By girlgirl03 | Dec 17 2015
What to think of my friend and boyfriend's sexual text exchange?
By itsmeego | Oct 05 2015
I've know this guy for about 15 years. Our parents live near each other and we used to hang around together when we were younger.
We have "been together" a couple of times, the occasions were about 4 years apart but we haven't been intimate in almost 5 years.
He recently moved quite far away for work but he still texts me as with his job he travels so when he's in the area he asks me if I would like to meet up.
He always suggest meeting for a drink, or coffee or cinema and we agree to it but then the day arrives and he never texts.
Then he'll make an excuse and starts turning the conversation sexual saying "remember the last time when" etc. He will continue to text me for a while but then it will die off for a couple of weeks then it will start up again and the cycle repeats itself.
Why does he keep texting me if he has no intention of meeting up? Why does he even text me at all if he's not interested?
By booyah3089 | Mar 18 2015
Sometimes he wont respond to my sext - how do I deal with this?
By zoe_meh | Feb 05 2015
What do you do if a guy you barely know but you met on the internet asks you to help him cum?
By ah4773 | Jan 21 2015
Getting a vibe off my unoffical friend with benefits. Not sure how to read into it
By gules98 | Dec 19 2014
I met this guy through the same client we work for, not really noticed him as I am always busy. Basically we had a function and we sort of chatted about work and nothing else, never gave him any signals and I never saw any to be honest. Then later that night he sent me a message asking if we can message, I agreed thinking nothing about it and just a friend from work sort of thing. Then he began texting me which was extremely forward and full on asking me loads of questions (age thing came up as I am 8 years older than him and I am a single Mom with a 16 year old daughter) and then told me he really liked me and thought I was sexy (thought I was nice at work meeting we had back in April) and that I turned him on. I was extremely shy and said I don't do this sort of thing as I am a face to face person. But I spoke to a few of my more modern friends about this and they said this is the new way of dating and give it a go. Then he started with the sexting thing, and I said told him I don't do this especially with pictures etc. and that I prefer to meet up for a drink, but he kept putting me off however he wanted me to come stay at his house overnight and I said I can't do that. So we just can’t seem to get it together. Over the last month we have been chatting but every time I try to arrange something after work (he is literally 10 minutes away from my office) he keeps saying he is busy, but then later that night he wants to sext. The recent text I received from him was that he was falling for me. I said how is this possible when we have not met, and our only communication and sex is done through text. I must admit I have tried the sexting thing and sent some saucy pictures against what I thought was wrong, but I have to say it was liberating as it was really hot and I have never done anything like this before?, it was good and wow! But now I am getting bored as I want to meet and he seems to be busy. So I gave him three days’ notice to meet, he said he will let me know, I have not heard from since asking him, I too have not messaged him to ask what happened as the ball was in his court, and I think it was simply rude not to even reply. So I tried to justify his reasoning for not meeting, 1)maybe it’s Christmas and he is waiting for the new year? 2)he has a GF. 3) Is he obsessed with sexting and he is chatting to loads of other women, and it’s his buzz or 4) he just some sexting freak!!!
By niki_bubble94 | Nov 20 2014
We met about 4 months back on tinder. Well we started talking two days before I had to leave the country. Now I'm in another country for my studies and I'm returning back this decemeber. We couldn't meet up even though he wanted to. We have been talking every single day about everything about our lives. He is pretty honest with me and he does tell me that if he met a girl. But he always tells me its never serious. And if I met someone and went on a date I'll tell him ( which happened once ). He knows I like him a lot. And he did admit that he does think about us dating. But since we have never met what ever is there isn't real and he needs to see the real life compatibility. We used to have smoking hot sexting and it was all fun, he used to tease and flirt. He cares a lot about me and even my family. And we cannot exactly stay without texting for a day. One day I avoided him and he was like, why are you mad at me ?.
He knows eveything about my life and he too. We thought about skyping but decided not to because we wanted to hear the voice for the first time. He is a very busy person but manages to find time for me. We text in an average of one and half hours everyday inspite of the 10 hour time difference. He is investing a lot of time on someone who is thirteen thousand. Km away. We are on eachothers social media, like facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram etc and keep updating about our lives, family etc.
By traveller0798 | Nov 20 2014
Alright, so I have barely any dating history, and I've just moved to London. Decided to try Tinder one day when I was bored. Long story short, I matched a guy and we chatted on Tinder until he asked for my number and after convincing I gave it to him. We haven't met since he lives an hour away, but I've asked him about it and he says he wants to, he just never makes detailed plans. Everything was good. He would always text me first, and we talked non-stop for a good three weeks. Then our texting went to small conversations once a week if that. We have sexted before. I know not a smart move, but he would still strike up conversations and we've talked about family and random things as well. I've told him that nothing would ever happen sexually if we met. I was thinking he was only interested because of the sexting, so I stopped talking to him. I'd never text him first. Yet he still occasionally starts conversations especially through Snapchat. I keep thinking he's over it, but then he'll go and text me randomly, and he tries to be cute and charming when he does. I'm just confused. We are texting ocassionally, yet I just noticed he deleted me from his matched on Tinder.
By ann7 | Nov 11 2014
He told me today if we were going to date he had to tell me something he admitted to me that he has slept with 19 girls and the reason he doesn't like sexting with me much is because he tired of it, I'm a virgin and am not tired of sexting or anything like that.
By apm101 | Nov 06 2014
Okay so basically I met this guy online (extremely creepy I know, it's so unlike me) and he's 24 and I'm 18 (again BEYOND creepy I am aware) and we've been texting for about two years now (don't freak, we've sent pics of our faces with our names written on our hands, I stalk him on facebook, etc.- I know he is who he says he is). I have fallen so hard for him and I've never even met him... I am so not that girl, but I guess I am. Anyway we went through a period when we were like barely texting (it wasn't all day every day like it always was) and so obviously I start freaking out and I tell him I love him... I wanted him to know so I wouldn't have to keep torturing myself to see if he felt the same. So he definitely did not say it back... In fact we stopped texting after that for about two months. So I'm kinda over him when all of a sudden he texts again and we talk again, all day everyday like it used to be. So obviously I fall again... (Side note: sexting was a very frequent thing with us but we never sent any nudes whatsoever) so then we sexted last night for the first time since I told him I loved him and he sent me a nude... Weird right?! Idk now im just even more confused because of course I love him all over again and idk I just feel like he wouldn't of done that if he didn't feel something for me because he knows how I feel about him... I am a very confused girl
By herewego123 | Oct 27 2014
Ok so I met this guy online. We immediatley had a great connection and chemistry was exciting and fantastic. The first date was perfect the kissing wasamazing so senual so unreal took both our breath away. We had numerous dates before we had sex and then that was even better then I could have imagined. We contiunued to date seeing each other once a week becuase of our jobs for 4 months. Every day was amazing truly!But then I blew it I let my insecurity of my most recent past relationship get me so crazy that when I thought he was still online browsing, I lost it. I actully lost it a couple times and each time I did he knew I was acting crazy and making a joke of it saying :calm down spitfire" or "youre fisty today". either way the lat time I told him Im gonna spare my heart the hurt and throw in the towel but what I was saying was please tell me what I want to hear cause I wont stop the craziness untill then. Well he called my bluff. So for the past 2 months I cleared my mind got things done in my home kept busy and I had my A HA moment! He was my constant thought, I missed him so much. I missed everything I thought annoyed me, I miss the way he held my hand his sweet eyes and the way he kissed me. So I reaced out and expressed all my feelings I appoligized in depth and opened up. He said he doent think Im ready to date or for a relationship becuase Im still in the old. I explained and agreed thats what he saw but thats not who I am. I expressed my feelings for him my fears and the things I have come to understand and my A HA moment! p.s excuse any mispelled words please :-)
By alexrae15 | Oct 20 2014
So, my brother's best friend and I decided to start being friends with benefits after having a late night cuddling with each other. We have been friends for almost 3 years and friends with benefits for almost 3 months. We don't hook up every weekend, only 3 times in the matter of 3 months. However, we do sext a lot. Lately I have noticed he hasn't been responding to my snap chats, but I know he has been talking to other people (ladies) instead of responding to me.
By tris33 | Sep 04 2014
We met on tinder, his profile says looking for just friends.. now when we have hung out we were swimming and hes like I can't strip down naked yet, it's only our second date. and a few days ago we had a cuddle session and all night he said how much he liked me, he kissed me saying he had wanted to do that the day we met etc. OH and I met his best friend the second time we hung out (who happens to be the roomate of one of my coworkers, well my coworker messaged this guy and asked him if she could set her roommate up with me, he was like I dunno I'll ask her, but when he told me he said that's not happening, why would I set you up when I like you) I'm getting a I'm into you vibe and not just friends. He knows I don't do booty calls, I'm not up for one night stands so he hasn't overly tried. We text a lot of sex stuff, but a lot of it is funny stuff because we both have the same sense of humor. He sends me pics of him and his kids, so I know it's not just sex talk.
By cvictoria45 | Aug 31 2014
So me and this guy I know hooked up at a party. Well since then we have been sexting and talking a lot about meeting up again. It was 50/50 with who started the convos but mainly him who started them. Well if I would snap him a picture of me nude or say something sexy to him he would say things like "all mine" or "my dirty girl" or something. Then the other night he said we should meet up. We we're also talking about being single and I said it's fun and he said he is ready for a relationship. I said haha really and he said yeah once I find the right girl I will get serious. And I said yeah I feel ya. After that is when he called me "my dirty girl". But then the night we were supposed to meet up he said he forgot and I said oh okay and he never replied.
By baileyg | Aug 23 2014
Since last Dec. I've become really good friends with my best friends brother. He's extremely flirty and affectionate, as am I, and we have a lot of sexual tension between us. Whenever I see him we're always touching, though it's never gotten too sexual.
Well, at the beginning of July we were together and things were more tension-filled than normal. He almost always had a hand on my knee or something else.
After we had been apart for 2-3 weeks, we ended up sexting late at night. Things were a bit awkward afterwards, but we got through it and soon things were back to normal.
Then a couple weeks ago, he was at our other friends' house, and I learned he'd been acting flirty towards her/ holding her hand.
He told me that I mean more to him than her, and last week we sexted again. Since we live in different states, that's as far as it has gotten. Once again, we're in an awkward stage but I haven't talked to him for almost a week.
By lala1234 | Aug 15 2014
So I've only just met this guy but we've been talking for about a week or so before I met him. I tried to arrange the meeting sooner but it ended up after this time. I really like him and he seems a lovely guy. I like to text and all but he messages me a bit too much for my liking. We've had long conversations and even a few sex chats. He texts good morning and goodnight everyday which part of me really loves. Also we will have been texting for ages, I say I have to go then he asks if he can message me later, which I feel bad saying no to.