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By wavy_gurl | Sep 28 2015

So, I started talking to this guy on a dating website about the last week of August. It was going very well and smooth and so it led to texting. This was maybe the 2nd guy I gave my number to... I am very cautious with the online world. We texted everyday, talked on the phone, and he seemed so smitten! We set up a date! Sure, I was nervous but I was so ready (: It was set up for right after I got out of work. The way we planned it was that I would drive to his place and he would then drive us to the restaurant. I felt very comfortable with him and still do not regret that decision. The date went great! We definitely had a connection and a lot of chemistry. But then I had to be the one to ask if he wanted to see me again. He did, I guess, so we set up another date. BUT then he said it would have to be rescheduled because he had a work trip-which he did warn me about so I can't be mad. So now he has three work trips lined up for three weeks. I just wonder if this "getting to know each other thing" came at a bad time. Like the second date can't happen for over a
month. We are still talking everyday but sometimes I get the feeling that he doesn't have the same interest in me anymore or that it's so much time in between, that he would lose interest. I know he's busy with these trips so maybe I am overthinking things.

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Why is he asking to visit me for the first time after months of "talking" long distance?

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Is he worth a second date?

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I'm not very active on the online dating scene but I met a guy on cougarlife.com and we hit it off right away. In fact, we were both totally caught off guard by how well we were getting along with similar interests, cultural background and personality traits. We met up within 2 days of connecting online. I was inititally hesitant since being a full-figured woman doesn't always translate into a successful first meeting. I made sure he knew what I looked like before we met so we shared pics (full length ones!) before meeting. Things went great on our 1st meeting and clearly we had a strong connection. He said multiple times that this is just casual, all fun and games...nothing serious etc. and I told him multiple times that I was on the same page! We had an intense makeout session before parting ways for the night. Later that night, we had a long sexually charged conversation and the same the next night. I suggested twice that he come over to my place so we can "hang out" . They were last minute but I felt that's the idea behind this...it's not a proper full-on dating -leading-to-commitment relationship.I knew what I wanted so a couple of days after this, I told him let's meet and have some ground rules for our little fling. Honestly, I was anxious to get things going or not...so we didn't waste our time....And here's the response I got:
" lol thats a long ass message. I felt bad after how we talked the first time we met. I might have gotten a bit drunk to say that stuff. Dont think Im a player :p I dont sleep around with a lot of women. Only some id actually click with . However I do find you a nice person. And I would lole to see you again. As for sex, lets not get into that for now. If it happens later, it happens.
hope you understand. And sorry if you feel I led you on. "

I responded to this saying glad we sorted this out now. He responded saying:
" yes. But dont take it the wrong way. Im not ignoring u or its not that i dont wanna see you at all. It would be nice to see you whenever we can."

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I've recently joined Tinder, and I met a guy I really think I like. He's quite a bit older, which I like, and we've been texting quite a lot. My question is - if he's interested in me from the beginning would he make it obvious straight away, or would he spend time "sussing" me out? He has no problem flirting with me, or asking for pictures, but I hate that our conversation still feels superficial. He doesn't give any personal information, and he doesn't ask, and when I ask he gives me one word answers. Am I reading too much into this or is he 'just not that into me'?

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I met this amazing guy online about a month ago. We clicked pretty well, and soon exchanged numbers. We've been texting non stop since we met online, and even video chatted a few times. On each video chat, he asked when we would be able to meet and where. We decided on the museum and the date was yesterday (we both have a love for museums). We browsed through the museum for like an hour with little conversation (we are both a bit shy, and there's only so much you can talk about there lol). Before I was able to ask to go to lunch or get some coffee together, he got a call from his mom and asked if he could take it. I agreed and he left my side to talk to his mother. After, he returned to me apologizing. He said that his mom wants him home now since he didn't complete his chores (??? He's a 19 year old boy), but he seemed genuine in his apology. He said that he would text me later to set up another date, but he has to go. ---

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He always texts & never calls despite my expressed request that he do otherwise. Is he a degenerate, trying to get a rise out of me, and/or not interested?

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Exchanged a few messages on Tinder, which led to whatsapp and a first date. Now we both know we will be away for Easter...

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