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I thought he ghosted, and then he texts me saying I haven't spoken to him in a while, when I was the last to initiate conversation (it was the first or second time I had initiated a text). What's his deal?

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I'm not very active on the online dating scene but I met a guy on cougarlife.com and we hit it off right away. In fact, we were both totally caught off guard by how well we were getting along with similar interests, cultural background and personality traits. We met up within 2 days of connecting online. I was inititally hesitant since being a full-figured woman doesn't always translate into a successful first meeting. I made sure he knew what I looked like before we met so we shared pics (full length ones!) before meeting. Things went great on our 1st meeting and clearly we had a strong connection. He said multiple times that this is just casual, all fun and games...nothing serious etc. and I told him multiple times that I was on the same page! We had an intense makeout session before parting ways for the night. Later that night, we had a long sexually charged conversation and the same the next night. I suggested twice that he come over to my place so we can "hang out" . They were last minute but I felt that's the idea behind this...it's not a proper full-on dating -leading-to-commitment relationship.I knew what I wanted so a couple of days after this, I told him let's meet and have some ground rules for our little fling. Honestly, I was anxious to get things going or not...so we didn't waste our time....And here's the response I got:
" lol thats a long ass message. I felt bad after how we talked the first time we met. I might have gotten a bit drunk to say that stuff. Dont think Im a player :p I dont sleep around with a lot of women. Only some id actually click with . However I do find you a nice person. And I would lole to see you again. As for sex, lets not get into that for now. If it happens later, it happens.
hope you understand. And sorry if you feel I led you on. "

I responded to this saying glad we sorted this out now. He responded saying:
" yes. But dont take it the wrong way. Im not ignoring u or its not that i dont wanna see you at all. It would be nice to see you whenever we can."

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What are some signs that a guy is talking to a lot of girls?? Please help!

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When a guy casually makes a joke about sex, does that mean that he wants it? I got mad at my best guy friend because I wanted to go out tonight but he was feeling tired and didn't want to. These are some of his messages..."don't feel like I'm rejecting you haha." "I know you're thinking that I am." Then "if you want to sleep with me you're welcome haha." Is it just a joke?

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By eswain | Jan 22 2015

So two weeks ago, I ask my coworker if we could hang out. He asks me to lunch, and I said sure. We were still on, until I started talking about my husband, whom I'm divorcing.

He backs away fast and asks if it could a group thing...that same day, we admitted we like each other.

But then, he declines the other people I invited. His reason; he's busy with college this semester as he's suppose to graduate in May.

Okay. So, I'm working through my divorce, and in the midst of talking to him, I get caught by a manager last night. I'm not suppose to goof off and talk to anyone not doing work.

I'm quite upset at how I make effort to see him, possibly getting in trouble.

So, is he just playing me off because I'm getting a divorce? And in the picture, what does he mean by "If our situations were different, there wouldn't be a problem,"

Btw, he admitted to me never having a girlfriend at 22...and he never will!!

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Friends for a good 3yrs now. Met him threw his sister. We almost did the fwb thing hut i couldn't follow through with it. During our friendship over there years its been a little weird. From communicating all the time to stop talking for months at a time and then so on and so forth except last yr. He's been going through sone hard times n we haven't stopped talking since because he says he wants me to be in his life no matter what. Thats been our friendship. Ive always been there for him and he there for me when i need him. Its not a normal friendship we flirt constantly weve kissed and cuddled.. n always have meaningful conversations when we need one another but we've never crossed that line or have brought up the "what are we" we just ignore it cuz thats the best way to play it safe. I know i do at least. Thats our "friendship"

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So what do I do ...

By lexa | Dec 17 2014

That one maybe be a douche well his ex-girlfriend confronted me today saying how he was her first time and he screwed her over. After high school they plan on getting back together bc none of his relationships work out. So i listened qnd i believe half of the story. After she told me that four people came up amd said they over heard her talking and she is just crazy. So of course i told the guy his crazy ex girlfriend talked to me and he told me this has happened before and so I was like okay maybe she is crazy, but I feel at the same time he is just a huge player.

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So there is this guy in my school and I have heard stories that he is a jerk and stuff like that. He texted me one night at like 10:00 and asked if I thought he was cute? And I ignored him because I didn't know what to say and then a couple days after he texted me with two question marks and I ignored him. Now he keeps texting me like 10-11 at night always asking what I am doing which is usually laying in bed.

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So I visited Chicago and met with a close friend of mine and his gf. We went bar hopping on a saturday night and their friends came along too. I ended up being the only lady in the group of 8 (other than my friend's wife).
I started chatting with this 35 year old investment banker. He was thoroughly engaging and paid a lot of attention to me. He teased me a lot and kept making fun of me for still living with my parents. We talked and laughed so much that when the group was walking to the next bar we would lose sight of the group and he had to call them up to find out where they were. This happened Twice in a row when we were moving to the next location. He joked and said it was all my fault and that I was distracting him on purpose. He also told me that one of my jokes was lame. I liked that he didn't pretend to find it funny. While walking on the streets he then started to put his hand on the small of my back. There was no need for him to guide me as it wasn't a crowded street and neither was I drunk. He did this 2 to 3 times. I did not reciprocate by touching him but neither did I move away. He also did impressions of me to make fun of me and after a while he told me he was just messing with me, as if he thought I might be offended? We got to a club and it got a little too noisy to talk. After we tried shouting in each other''s ears a couple of times we gave up trying to have a conversation. He slowly drifted off to another part of the club. After that I had to leave as something had come up and I did not get to say goodbye to the group. The next day I added the rest of the group on facebook and realized he wasn't on it. I IMed one of his buds for his number saying I just wanted to keep in touch since I was leaving the city. His friend then responded that it wasn't a good idea as he had a very serious girlfriend.

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We have been friends for almost 3 years and he moved overseas (as he was only in my country as an exchange student). We had always been flirty but he's kind of an player...I know this because he hasn't had any relationships (he's 23). He used to hook up with girls every weekend and although I had a crush on him, I knew he would never commit. But ever since he moved/before a few months he was moving, he had been different. I'm planning to go to his country as an exchange student next year, do I have a shot? He has said that all the girls he met were only interested in hooking up.

Some of my other texts with him:
Him: I kind of blame the girls too…it’s like how delusional are you?
Him: Sex on the first date? Really?
Him: It’s like girls are so naïve
Him: I just hope you don’t get played like that…no matter how good it seems
Me: …coming for you, you’re an unique one ;)
Him: Haha shut up, you are too
Me: Hehe
Him: I don’t talk about this stuff with anyone you know
Him: If I try and share with guy friends, they think I’m showing off or something
Him: So naturally, I have to keep certain things to myself
Me: Aww so am I special?
Him: Yes
Him: You’re like the only girl…or person for that matter that I’ve shared any of this stuff with
Me: I’m glad!! :)
Him: Seriously though, that’s why I got a little jumpy at the idea of you sharing this with anyone
Him: You’re the only one on the planet that knows this much about my life
Me: Wow that makes me feel dizzy
Him: Haha just thought I should clarify :P
Him: …not even my mum knows
Me: She shouldn’t!!
Him: Nooo. I mean you know more about me than my mum…mums know a lot about their sons yeah?
Me: Aw yeah I got it
Him: Well thank you
Me: For what?
Him: You’ve been most helpful with both listening and giving advices
Me: Aw no problem! That’s what friends are for right? ;)
Him: I’ll get you a fruit basket and some flowers
Him: Maybe take you on a date instead
Me: Dude! Sarcastic much?
Him: No for reals
Me: Oh yeah totally ;)
Him: Dude! Sarcastic much?
Me: Hehe
Him: You’re so mean. You never take me seriously. You don’t know what love is!
Me: Pshhh. I’m surprised you could even spell love ;)
Him: Go away
Him: So yeah I really want to see you
Me: Me too :( I miss your face
Him: One more year :) We can go to the taco loco place that overlooks the beach
Him: I could use my piece of chit motorcycle that has spider webs on it
Me: Aw we can sit on it and pretend to go vroom vroom ;)

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So do you have any idea of how I could get rid of this...

By someonewhoneedshelp | Sep 24 2014

This guy and I met a year ago at uni, I wasn't feeling anything about him at first but after few parties and some drinks, turns out I was more and more attracted by him. He asked me to go to his house several times when parties were over, sometimes he is acting like a jealous guy when I'm talking with some lads. I know all he wanted was having sex with me but the fact is, I'm virgin. If I wasn't virgin I think I'd be probably having sex with him every week but I never wanted that to happen because of all the rumours...
The real problem is he's got a girlfriend, they broke up more than twice but still he must be in love with her as they are together for 2 years now.
I'm now thinking about him everyday, I completely felt in love while nothing concrete happened between us.

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is he into me what should i do to get him back ...

By sherryzay | Aug 08 2014

few months ago, this guy ask me out and i said yes. we started like each other and we did say 'i love you' but we were not in relationship. our relationship was just like that for a month then one day he texted me that we should be friends and i'm okay it. i found that he likes another girl. so after 5 months, i went to a party and he was there too. we were sitting next to each other with his arm wrapped my shoulder. he act like i'm his girl for 2 hours then he become himself again ignoring me. since then, i started to like him but he's like a player to me.

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Player or just denying his feelings!?? Head fuck

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So the shortest little backstory I can write: we live in different countries, met while he had a girlfriend, amazing chemistry on both sides, started off with e-mails after they broke up (their choice entirely, I had no doing), then texting, occasional calling (English not being my native language, I kinda try to avoid the calling part), finally had sex and... things progressed! I mean messages went from once or twice a week to almost daily, visits got longer, discussions more serious. He does pen me in when he talks about future plans, but he does not see this as a relationship right at the moment, us not being and never having been together in the same place for more than a couple of days (and the sane part of me agrees 100%). He said he's not sleeping with anyone else, he said he loved getting texts from me so I should stop waiting for him to text me first, when we're together it's just like a normal, steady relationship, some of his friends know me by name, not his mom though... Bad parts? He travels a lot with work and I strongly believe that he has a "me" in every country, partly because I see his FB friends number increasing after every journey. Mostly girls, always from the country he was in. Didn't confront him about this yet, but I'm sure he'll just say they added him and he's a friendly guy, which can be true, because I saw him doing this firsthand, showing me his phone, after a large number of girls added him after a day of work.

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About two weeks ago I went to the club. Made eye contact with a cute guy , who finally approached me and invited me to his section to have done drinks. Long story short, we spent the whole night dancing , drinking , and talking. We really connected, and on my way out we made out. He texted me that night saying that he had a great time with me, etc.

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