By miamai_2 | Feb 28 2016
Have I pushed him away?
By eentropy16 | Apr 18 2015
I met this amazing guy online about a month ago. We clicked pretty well, and soon exchanged numbers. We've been texting non stop since we met online, and even video chatted a few times. On each video chat, he asked when we would be able to meet and where. We decided on the museum and the date was yesterday (we both have a love for museums). We browsed through the museum for like an hour with little conversation (we are both a bit shy, and there's only so much you can talk about there lol). Before I was able to ask to go to lunch or get some coffee together, he got a call from his mom and asked if he could take it. I agreed and he left my side to talk to his mother. After, he returned to me apologizing. He said that his mom wants him home now since he didn't complete his chores (??? He's a 19 year old boy), but he seemed genuine in his apology. He said that he would text me later to set up another date, but he has to go. ---
By missy_2 | Apr 15 2015
Had a great first date with a guy the other Friday night. both of us got on great and had lots of fun. he organised the date, followed up etc.
I texted him the next day to say i had fun and if he wants to do it again let me know.
He replied saying he had a great time and would love to do it again. A few texts back and forth over the next few days but no 2nd date confirmed.
I texted him last night in a cheeky text saying come have a drink with me Saturday night.. and not to say maybe.
He texted me this:
"Ahh Bollocks, I wish i coudl say Maybe, I've got to say no though sorry :( I've got dinner on Saturday. I might be able to do Sunday but I'm going riding and dunno when I'll be back. Not sure if you are free though? Next weekend?
By tindermess | Mar 20 2015
I went on tinder date, which turned into a tinder hookup and sleepover. He text me the next morning to check I was OK and stuff but I didn't reply to his last message. I really want to hookup again because the sex was good but I'm not really interested in a relationship and I know he's not a relationship kind of guy. He's not spoke to me since the morning after. Is it OK for me to make contact with him, or is he just not interested?
By dreamergirl000 | Mar 10 2015
I've been texting with a guy for about 2 months, we've gone on one date, but we send each other cute messages every day. Should I keep this thing going between us or should I just give up?
By tnbrown | Feb 23 2015
I need help seeing if this guy wants to go on a second date, without being to forward.
By smiley96 | Feb 17 2015
So say that the guy says that you should now be the one to plan the next 2nd date, what should I do?
By pdrazzle | Jan 16 2015
By peaches | Nov 16 2014
This guy in my graduate program started texting me and asked me out on a date. I originally declined as I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship and thought it might be awkward to go on a date with someone in my program. He finally convinced me to give him a shot and over the course of two weeks we went on two dates while consistently texting on a daily basis. A few days after our second date I invited him over to watch a movie. He was more interested in hooking up than in watching the move, however I was hesitant to do anything because we had only been on two dates. He texted me first the next morning but then quickly started acting weird and taking hours to respond. I didn't respond to his last text because he no longer seemed interested in conversing. We haven't spoken since, through text or during class. Things seemed kind of awkward so two weeks after we hooked up I texted him to let him know that I didn't want things to be weird between us since we were in class together. He seemed completely confused as to why I thought things were weird.
By sueallen12 | Nov 16 2014
I need advice: So basically I've been talking to this guy for over a month and he's been super sweet. Our first date he didn't try anything at all. Our second date we hung out and held hands really and cuddled. The third date we kissed he initiated and we made out actually things for kinda hot and heavy. And shirts came off that's about it. After I left he texted me telling me how much fun he had with me with a kissy face emoji. The next day I Rarley heard from him until Late late that night. And the day after that he texted me in the morning and told me to have a good day but that's about it. He didn't text me at all yesterday only a couple snapchats and he sent out some snapchats to everyone else but me. Should I be worried?
By catara14 | Nov 03 2014
So I started dating a guy I met on tinder. We went for a coffee on tuesday and afterwards he texted me saying that he had a great time and that he if could grade the date he'd give it a 10. I did had a great time too. We went out on friday on a double date with some friends of mine, we hold hand and kissed. More than a make out session it was a like a sweet kisses moment. He brought me home and we kissed at his car for a while, he end up asking what was I doing tomorrow night and decided to go to the movies. At the end he canceled saying he was too tired, I know is true. But the conversation hasn't keep on.
Btw, since we matched and agreed to go out I stop swipping on tinder and on saturday I got online to delete my account and saw he was online just after he dropped me home.
By nas1982 | Oct 27 2014
I met a guy on the internet. We text a lot for 3 days which was going amazingly well - then we met up Thursday night. I thought we had a good date and expected a second date. At the end we were outside the pub and he gave me a kiss on each check. Then gave me a peck on the lips - but didn't go for a proper kiss... didn't suggest meeting up again. We said goodbye - I text when I got home saying home safe (apparently a big no no!), he replied. I replied. He replied. I didn't hear from him Friday. Saturday it was his birthday, didn't hear from him. Sunday afternoon I sent a text saying hope he had a good birthday and the hangover wasn't too bad. He replied 4 hours later (saw he had been on whatsapp before that) "thanks! hangover is slowly fading". I didn't reply.
By sushiandtee | Sep 18 2014
So it's me again. I just posted about this guy I met from an online dating site and he texted me with options to choose from for a second date. Here is the text: "Next time you're free would you like to go to (his fave korean restaurant, he knows I like korean) , or I could cook you food and watch movies or we could go see the maze runner, well we could do all of them eventually haha :D" But I kind of chose him cooking for me and watching movies at his house. Yeah I know stupid decision for just a second meeting. I don't know what I was thinking.
By sushiandtee | Sep 18 2014
So there is this guy I met online and just had our first meeting last night. I think it went pretty well because now he asks me for a second date. I don't know how to respond to his text though, he said "Next time you're free would you like to go to (his fave restaurant) or I could cook you food and watch movies or we could go see The Maze Runner, well we could do all of them eventually haha :D"
By meriri | Sep 03 2014
I was seeing a guy since july. I could feel the connection between us. And i know he really likes me in the way he looked at me and did things for me.
at our first date we were together till midnight. The second date he helped me with something important. The day after we had a date. It was a summer festival where all wear special clothes for that. He didn'T had it so he bought it for me to wear. In the evening we went to the beach and it was magic. We hugged and talked a lot. He said he is happy and his heart is beating fast .We wanted to kiss but he said no, when we are in a relationship. When i said let's go he wanted to stay longer. Because of that he missed his last train and we went to my home. We only watched TV and slept till morning.
The next date was weird. He said he didn't had much money so i said let's do something for free. He always looked at his mobile phone so i became angry and we had a little fight. i apologized and he did so too. After 1 hour he already wanted to go home and i became angry again. i said i wanted to be with him more longer but he said he want to go home and if he would go to my home he want to do sexually things with me and that would be not good.
i said ok and went home. after 1 hour i apologized again and he too and said he was thinkin about it and is near my house. So we met and talked a little bit but nothing more. He went home and thanked me for today and he was happy to be with me.
next day i wrote we could go there and there if we have money again but he ignored me for 2 days. suddenly he said when he was at my house last time he thought we didn't match. from this text he ignored me for another week. He answered very short.
after 2 Weeks i wrote i gave up but i still want to be friends.
he read the message but no answer.
By lfb1028 | Aug 22 2014
I went out with a guy I met online last week for drinks and we had a really nice time (we both texted one another that we enjoyed the evening the next day). I was away this past weekend but we've been texting back and forth since I got back but no mention of a second date. I asked him out for our first date and feel a bit strange asking for a second one.