By blessing | Nov 04 2014
By hc1010 | Nov 04 2014
I still really like my ex and want to be back with him. He texted me this today out of the blue. I'm really scared to be hurt again...I don't know what he actually want from me? Why he come back because somebody hurt him?
By confusedhere1 | Nov 02 2014
I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. It's been the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I've been pretty good about no-contact (with one slip that I had posted about here). On Friday night, I went to my friends' Halloween party and mingled with a bunch of new people. One of the first ones I met was this guy, Zach, who claimed to remember me from high school (I don't remember him, though). By the end of the night, I was drunk, and I think he was, too. I asked him if he wanted to make out, and we did. We passed out on a couch and in the morning, he got my phone number and kissed me (weird!) before he left. He texted me last night: "Hey pretty lady, just wanted to say I'm glad we met and I'm looking forward to getting to know you better." I responded that it was nice meeting him as well. According to my friend, he also recently broke up with his girlfriend, so I am wondering if we are just each other's rebounds?
By itsalwaysnever | Oct 06 2014
So this guy I met on Tinder ask me to hang out with him and yesterday he said that he won't be seeing me anymore and it was really nice meeting me hoping I wasn't wasting my time with him. So I texted him morning after the text that it was nice meeting him. Anyways, after that he texted me that Hi, is it too late to say I'm sorry.
I don't know what to say. I also have ended a relationship three months ago. Should I inform him that too?
By itsmecharlie_23 | Sep 29 2014
I dated this guy who eventually cheated on me with his ex girlfriend.
Now one of my best friends is dating him. She asked for my permission and at first I didnt really mind because I dont have feelings for him anymore.
Today another friend said she would not tolerate it this.
By lise | Sep 15 2014
Been good friends over 2 years but we lose contact all the time because we get "too close". Spend the last two months of summer texting, seeing each other, flirting and even slezping together. He's experienced a recent break-up and says he's confused and can't handle a relationship right now. But he does want us to get to know each other better and see "if we can built something". Last week he texted me that he wasn't ok and that he needed to be lonely in order to come back to reality. I just wished him good luck... This morning he textes " hey how are you? Did you have a good weekend? Do you start studying this week (I don't study in my hometown)? Hug
By nath | Aug 27 2014
I had just broken up with my bf and well I went home with this guy for cuddles and well it led to something more (I was the one who made it go further). Next morning I left as we both had work. He texted me first after. But he took 9 hours or something to reply back...
By emilydenton | Aug 26 2014
So I dated this guy Anthony for a year. We had an amazing relationship for the first 8 months, he was in a major car accident and we became so close during that time. He was my best friend, my sounding board, made me feel so beautiful and safe and just taken care of. The sex was MINDBLOWING and I have never felt that way with anyone else. The last four months we hit a wall. We've always been opposites in some ways (mostly political views and morals). It seems like the last four months we just argued all the time and fought over petty things. He broke up with me because we had been arguing a lot that month and we fought over how much time we were going to spend at each of our families houses for the Fourth of July. It's been two months, filled with late night conversations and a couple hookups between the two of us. He's been with other people but I haven't since we broke up. He took to a wild streak and partied and drank and got kinda reckless. I took up running and focusing on my career. After a few weeks of no contact (we would just text every now and then) Last Saturday he called me, while I was asleep. The next day I got ahold of him and we went to an ice cream place then a few parks. In that time we ended up kissing, he told me that I looked beautiful and he missed me. He played me a few songs he had found that reminded him of me. The whole time we hung out the sexual tension was insane, so I mentioned that and I asked him...what we were doing, why we were hanging out? I told him that I wanted him again but that I was enjoying me independence and he agreed. So then he suggested that we decide to start being friends with benefits...which neither of us has never done. Of course I was like hell no at first. But then I thought maybe...so long as we are only with eachother because that's just gross. And it wouldn't be adding to my number of partners. So after setting some conditions, we agreed to start casual sex with the intentions of getting back together. Sort of a trial run. So he came back to my house, we had sex, he basically just confessed his love to me and held me all night and we pinky swore that if things go right for us in the next few months that we will be together. I went to his house last night. We made pizzas and watched tv, cuddled, then had sex. I left because I had to work but he walked me to my car and for 10 min we tried to say goodbye for the night and he just kept kissing me and saying how much he loved me. Then I got home and he asked me if I missed him and said he missed me like crazy. We text all day. He tells me he misses me and he loves me, we're hanging out today and he texted me today saying after today e can't see me till Saturday because he's helping his uncle move. So we have plans for Saturday.
By cheylin | Aug 21 2014
Hey! I don't this do this often but I guess I'm desperate which sucks. Anyway I was in relationship last September it lasted for 3 years. I had this friend named Devin who constantly wanted to hang out and always complained about me not having enough time for him and making me feel like I was a bad person because I didn't make time to see him nor talk to him. When I would bump into him he always seemed really shy but after he'll be relaxed a little but then again we only saw each other for like 5 minutes every time. After I got out of my 3 year relationship the 7month into the break up I suddenly had these feelings for Devon that I never had before. Its pretty weird and crazy because after my ex I don't think I've ever been this infatuated with someone like I am now. Now that I like him he doesn't acknowledge me as much as he used to idk if it's because now that I have strong feelings I want to talk to him ALL THE TIME and before I knew he existed he was always there but I always ignored him. Now it's the other way around.
By whattodo | Aug 15 2014
So, this guy and I met in college a few times...just eying each other and smiling...then he found me on facebook since we have some courses together...but the thing is..he had a girlfriend athe the time he added me!?! So a friend of mine chatted him up and found out that she would go abroad for a year and they are planning to take a break...
Well...two weeks later he chatted me up and his profile no longer mentioned the girlfriend...so they have probably split up...the thing is...it is the summer holidy now..I am home in a different city so we won't be albe to meet for at least two month
so for over two weeks we have been texting everyday...quite a lot actually and since two weeks ago, he also always says good morning and goodnight...he also uses a lot of emojis...winky-faces etc.
He also playfully complimented me like
"good morning, beautiful ;)"
"you are the best"
he also asked me straight up if I have a boyfriend...and answered that he had no girlfriend...but I am confused! I don't want to be a fill-in or some kind of rebound!
Especially because I never had a relationship, yet...
By tswift101 | Aug 12 2014
The guy that I've been talking to for about 4 months told be abruptly that he thinks we should stop talking. He said he met another girl, and that she had better qualities than me. I asked what they were and here's what he said; Him: "She's prettier, we have better conversations, and I chase her and not the other way around." I was completely appalled and hurt. About a week later he texts me saying stuff didn't work out with that other girl, and he said this; Him: "I'm sorry for everything. I did you so wrong, like that wasn't cool at all."
By shannon0664 | Jul 27 2014
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half; like just a week ago recently. One of my best guy friends has been there for me by texting me all week to make sure I'm alright. About 2 years ago, before I fell for my recent ex, I was in love with this guy friend. But I just accepted that it wouldn't work out. I've been mad and upset with my ex all week, and now that my friend has been there for me those old feelings have resurfaced. I know that this is just a rebound relationship mindset I'm in because it is much too soon for me to consider dating anyone else, but my friend has been very compassionate towards me this week and it's making me curious as to whether or not he has feelings for me and is a little more confident now that I'm single. He claims to have a crush on someone else and yet he still compliments my body, which seems extremely flirty to me despite what he says.
By sageandonion | Jul 22 2014
Player or just denying his feelings!?? Head fuck
By deatta | Jul 09 2014
I am MADLY in love with a younger man. "Kyle" and I have been friends for about 3yrs now, he had worked his dad on some construction on my home, however when I met him, I was married, and he was far too young for me. I went about 5mths without seeing Kyle, and we ended up running into each other at a mutual friend’s house one weekend (who happens to live next door to me). When I saw him, he gave me a great big hug, asked me how I was doing and I filled him in that I was now getting divorced. That evening he came over with our friends “Lisa & Ryan” to hang out. We laughed and joke and he made a comment about how he used to stare at me at the house when I ran around in my short shorts. I didn’t think anything of it except that he is young and horny!
Now, Kyle, back in December when we ran into each other again, was turning 18 at the end of the month…and I was 27. Now I don’t see this as much of a problem as most people do simply because my own parents are 24yrs apart! This is normal for me!
Kyle made some comments about maybe “hooking up” and at the time I was going threw a divorce and was looking for some fun! I thought “why not, he’s young and probably has stamina for DAYS!” So, we slept together, and continued to do so for a few weeks while he was in town. His dad had called me to check in and told me that he knew everything and he was happy for Kyle and I and actually hoped he would make something more of it than just sex. I was ecstatic for some reason.
Kyle went home for his birthday at the end of December and when he came back up in the middle of January, things were different right away. He sat me down and told me he had a girlfriend that he really liked and wanted to see how things were going to go. I agreed to back off, and we agreed no more sex. A few days before Valentine’s Day I hung out with our mutual friends and Kyle, I got completely drunk, made an ass out of myself and he took care of me. One thing led to another and we fooled around, never slept together but it was still him cheating. I told him that it was no different than us sleeping together and he needed to figure out what he was doing, he left the next day.
He came back the weekend of St. Patrick’s Day, he called me and told me to head on over. I put him off, I told him I was out with my ex (ex-husband, we have a great friendship) and that I had to make a few appearances and then I would make my way back to town. It was HOURS later by the time I made it to our friends house, and everyone was almost sleeping. They all got up, we had a few beers and we were all ready for bed. Kyle followed me to bed, I asked him if he still had a girlfriend and he said yes, I told him to stay on his own side or find a new room! That didn’t happen. We slept together…again, and it was like that for a week or so. Then he started feeling guilty. I told him he needed to figure out what he was doing, it wasn’t fair to me or to his girlfriend at home. Later that day he called her and told her he was moving here because there was someone else in his life and he was sorry. *yes I heard the whole conversation*
His dad had called me later on that evening and had informed me that he had talked to Kyle that day and he told him things were different with me, that the sex wasn’t just sex, it was us making love. I let it go, I figured when Kyle was ready to tell me that he would.
Standing on my porch just a few hours after he had broke up with his girlfriend he asked me to be his…I of course said yes! He had to leave a few days later for a funeral, he was gone 2days, and it seemed like the longest 2days of my life. When he came home, we were inseparable! We had talked about our futures, the house I was finishing, our jobs, and even talked about having kids (I already have 1, who Kyle adores and my son adores Kyle). Things were perfect, up until about 6wks ago. He called me and we talked for over an hour. I asked him if he would be around for the 4th of July and he said he didn’t know…I was obviously upset and then he proceeded to tell me we have no future together, but we can still stay friends. I have been heart broke every since! He still calls me every few days, we still talk about the same things we did before, and then he called one night in June and said he was coming up for a few hours and wanted to see me, NOTHING happened, he hugged me and that was it. We hung out with his brother for a few hours and he left. He called again and said he would be up July 3rd. I was happy, but had plans and I wasn’t ignoring my son for him…I did my own thing that night and when I was finally done, I pulled into our friends house and he was there. The little girl part of me wanted to jump up and down, but I played it cool. I didn’t imitate the hug or the conversation. We all hung out for a bit and I told him I was going home, I was beat. He asked if he could stay with me since he didn’t want to put Lisa and Ryan out and he had cut ties with everyone else in town, I said yes. I tried to play hard to get but in an hour, I caved! All weekend I caved…I asked him at the end of the weekend why he came, he said it was to get away from his roommates because he works with them all day, and it might be because he misses me a little. I don’t know what to do, he has told me he loved me, but then he took it back. Im LOST! I thought he would be a rebound, but it turned into so much more! Im in love and don’t know what to do! I want him in my life…I don’t NEED any man, but I WANT HIM! Ive had the chance to fix my marriage and get back with my ex husband and I chose Kyle and then he walked away. I talked to his dad who claims its because Kyle is young and scared and doesn’t know how to react to being in love. Apparently hes told his dad that hes in love with me but wont tell me! PLEASE HELP!
By thatgirl13 | Jul 02 2014
Just met this guy.we clicked have great chemistry.he originally stated and I agreed that he just wanted fwb. He kept saying over and over that he thinks im trouble because he could fall for me.he makes several hints at liking me more than fwb.he texts me first and all day long everyday.and wants to spend time with me and take me out to movies, and other stuff in public. my question is does he want more than fwb and just is resisting it? He just got out of a relationship.
By diehbid | Jun 26 2014
We meet a couple years ago. When my ex- boyfriend dumped me right before prom last year I called him after not talking for months asking if he would go with me so I was not alone. We dont talk much but when we hang out we always have a good time. He specifically asked me to come home from school for a party planned by family members of mine (he is a family friend). I did and we hung out. After finals and I came home we didnt talk for awhile until I got an unexpected text to hang out with him on a boat for a couple of hours. We did we flirted, or so I thought, and he kept trying to keep me longer. At the end of the night he gave me a long hug, but thats it. He then texted me the next week asking to go out on his boat, but I was already busy and I haven't heard from him since.
Also, any time we text I am normally the first one to text and the last one to reply.