By clueless_9 | Oct 28 2015
Why did my very close 'new' boyfriend completely ignore the picture message I texted him? Should I bring it up? Since men usually feel criticized if you say anything, should I just ignore it? Should I just note it as insight?
By dinnergo | Apr 21 2015
I met two guys with similar patterns. We just chatted couple of lines on whatsapp and suddenly out of the blue, they call. And I am shunned because you never asked if its okay to call, you just call. And I didnt pick up the phone cos I wasnt ready. Then i just let it go into missed call. I then text them and told them that I am not ready and can we text more first or maybe call later in the evening. They got rude and pissed of and told me good luck with other partners. I am just shocked and wonder am I rude to not pick up the call? Why can we just text alittle more then go out on a date and then all the calling stuff comes later.
By abitofamess | Apr 02 2015
I broke up with my ex of 7 months a little over a week ago. It was pretty much a relationship where we were both taking each other for granted. He eventually ended it by coming over to my house and I simply said 'I know what you're going to say, it's not working out' before he had a chance to. I then rushed him out the door saying 'you should leave now' and when he tried to say bye to my Labrador I was really rude. I essentially said 'what are you doing?! Just get out'. The worst part was that when we got the door I opened it merrily and then said in a sing song voice 'byeee!' and then when he said 'see you soon?' I said 'no you fucking won't' and slammed the door. (Apologies for all the speech in the middle of text). I feel so terrible about ending it in such a cold way after the relationship ending was both of our faults. On social media he seems to be doing fine, but I feel awful and like such a bitch. My friends keep telling me not to text an apology as I might look like a desperate ex trying to get back together. However, I genuinely just want to give the poor guy an apology.
By rose_5 | Feb 12 2015
Why on earth will a man behave like this? I am enough hurt by men now. Seriously?
By tj | Feb 08 2015
Why do I feel like thia
By theaustrianmissedoutonthis | Feb 02 2015
He kept texting me before his visit,that he couldn't wait to see me and not just to have sex with me.
By msnerdybirdy | Jan 28 2015
I dated this guy and we had amazing chemistry like truly amazing. However I learned that he really likes to party and that wasn't my thing so I stop texting him back. What a shame. Two weeks later, I was late and tested pregnant.
I waited until I had my first ultrasound to tell him. His reaction was no less than what I imagined! He told me to "fuck off" and that he wants nothing to do with it! And that's he's NEVER paying for child support because this is all my fault. So I left him alone but now 2 months later.. He won't text me at all and ignores all my calls. I just ask him to speak like adults. Let's figure this out.
The fact is, I don't want him to come to me years later asking for custody with his kid. It's not fair to my baby. Being in and out of his life like that. I know I can't change him! He needs to do that himself. But he needs to realize that for me? This is a very serious and permanent decision. Is it wrong for wanting him to realize that he's being a selfish bitch?
By lxxviifelicia | Jan 27 2015
Okay guys,so im having a fight with my boyfriend because i accidentally swore at him in a rude way which i never did before..and I did that when he was trying to persuade me.. I was so stupid and terrible for that .. I know that he's currently mad because he had been acting very different. He stoptalking to me,avoids eye contact and doesnt reply to my text.. We never had any fight before and our relationship was perfect until the incident happened which showed that i disrespected him and i think it hurts his pride as a man.. I love him so much,and im sure he still does too because I saw him still using our couple mug and He slightly touch me when he was passing by me,I only tried to pretend looking at the other way and caught him staring at me..his friends also tell me that he still love me..(PS: we're working together).
By kittypurryyumyum | Jan 03 2015
I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months. However, he has not tried to DTR at all. We still hang out all the time and I do really like him. Most of his friends assume I'm his girlfriend. He also mentioned to me that he likes me "more than a lot."
Recently, he and his friends have been talking about a 5k that they have been training for. None of them has invited me to this, even though I ran a 5k with him before and we had a great time. This really bothers me.
By satieh | Dec 01 2014
I met this guy a bit over a month ago. We hit it off instantly and have since seen each other nearly every day. Though there are things I don't love, we haven't had any major issues until this past thanksgiving break. A few of his friends came to town and suddenly it was like I didn't matter. I've never been viewed as a needy person, but I am just downright offended by his change in behavior. Since thanksgiving when his friends arrived, he ignores my texts (and I do not text much in general), he didnt even bother calling me back the other night- not even a text response, nothing. What that says to me is that I am no priority. If I didn't text him or call him at all I don't even know when he would have reached out to me. It's just really rude and inconsiderate and I do feel really hurt by his behavior these past 4 days.
By bae0 | Nov 21 2014
I've been with this guy for 2 years since I was 15. Total sweetie. He's 1 year younger tho. But on our anniversary he took me to driskill hotel for a beautiful meal. During the 2nd course he told me how much he loves slim thug and how great he is etc. Anyway he wouldn't stop talking about slim thug so I said "baby who do you love more me or slim thug?" and he said "you know, if I really think about it, deep down I love SLIM THUG MORE" and I was like "What the fuck!!!" and got up and left... since then he has sent me three texts telling me it was just a joke and I shoudl COME OVER AND SUCK HIS DICK!!! Because he's tired of me acting so crazy! Like what the fuck??? Should I dump this guy or just go over to his house and suck his dick..? I mean I LOVE him, but this is just ... UGHH!!!!!!!
By healingtheheart | Nov 01 2014
23 year old female here and single mother to an adorable 2 year old boy.
First time doing this. From the very time, since I've met this guy. I've obsessed with googling for answers and advice on what to do next and how to behave. I wanted to do all the right things to keep him around. I can say, at first it was working. It was exciting. But now I need to start finding some real answers of my own. Because I really like this guy. But the situation has become so complex. I've walked away from him. Hoping to still see him again soon.
We started of as casual sex friends.
Yes. We slept together the first time we met. I'm a very love at first sight kinda girl, I know what I want. I know what I like. I don't beat around the bush. And at the time I was 50/50 on the whole you sleep with him straight away, he'll disappear thing. Risky. I know. But I could tell those kinda guys from a mile off.
And it just felt right with him because he was older. And his fine as hell. It's been 2 years. Why not have a bit of fun? No strings, no commitment. Sounded like were I needed to be. Just let go and let flow.
I created an online profile 4 months ago. It was site for socializing. Making new friends. This guy caught my attention.
35 years old. Didn't really check his whole profile. Just saw the profile pic. Nice. Physically. My type. The age. Wow. Never ever engaged with a guy that age. But age is nothing but a number to me. And always found guys my age very young minded. Especially in the mother hood department. I was looking for mature friendships. We got talking for a couple of days. I wasn't taking the whole online thing serious just wanted to meet people out of my parenting life. He asked for my number. I gave it. Just like I'd given other people my number on the site.
We still continued talking online.
Then one day he asked to meet me. He called. And broke down his situation. He works 2 jobs. Lives with flatmates. And has 3 kids, by 3 different women.
An added equation. He was french. And his accent was so irresistible.
I don't judge. I did hesitate. Like wow 3 women? Will I be the 4th? But I'm very understanding, that it's not always the man's fault. I started looking up people with multiple women and kids. Seems the world is filled with it.
My son was at my mum's and she was dropping him early morning before work. So I had some free time. He came over. We talked. He explained the whole 3 women situation. (And what his told me on other times we've met.)
His son is 12, his daughter is 14 his youngest is 3 months(:-0) He loved and was married to one of the women. And with his youngest. It wasn't planned. And he wasn't in a relationship. His a great father to all his kids. And works hard to provide for them. I have seen this for myself. On one occasion he sent me a picture of his daughter at his place. He would tell me his sons upset with him for not buying him a game. I could just tell he was there for his kids by what he was saying and doing. This also made him a very busy man. Which eventually showed.
I respected it. He wasn't my boyfriend. It wasn't serious.
We met once/twice a week. Other times we texted or he called.
I kept calm. I played it cool. Because I did understand he had important responsibilities. So did I. Hence, why things between us couldn't be too serious.
He would often confide in me about his work problems and how important his work is. He'd tell me about his relationship with his mum. And how his had a hard life. He would come from work to see me. I would be on the phone to him that whole time. Even when he was dropping his daughter to her mum's.
One time I cooked for him and his flatmates.
I've been to his flat enough times to know I was the only girl he was seeing.
I never indulged in him to him. Although, I could feel myself slowly faking it. The more I saw him, the more I wanted.
He started helping me out with my music passion. Introducing me to his flatmate who had music connections. And wanting to be my manager. I couldn't get a sitter one day and he insisted on babysitting my son, while I did music with his flatmate. We were going to start a business. I was trying to look to the future and hold on to business and pleasure friendship we had.
Until one day I couldn't hold back anymore. I couldn't stand hearing him say, that his been honest with me and how he couldn't be what I wanted him to be. What he was saying and what he was doing didn't match up. He was giving very mixed signals. I told him to f off and I called him a biatch. Emotions started to take over.
I apologised for.the rude words. I didn't want anything too serious, just wanted to know he felt the same. And we were on to something.
I did take my son with me that day. Will never do something like that again tho. My son cried the whole time and didn't want anyone else but mummy.
I told him I wouldn't do that again and he didn't really help that much. But then again he couldn't because my son wouldn't let go of my leg. He said he accepted my situation and did wish he could do more things with me, but understands its difficult for me to get sitter sometimes.
This week I text him saying I have to walk away. Even from the music thing. I started to expect him to b there on a Tuesday evening. (We have spent the day together as well. He would ask me over during the day.) Or waiting for him to surprise me in some way.
I haven't seen him since a week ago. Since meeting him. I've never gone a week without seeing him. I've never gone a weekend without talking to him. But I had to walk away for my sanity. But Since I text him saying it's over. He never text back. No call. Nothing. We talked that day and he knew I had a sitter and was flexible. It's been a week and nothing.
I'm so confused, obsessed, hurt. I feel in denial.
By sapphire | Sep 15 2014
Dating this guy for a few mnths. He's going on a holiday so I message him this:
She: stay safe and have an amazing holiday😘
He: hey, I'm only leaving this evening but thanks anyway. Have a nice day ahead.
By m1291 | Sep 03 2014
I travel a lot for work. I started seeing this guy. It was great. Very good chemistry. We tried to see each other as much as we could (meaning 5 times in a month and a half). He even came to see me when I was working in Boston (his family is from there). Now I moved to Florida for three months. We said goodbye but he kept in touch. He even sent a text on my first day of work to wish me good luck. I was surprised in a good way. I think there is something. However, I wanted to go back to Washington DC (where he is) for the weekend, to see my friend but also... to see him. So I just replied to his text (normal convo) and asked him if he would be around this weekend. He just said "I should be around friday but I have plans Saturday". I think that's normal that he has plans but I thought it was a bit rude. I don't plan on coming back to DC every weekend and I think he could have been a bit more excited about it. He also changed his picture on the dating app (that's how we met) + still liking every single picture of another girl on instragram + STILL LIKING pictures of his EX (who is obviously not out of the picture).
PS: I will be back for good in DC end of November
By angel_3 | Jul 21 2014
So, at the beginning of the year I started my first year of varsity, and the career that ive chosen is predominantly female. I met one of the few guys at the school and he immediately found me on Facebook and we started chatting. I am the only person that he speaks to outside of school amoungst my friends. He is constantly being rude and constantly teases me about EVERYTHING! I thought that the teasing would get old, but its been six months and nothing has changed. He is very comfortable making sexual references around me which I find at times distasteful. He also tends to randomly send shirtless pictures of himself to me ...
By babygirll1212 | Jul 19 2014
I was dating this guy for a year and 7 months and he cheated quite a bit and lied and everything you could name and I kept forgiving him . Finally I had enough and ended it telling him he needs to start stepping up as not dating or I'll walk away . So as friends he's so far has been alright . He'll get rude with me occasionally . I don't know if he's lied or not as far as i know no . He's shown up with flowers and candy for me the first day and has been coming to see me everyday and if not that every other day .