By sagarkharel | Mar 14 2015
How can I express my filling to the girl whom I love ❤???
By cdf | Mar 04 2015
Do you fight for a girl or do you just let her go?
By mrromantic | Jan 12 2015
I am a guy and NEED girl help with this one.
I met an amazing girl online. She is beautiful, nice, funny.... Perfect for me.
We met 4 times and nothing happened. I wanted to make sure I liked her before I made a move and she respected me for that.
Then she sent me a message saying 'this might be the 14 year old in but I got butterflies when you touched my arm today' (just to clarify she is 26 and I am 28). That message put a huge smile on my face so when I next saw her I kissed her. It was an amazing...possibly the best kiss I've ever had. We went to my house and had sex for 3 hours and cuddled. I considered myself so lucky..... Now here is where I mess up :-(
I got so so overexcited that I started messaging her more and more. All day and until late at night. I told her I could see a future with her and told her I didn't just want her to be my girlfriend but my wife. I said I could see us with kids and wanted to live with her (I sound crazy but I'm not). I told her I was falling for her because I am....I wrote a poem all about her which I planned to see her when I next saw her. She is on my mind all the time....all the time! I sound mad but I never imagined I would be like this.
Last Thursday she went out with friends and I asked if I could come along and meet her friends and said I wanted to be part of her life she said it was just a girl thing but the next day told me guys were there :-( I told her I wanted to go and she got angry and messaged saying 'I am a busy person. I like spending time with friends'. Then on Saturday she got drunk and I messaged on Sunday saying she shouldn't drink that much and she told me I had no right to tell her what to do. I was only looking out for her :-(
Then she didn't message me for a while and then messaged saying 'I think it is best we end this. We are very different. I'm not ready for a relationship. I'm selfish and love my single life'. I was so shocked. So I went to her house to talk it through and persuade her to stay. She kept shaking her head and wouldn't look at me but I knew deep down she wanted me. She has been hurt a lot in the past and is too scared to love again. I told her I would treat her right and that I love her. She just kept saying 'I'm sorry....it won't work'. I kept asking her why it won't work and said that if there is a will there is a way. I know she is interested and wants me. that date when we kissed said it all. I know she has issues and I told her that there were 2 sides to her....her nice side wanting me and her nasty side stopping the nice side. She just said she wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to be single.
Anyway after 2 hours of talking to her I said to her that id make a deal...as I knew she wanted me really....that we would carry on for 2 weeks and then she can decide... She said 'ok'
By italiandreamer97 | Dec 30 2014
We have a great feeling, we are very happy when we spend time together, but you have to know that she has a lot of problems: she has a terrible rapport with her father, she had a lot of terrible experiences and now she's disenchanted, she refuses love, she want to stay alone and not getting engaged and she finds something wrong in everything she does and sees, she's pessimistic, she cries a lot, she has a lot of fears and social obstacles. During the last two weeks we went out a lot of times because as I said before we have a great feeling and we like each other as persons. Yesterday evening I asked her if she want to stay with me but she said to me "I think it's all wrong. I thought that you went out with me cause you were really interested and not in order to stay with me. Now I will get confused, I'll have a lot of stress and it will be a disaster: I thought we were friends."
By ahfbkjsbabh | Dec 11 2014
I've been good friends with this girl for years but I've started developing feelings for her lately. The thing is, I'm not sure if she likes me back.
She is sooo nice. She often texts me to ask about how my exam or concert was and we have lunch together very often. We've gone to museums, read original poetry, etc. Always the two of us alone, but I don't know if it was just because we were friends. At the time I didn't really think about it.
She once called me while drunk and her friend was teasing her and repeatedly shouting "I LOVE YOU" and my friend sounded pretty embarrassed but I thought they were having fun and it was a long time ago. I never use Facebook but she once (again, long time ago) commented I was "super cute" on my profile pic. Her boyfriend's kinda jealous of me and she WAS often jealous of other girl friends. These paragraphs are stupid but I had to write them: I'm so in love now!
Finally, I opened her diary by accident yesterday (it was on her iPad I didn't mean it). I didn't read it because I don't want to be an asshole but it said something like "I want you to take photographs of me and tell me I look pretty"--I realized it was her diary and close it--, which is exactly what we did last week but it may be just a quote from somewhere else, or a text she wrote for someone else.
Now I feel like she doesn't like me at all because I didn't notice those hints before (if they were hints). What do you guys think?
DISCLAIMER: She'd been dating this dude for a year straight but like a month ago she found out he was cheating. They broke up but still see each other even when she doesn't always feel excellent about it. I used to like the guy but I hate that he cheats on her.
By ab345 | Dec 07 2014
I'm a guy and asked a girl I met online out. We went out in the beginning of this week and it was great. She is incredibly smart, funny and beautiful :) I've been the one taking all initiatives so far and when I met her I was stunned. I felt really good around her and she said some things that made me wanna be in her life and take care of her. Still she is a very strong and independent woman. I had other prior engagements that night and I needed to end the date earlier than I wanted to. I asked her if I could call her later that night and she said yes. I kissed her and she kissed me back.
The rest of the evening we texted a lot. I asked if I could come over but she said no because she had an interview for a job in the morning. I think she thought I was a little bit too much, too pushy, but I just couldn't stop texting her. I knew that I wouldn't be able to see her for about two weeks and just wished to see her again. We live far from each other, driving to her take one hour and twenty minutes. Anyway the texting ends with us agreeing that I would call her the next day and an agreement on meeting a few days later. I was willing to drive more than one hour to see her in the evening and then go back to work early in the morning the day after. She seemed happy about it. She explains to me that she want to see me again and I apologize for being pushy. She doesn't respond.
The morning after she responds "Oh, that's all well. I like when you flirt with me :) Kisses and hugs". That day was crazy at work and they also called me in for another part time job. I worked all night. In the evening I get the cutest text from her: "Did you get home alright yesterday?" I explain the situation and she responds that she gets it and that I should be in touch when I can. She also understands my need of rest. That's really sweet.
So I'm really busy and the evening before our planned date I realize that I was assigned for work the whole weekend and that there's a christmas party at work. I text her that and say that I'm sorry for the short notice and that I'll be in touch when things calm down. I also explains that my child will be with me the coming week. I ended my text with "kisses and hugs darling". She text me back the next morning. Telling me that she knew that I had a lot going on and that she had made other plans. She wished me a nice evening and ended it with hugs. We have not been in touch after that.
By jjrrss21 | Nov 04 2014
I met this girl about 2 months ago. We went out on four dates, all of which went well. She also invited me over a couple times to hang and we kissed a couple times and cuddled...After all of this she went out of town for her sisters wedding about a month ago. After she got back i texted her, but she didnt respond until the next day...which was unusuall. When she did text me back, she said that she had ended up getting the flu while she was out of town and was still at home in bed... i playfully told her that was awful and if she wanted some soup i could bring her some after i got off work. She responed with "how cute are you?"... Then i asked her, " if she was feeling better by the next weekend i wanted to take her out to a fall festival and a haunted house" (because on a previous date she said she really wanted to go). She replied that she had not gotten her work schedule yet and that she would get back with me.... She never got back with me and i didnt chase after her or try to contact her to ask her out again, i just figured she had lost intrest... then today out of the blue i get a text from her, a month later??? and her text read "Hey U!" We bantered back and forth for a bit...
Actual text convo:
Her: Hey u
Me: Hey broke my phone last week and couldn't transfer my contacts. Who's this?
Me: (Her Name)?
Her: Breaking your phone is the worst! How did u guess? :)
Me: Yes it is especially when you run over it...I'm just psychic, I thought I told you about that lol.
Me: Your the only person I know that says "hey u"
Her: You ran over your phone? Ouch!!
Her: Hey you huh? I guess that's my signature move. How are you?
Me: So your saying your trying to make moves on me ? Lol. I'm good, glad October is over it was a super busy month.
How are you doing?
Her: How can you be glad October is over? I want October back lol. Im doing really well... Just enjoying my off day! I still have your cowboy hat by the way. :)
Me: October is one of my favorite months, it was just stressful and im glad that part is over.
Me: Oh yeah, I still need to get that don't I
Her: Me too then! :) I dont like the its so dark outside right now, yuck!
Me: Me either! I think I hate it getting dark so early more than I do the damp cold weather.
Her: That's quite a statement! I hate the cold lol
By junebugceltics_2 | Oct 11 2014
ive been tlking to a girl i met over the summer she has been calling me bae and everything but we never met. every time we tried to meet something went wrong.
By jsn | Sep 16 2014
Does she like me?
By xerot1 | Sep 15 2014
So there was this girl who got lost near my workplace and I was helping her and talking to her for like 1 hour while she waits for her taxi. Instead of asking for her number, I kind of gave her my number.
By mrmr | Sep 12 2014
this chick keeps texting me and i really like her but idk if she likes me. She'll like me more if i act like i don't care and kinda a jock.
By dyimecatcher | Sep 06 2014
I have a client and I work at his house.(I am a 28 yr old male and his Mom is about 50) His Mom and little Sister is always home with us. I think his Mom may be flirting with me. I left my phone charger over there a few days ago and I texted my client's Mom.
By kindawtfmoment | Sep 03 2014
I met this girl at a friend's birthday party recently. She's a long-time friend of my buddy's wife. We are both in our 30s. We hit it off immediately. Like, instance chemistry. However seeing as how there are other friends there, I did not make a move more than flirting. Later when the party winded down, she, I and a couple of others decided to head to a local bar to grab a drink before calling it a night. On the way there she lagged a bit behind (we had both already had a few cocktails) and grabbed my hand and held it as we were walking. Then said "Holy crap, I *never* hold hands with anyone." My response was "Well, you initiated it so you must have wanted to." She laughed, we continued walking and talking and you could feel the chemistry escalating. About a block before our destination, she stopped and turned to me and said "Look, I have to be honest. I am incredibly attracted to you. Of everyone at that party not a single one can hold a candle to you. I'm just very drawn to you." Then we kissed for a bit, and eventually met up at the bar where the flirting continued. At the end of the night, she kissed me again, and said she wanted to get together and have "fun" with me - nothing serious at first, and that I should get in touch with her (I had already gotten her number.
I should say the boldness of her come on and attraction isn't something I'm used to but definitely made me feel good and that I was somewhat "in the zone" that night.
So she got into a cab (I didn't feel pursuing anything more physical that night (sex) would have been appropriate as we had both had drinks and we have mutual friends) and I told her to text me to let me know she made it home. She did, we sent a few back and forth and went to sleep.
I was too busy to text her the next day, but the following day I sent her a text about how her week was going, I had fun when we went out, and that I was free on Friday if she wanted to go out and have some fun.
Her response was that she wasn't sure if that was a date offer but "I shouldn't lead you on - I'm seeing someone. But I look forward to hanging as friends!"
By sphilly | Aug 29 2014
I started working at a restaurant about 2 months ago and have been flirting with one of the hostess's. The first important thing that has to be understood is the relationship environment of the staff, everyone is either actively dating or in a relationship and whats more fun to talk about than that all shift? I'm not even being sarcastic here, I love hearing it, makes work way more fun and interesting. The partial downside is that I've reciprocated others telling me their current status and whatnot by revealing my intentions of talking to this (absolutely gorgeous) hostess. In reality it's not too bad since they've all seemed to take it as a personal mission to hook us up: writing my number on a napkin and giving it to her telling her to call me, telling her how interested I am, etc all that great stuff from HS. While I appreciate their help, I'm not one to be shy in letting a girl know I'm interested, I just favor a subtle approach. They all seem to think I'm moving too slow and should make more significant advances (even while at work!). I just find it odd to flirt too much while at work, specially when every time I go to talk to her I know the eyes of the waitstaff are upon us haha. This isn't to say I have stage fright but more along the lines of remaining professional when it's appropriate.
During one lunch break when we were all sitting around it seemed like she made sure to talk about an EX boyfriend and how she was single now, and also one of my friends who works at the host stand was telling me about how he overheard her and another hostess talking about "crushes" and mentioning my name so I'm pretty sure there is some level of attraction.
Eventually after their daily requests for progress reports became slightly annoying I decided to just text her and see what happens. I'd had her number already from group texts between coworkers discussing shift changes and she already knew I wanted to text her so I YOLO'd it (for lack of a better phrase). She seemed interested through texts but when I asked about possibly meeting up outside of work I got the "busy schedule" response. She did have a good reasoning, (3 jobs and online classes) told me the back story behind all of them, and still seemed interested and initiated conversation afterwards.
By confused1 | Aug 07 2014
I have known this girl at work for a year. We work in different offices and had some small flirting through work instant messenger for a few months, every few weeks, nothing consistent. We met up a couple months ago in person for a meeting and totally hit it off. We hung out after work and it seemed like there were a lot of sparks (nothing romantic happened though). After that, we talk every day while at work on instant messaging and we are pretty constant throughout the day (couple hours total of non stop back and forth) Even texting after hours and weekends. She initiates more often then I do and says more then me (esp texts). She also seems to try and make sure the convo keeps going when we hit that brick wall. I think she even stays late so we can chat more. We talk work, tease each other, joke around, vent, everything. I think she may have been casually dating someone but she always avoided talking about it (I never asked and it only came up when I asked what she was up to). She vaguely mentioned doing stuff with "friends" at first but was careful not to say he or she. She no longer mentions doing stuff with "friends" and I am confident she isn't in anything serious. She has been venting a lot about work lately but there has been some teasing/joking around. I am wondering if I am in the friend zone? I see her again soon and we are planning on hanging out some (we live far apart)
By fifty1986 | Jul 21 2014
Hello evervybody, i need your help pls,
Sms from a girl "I forgot to answer...
so I'll be honest. Yes I said that i didn't want to leave you my fb and you still tried and I didn't appreciate at all. Then i don't know what you expect of me. From my side i don't expect anything more than a friend to talk to and who is there when i need. And if i didn't answer right away is that i have a monster job and i am sick since Friday then i forgot. You're a very nice guy I've already said."