age.

A friend of mine was sending me a parcel and I mentioned it to him in passing, he joked about how he travels a lot(work-related) and if he was in her part of the world he'd pick it up for me. I laughed about it and left it at that. A week later he tells me he's going to the exact city she's in and if she hadn't sent it already he'd pick it up. She hadn't gotten around to posting it and so he picked it up. At this point I was grateful, but didn't think anything else of it. He lives about a 4 hour drive away from me and I told him I'd drive down over the weekend to pick it up. He said he was busy for the next two weekends and said he'd let me know when he was free. However, on the second weekend(the one where he was supposedly busy) he called up and asked me if I minded him driving up, his calendar had just opened up, he needed a break, etc, etc. I usually have quiet weekends and this one was no different so I said I was free and he said he'd drive up on Saturday morning. He turned up mid-afternoon, that spark from all those years was still there and long story short we spent most of the weekend in bed.

I specified to him that I don't have time for a relationship, I'm simply too busy with my career and plan to stay that way for the next 10 or so years. He was fine with it, thrilled even, said that he wasn't looking for one either, his past ones had left him too scarred to trust in them again. It was an ideal situation, he's a nice, caring, smart, funny, slight wicked(in a good way) guy and we click very well together.

The problem with it is, I think I might be in a relationship and not realise that I'm in one. We're chatting on Skype, Snapchat, Facebook inbox, whatsapp, Hangouts through the course of the day, sometimes simultaneously on more than one of them. We're on call every second day, even if they're short 4-5 minute calls. We've hooked up 5 of the last 6 weekends. I've hung out with his friends, he's hung out with mine, I've even made tentative summer plans with one of his girl-friends. And as I'm listing all of this out I'm kind of realising that I might have answered the question I'm going to ask. But this all hit me last night when we were on call and he told me that he wanted to kiss me the very first time he saw me and how it sucks that we never managed to meet more often and how he wishes we'd hooked up sooner.

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So I met this guy on tinder a month or so ago - we spoke a bit on there then moved on to whatsapp. When we did chat it was great but there were gaps here and there so I lost interest and deleted him from tinder and my phone. Then I got a message from him, we spoke some more, and I suggested we meet up. He said he might be free on the Saturday but that he might have to see an elderly relative and that he'd let me know by the end of the weekend. By Sunday night I hadn't heard anything so I told him I"d made ulterior plans and wished him much luck in his future endeavours. At this point he panicked a bit and told me everything sounded very final. I responded saying that I was going to be busy until January (the day we could have met up aside) and amlooking to meet and speak to someone regularly and that I'm not sure he wanted that etc. which was fine.
He responded saying he wasn't actively looking for someone but agreed that we should have met earlier and suggested another date. I said okay, we'll see. Then we video skyped for the first time last night and it was brilliant - he said really nice things about me and said he loved it. Everything seemed to be going OK.
Now, this morning I left him a whatsapp message and he's been online three times since then but hasn't replied.

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Conoci a un chico en otro psis cerca del mio.el me dio alojamiento en su casa cuando llegue a su ciudad de vacaciones. Enseguida tuvimos onda, aunque el me advirtio que nunca tuvo pareja estable porque le gustaba la libertad. Yo disfrute el momento junto a el porque era muy cariñoso pero no expresaba bada con palabras. Es de una personslidad muy timida y extremadamente reservado y callado. No dice cosas lindas a una mujer.pero e s muy tierno en caricias y miradas. Yo volvi a mi pais sin decirnos nada con la idea de que tal vez no volveria a verlo. Sin embargo comence a escribirle de vez en cuando para no perder contacto. A escribirle como smiga, sin hablar de lo que paso entre nosotros y sin pedir o preguntar nada. Con el tiempo el respondia con cortesia mis mensajes, pero el por iniciativa propua no escribía. Un dia aburrida de contactarne x wassap decidi escribirle cartas, cartas de correo comun( lapiz y papel)._esas cartas nunca hablaron de smor, ni de un nosotros, solo queria resaltar sus virtudes y de lo bien que el me hizo sentir cuando estuve con el aquella vez. Logre que el tuviera mas contacto conmigo cada vez, hasta logre comunicarme via skype bastantes veces. Para rwdumir un dia lque viniera a visitarme y el accedio y vino a mi pais. Cuando nos volvimos a ver,fue hermoso, pasamos 15 dias maravillosos, pero ninguno de los dos expresaba con palabras nada de lo que sentiamos. Solo reoetismos que estavamos viviendo el momento y nada mas, sin promesas ni compromisos. Ahora se fue y quedamos en que yo lo visitaria en el verano. A veces me escribe wsap pero gustaríascueto, como siemore lo ha sido. A veces pasan dias y no escribe. Sus mensajes son xortos y no tienen emocion.no se que sentira y me gustaeia saber porque no expresa nada.

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This guy and I met while taking a summer class in the middle of nowhere for 3 weeks together about 2 years ago. At first, I didn't think he was attractive at all. By the end of the three weeks, I still didn't know him super well but as we were saying goodbye, he walked me to my car and wrote his number down on a slip of paper and gave it to me. We texted the rest of the summer until I moved back up to school in July to take class. We both lived in the same apartment building and would hang out at least twice a week while texting every day. My family decided to move while I was there, and he was super supportive. I slowly started developing a crush on him. For Labor Day that year, we went back to where we had met with a few other people from our classes that summer. It was 4 guys, a good friend of mine who knew I liked him, and then myself. Well the weekend didn't go so well, and he and my good friend ended up being all over each other, making out in front of me and disappearing. Super upset about it all, I realized I couldn't be friends with him until I got over him and therefore told him how I had felt about him. He said that he hadn't really thought about me that way. The kicker though was that I happened to have class with him and was in a group together for the semester. Things with him and my good friend lasted only one date.

Slowly, we became friends again like we had been that summer. I took him to a formal dance, and we danced the night away. Both having such busy schedules we would catch up when we could about once a month normally. We would always go grab a meal together, each always paying separately. The same happened the next semester. We were friends but both so busy.

It was the last time we hung out before he graduated in May that he payed for my meal for the first time out of nowhere. I would always joke that he would forget me seeing as how he would be moving 8 hours away come August this year for grad school, and I would be going home (17 hours away) for the summer. His response was always that he wouldn't forget and would keep in touch.

This is when things started to change. Texting and talking more often over this past summer, the two of us got a lot closer. For my birthday in June, without me ever mentioning it, he asked for my address out of nowhere one day. He ended up sending me a card that related to my summer job (obviously hand picked) along with a small gift inside and signing it "With love". It was after this that we began skyping each other that summer. What first started out as just skyping about once every 3 weeks or so has now progressed into skyping almost every week to week and a half on top of texting every single day (even now). Our skype sessions normally last for over an hour and talking about random stuff, both serious and funny. I sent him a care package around early October full of goodies. He came into town about a week later for barely even 2 days, but he made time to see me and take me to breakfast where he payed for my meal and surprised me with a mug for my hot chocolate from where he goes to grad school. He told me that he talks to me more than he talks to his mom or family at all, and that I'm the only one he skypes. When we do skype or text, he flirts with me telling me how he misses me and wishes he could be there going out dancing with me or snuggling or just doing homework together. My mom and grandmother have been really ill lately, and he has been super supportive, cheering me up and making me laugh but making sure to always ask and keep him updated.

We've discussed me going to visit him and are working on plans to make that happen. I won't get to see him until the first of the year because of how our breaks align and me going home. I will be graduating in May, and he has told me multiple times to plan on him coming and cheering me on as well as wherever I am this summer he is going to come visit me for a week. As great as all of this is, he will be in grad school for another 3 years, and I have no idea where I will be.

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Before everything, you have to know that i am an exchange student.
I meet a guy at a football game. He came to me first by waving at me. We exchanged our phone numbers and we talked for a while. The first 2 weeks, he would text first couple of times, we almost texted every day. Then we went together to the homecoming dance but we didn't really dance, we just talked, so nothing really happened. Since then, he never texted me first so i waited a week and then i texted him on sunday and we talked a lot. He also asked me for my skype but never skyped me. You have to know that he is really shy and that's why we don't talk in school, we just say hi in the hall way. So my friend texted him to know if he likes me and he said very politely that he doesn't. He also said that it would be difficult to have a long distance relationship. The thing is, my other friend knows his cousin and he said that he said that he's not sure if he likes me or not. We think that he doesn't want to attach to me because i am an exchange student. So i talked to him finally and we said that we are just friends and it's okay. So after all that happened, i texted him tuesday and he never responded!

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I met this guy on Skype 6 days ago through a mutual friend (my best friend). He lives in England, and I in California. Right away, we got along well which was a first for me. We could talk for hours about anything. On Sunday (yesterday), I messaged him for the first time after Thursday and he said, "I miss you" (blush emoji) and said he liked my company. From what I heard, besides from me, he talks to other people really sexually (We're both 18), but he doesn't talk to me like that, he actually sounds sweet. Because we're in different time zones, every once in a while, I'd ask, "Are you bored/tired?" He'd say not really and that he was glad I messaged him. I called him yesterday at noon, and my friend answered. He said, "Who's this? Is this __? Where's ___? Her voice is sweet."
Then we talked for an hour or so. Later, he asked if he can call again, but I thought he meant someone else since we're talking about another person. Then 30 messages later, I ask if he can call. He pointed out he asked earlier and put a sad face. So he called. About 20 minutes in, the connection got bad and we got cut off, since there was a flood where I was. He called right after, not even 10 seconds passed by. Then around 5pm ( 1 am over there), I told him he should really go to sleep, because it's late and he whined about not being able to talk tomorrow because when he comes home from college it's still really early here, and so I told him we can talk tomorrow. It got quiet before he said quietly, "Is it weird I was talking to you in my boxers." Things got quiet before I said bye, and he said bye. I waited but he didn't hang up. Today, he called with a female friend. And he acted really different, sexual. I asked him which is his real, and he said he has to get out of character, he can't always be generous. The three of us talked and he said some things that offended me a bit. Since I can't really tell when he's joking or not so I take things seriously. I might have said some things that hurt his feelings too because he said he's not going to talk much because he's listening to some music. And the other girl just talked like nothing's happened. In the end, he ended the call, saying he needs to go do stuff. After 2 hours, I felt so guilty that I couldn't take it anymore so I sent him an apology letter. Deep down, I knew it was my fault because he doesn't know anything about my past. He accepted my apology and we talked like normal. But my heart can't help but flutter when he says nice things, although I'm not sure if I'm the only says it to.

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So I met this guy through Tinder. He was visiting my country and we were never actually able to meet in person. We still managed to talk every once in a while and eventually to talking everyday. We have talked about everything and anything , but never anything sexual (just ' whats your number'). We have now been talking for the past 4 months, including skydate dates, as if we were in a long distance relationship, but we dont call it that . We're just really good friends, who really like each other. We know that distance is a big issue, but we are still at it. We have both told each other our concerns about distance and eventually developing feelings that might get hurt eventually , not necessarily because of any specific action , but because distance wont let us be together. I'm actually going to be visiting his country on a trip with my parents and he is planning on meeting us to be our tour guide, and well, to actually meet in person. Even though we talk every day and skype and we feel comfortable with each other, meeting in person will take it to another level of anxiety. Things can go really well or just okay. By okay, I mean we can just stay being long distance friends and Really Well, would be we find out there is actually something more than friendship between us(this is what Im afraid of)

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I met Chris on Facebook ,one day I decided to message him and we hit it off . We like a lot of the same things and I kinda got a crush on him but I didn't think he liked me back. So I backed off i didnt really think we could have a relationship because of the distance between us (4,000 miles) but I couldn't hold it in any longer and told him how I feel and he likes me back.

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