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We met through mutual friends at club this summer. It took him FOREVER to approach me (i'm quite unapproachable, unintentionally). My friends said he liked me, and had to push him to make a move after 2 months of him just staring. Anyways, we texted for 2 weeks, and because we're both a bit shy convos were abit hard to keep going. and then he ignored a text out of nowhere. And retexted me 10 days later. but the convo was really short, so and I took it as a sign, so I didn't pursue to not appear clingy. I have NOTHING against him. Literally haven't spoken since summer, but when I go out to this club he's always there. Even after no contact, there were/are still many signs he's still into me. I say hi if we go out with the same group of friends, but if I see him from a distance i'm too shy to go over. And when I do say hi, I actually want to stay and have a convo, but I just don't know what to talk about, so we just ignore eachother the entire time. Like one time at a party, we were literally 2meters away from eachother, but didn't acknowledge eachother. He probably thinks I'm pissed at him but it's literally that i'm too scared to approach him, or that he'll just talk to me out of politeness, and not really care about the convo.
Another time, at the end of the night he was standing outside with his friends and I was walking in that direction. He kept turning his head towards me. He obviously saw me, but then as I passed he didn't say hi. I didn't say hi either. So technically we're both in the wrong. I'm not saying he's an as*shole for not saying hi, cuz the exact same could be said for me.

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IS HE SHY, DOES HE NEED A FRIEND, OR IS HE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO PASS HIS TIME WITH?

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I met this amazing guy online about a month ago. We clicked pretty well, and soon exchanged numbers. We've been texting non stop since we met online, and even video chatted a few times. On each video chat, he asked when we would be able to meet and where. We decided on the museum and the date was yesterday (we both have a love for museums). We browsed through the museum for like an hour with little conversation (we are both a bit shy, and there's only so much you can talk about there lol). Before I was able to ask to go to lunch or get some coffee together, he got a call from his mom and asked if he could take it. I agreed and he left my side to talk to his mother. After, he returned to me apologizing. He said that his mom wants him home now since he didn't complete his chores (??? He's a 19 year old boy), but he seemed genuine in his apology. He said that he would text me later to set up another date, but he has to go. ---

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Is this how it works? Help

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He knocked out on me one night, and he never replied back. I've been conflicted whether to text him first this time because he usually texts me. Bare in mind, we're both shy and we barely started talking.

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Hi guys...I need an orientation tip on this case...A year ago I met a friend of my best friend,and I started to feel things about him...certainly it was bysided.We have slept toghether like five times and we have just kissed and he was certainly very gentle with me.the theme is that we always have approachs and he seems to avoid having sex(indeed he told me that he was on a asexual stage)
So I decided to treat him like a friend.I stop trying to approach him.What do you think that happens to him?what do you thing I should do?thanks! :)

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Do you feel he might be attracted towards me?

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I've met this guy on Tinder. At first we were talking continuously and then I stopped replying him. Then after 2 months, he texted me again saying that he is still interested in meeting me. So I gave him my number. I noticed that he's not really much of a texter at the beginning and that his Whatsapp last seen was not always active.

So on our first date, we clicked very easily and we had a very fun time talking about our future and jobs and about our interests. When he reached for the bill, I didn't offer for my half and he said that the next time will be my treat (?). then after the first date he texted saying how much he enjoyed meeting me. Then the next few days we texted more often (but not everyday) and I noticed that for someone who doesn't like to text he actually start to text a little bit more with me. And then we decided to meet the weekend after our first date but then I cancelled it and say to reschedule but he doesn't reply me. after 6 days of my unrespond text, I texted him again to see if he still interested. Immediately after I said "hi how are you" and he said "oh I've been really busy this past days". Note that I know he is quite busy because everytime I text him he will be at the library preparing for interview and his assignments. And then he said he wanted to see me again. So after 3 weeks of not seeing each other we finally meet on a Wednesday. I think we got more comfortable and we had a laugh. So I offer to pay for the dinner as he paid for the last one. But he insist on paying and said I should pay for the movies instead. But in the end I pay for my own ticket and he paid for his.

At the end of the second date, he asked me what is my plan for the weekend and saying that he might be free. And so I said to him if he is free, then let me know because most of the time he is busier than me. and the weekdays we texted almost everyday and we meet again on that Saturday. I can feel that he begin to touch me and kiss my cheeks (he never did this before) so I assume he started to like me. Oh and for the dinner I offer to pay for my half and he said okay. So after the third date, I texted him saying I had a great time and he said that he regretted not being close with me, which I assume he interested in me. So it's been a week after our 3rd date and u haven't heard from him! I noticed his Whatsapp is somewhat active for someone who doesn't really like to text. But he mentioned to me before that he doesn't like to text.

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Overwhelmed a shy guy I absolutely adore???

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The boy i like from church came into my restaurant- the place where i work- with his family...WHAT ARE THE ODDS!!! And i know for a fact he didn't know i was gonna be there. I didn't say hi thought bc i am awkward and his family doesn't know me and i am kinda shy. But he kept looking at me again and again!!!!! And i saw him at church today when i got baptized and he kept looking at me again!

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I'm 28 years old, I've never been in a relationship,I'm terrified that it's going to stay like this.

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Is he still interested? Should I keep trying?

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By mermaid | Jan 24 2015

So I am this awkward shy/hopeless romantic person. Some time ago I fell hard for a guy (let's call him M) I knew from work. Nothing really happened, maybe we were too shy, I too awkward, or he wasn't sure what he felt. But I think, or at least like to believe, that he liked me too, because there was always some magnetism between us. Whenever I met him I was a nervous wreck, and he just stared and at me and smiled. If we had a conversation, I would always say something sarcastic and weird because I obviously turn into a crazy person when I'm nervous. It took me a while to realize I can't dwell on it forever. I just could't go on hoping and wishing anymore, it was too agonizing. I decided to forget M and it's been going well for the last couple of months.

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What does this mean, i really am confused...

By missindependentx | Jan 11 2015

Well i have a crush on this senior and im only a sophomore. But we started texting after meeting on instagram; I've see him at school. He thinks I'm cute, but like he really shy and so am I, we never talked in person before. We got to know eachother really well, we planned to say hi to eachother in person so we did. What affects me is that when we see eachother we only say hi but never have a real conversation. I also catch him staring at me alot at lunch and he sees me being really wierd but he really don't mind seeing me act like that

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What does this mean, i really am confused...

By missindependentx | Jan 11 2015

Well i have a crush on this senior and im only a sophomore. But we started texting after meeting on instagram; I've see him at school. He thinks I'm cute, but like he really shy and so am I, we never talked in person before. We got to know eachother really well, we planned to say hi to eachother in person so we did. What affects me is that when we see eachother we only say hi but never have a real conversation. I also catch him staring at me alot at lunch and he sees me being really wierd but he really don't mind seeing me act like that

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By jclark_ | Jan 08 2015

So there's this guy I have liked for a while and I recently asked my friend what to do since all three of us are in band. She ended up telling him that I like him. As much as I really want to know if he feels the same way I'm super shy and so is he.

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