If you had read and been witness to the entire situation. Of your boyfriend texting with your friend. While knowing he knew the entire time that she was at my house visiting with me. If you read the texts saying :
"Don't tell her I'm texting you"

"gonna pay her (me) back the money I owe her. Then I'm done. It's pointless."

Tell me if after reading this with your own eyes. would you believe him when he said after hours of confusion asking him to explain with no response whatsoever... he says:

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I'm feeling calm and anxious. On one hand I want to be cynical, on the other I want to be hopeful. And I am both. A little bit of both. And also really chill. Like okay, I set my cards out, your turn. But what if they crumble around me. What do I do?

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He's driving me crazy not sure what to do?

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This is kinda tricky, I texted, he responed a day later, I responded to him, but he never responded to my response. 3 days later he initiated contact again.. Should I respond knowing that that would give of the vibe that he can just play me around...

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Nothing happened. He confessed he loved me after 10 years and I...

By bettecalhoun | Apr 07 2015

He texts me but I didn't respond. I just wanted to think over everything and we've known each other over 10 years. Now i think I am ready to commit and how should I text him back? How do I explain I just need to think about us for like 3 months.

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Hi,
I have been texting a guy for a week. He hasn't responded. We met 8 years ago in a college which I left and he stayed. We hooked up once six years ago. We lost contact then. I only got his number a week ago. I still feel a duck imprint bond towards him since he was my first. I want us to be friends again, we should only hook up if we are committed. How do I get him to respond and text me. Calling seems scary. Thanks.

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Last night he text me saying "you are so beautiful" I then replied "thanks talking of beautiful girls I bet yours was pleased to see you" talking about his daughter who he gets on weekends. Then I got no reply and this in the morning, I replied and haven't heard from him since....

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What's his deal? Does he like me or what?

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I met a guy on tinder about a month ago. We messaged each other and then exchanged numbers and talked for about a week before meeting. We went out on 2 pretty great dates and continued to text most days. I recently went on vacation with my family for spring break and towards the end of it, he texted me asking to go out when I got back on the weekend. However, when I texted him on Saturday, he never responded. It's been around 3-4 days, which has never happened with us before. I'm super confused especially since he initiated the date. Essentially, I don't know whether to text back or not, or what is even happening for that matter.
Additional info:
1. He's on spring break right now, while I'm in school, but we live in the same city.
2. (Admittedly) I've checked and he hasn't been active on tinder.

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I'm sorry this is so long .

A couple of years ago I met a guy went on a date (where we had quite a bit of chemistry), but I ended up sleeping with him on the first date and we became FWBs. All throughout that time, we would meet up for sex like once a week and he would text me all the time (not anything flirty, dirty or deep) but just everyday conversation. Also, we'd have dinner or catch a movie together and he was always respectful. At the time, I thought nothing about our situation because I always thought we were just FWBs (though we never spoke about what our agreement was) because whenever we were together seemed really withdrawn around me (he wasn't like that on the first date before I slept with him, he was really open back then).

Eventually, he stopped texting and after 2 weeks he sent me a text asking if we could do something other than have sex and I replied that it was cool with me then he didn't reply back. I just figured that he found another FWB who he was more physically attracted to or that he wanted to find a real relationship with a woman who was right for him.

A few months after not speaking to each other, he sent me a message on FB asking me how I was then sent me a friend request. At the time, I had a boyfriend so I just totally ignored all of those messages and declined his friend request. Nearly two years have passed now and I recently sent him a message on FB asking him how he was. He replied quickly and asked for my number but I told him I wasn't comfortable with that because I was still with my boyfriend.

We ended up messaging daily just catching up then he replied, "Maybe you should take me out to coffee one day " which I ignored. Eventually (and all of a sudden) he asked how long me and my boyfriend have been together and I told him. He figured out that I had met my boyfriend a few months after he and I stopped seeing each other and he sent a blushing emoticon with that message. I then asked him about his marital situation (just to catch up) and he said he's single then I replied. He's read the message but now he hasn't replied after a few days when before he was replying back to me within a hour.

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I've met this guy on Tinder. At first we were talking continuously and then I stopped replying him. Then after 2 months, he texted me again saying that he is still interested in meeting me. So I gave him my number. I noticed that he's not really much of a texter at the beginning and that his Whatsapp last seen was not always active.

So on our first date, we clicked very easily and we had a very fun time talking about our future and jobs and about our interests. When he reached for the bill, I didn't offer for my half and he said that the next time will be my treat (?). then after the first date he texted saying how much he enjoyed meeting me. Then the next few days we texted more often (but not everyday) and I noticed that for someone who doesn't like to text he actually start to text a little bit more with me. And then we decided to meet the weekend after our first date but then I cancelled it and say to reschedule but he doesn't reply me. after 6 days of my unrespond text, I texted him again to see if he still interested. Immediately after I said "hi how are you" and he said "oh I've been really busy this past days". Note that I know he is quite busy because everytime I text him he will be at the library preparing for interview and his assignments. And then he said he wanted to see me again. So after 3 weeks of not seeing each other we finally meet on a Wednesday. I think we got more comfortable and we had a laugh. So I offer to pay for the dinner as he paid for the last one. But he insist on paying and said I should pay for the movies instead. But in the end I pay for my own ticket and he paid for his.

At the end of the second date, he asked me what is my plan for the weekend and saying that he might be free. And so I said to him if he is free, then let me know because most of the time he is busier than me. and the weekdays we texted almost everyday and we meet again on that Saturday. I can feel that he begin to touch me and kiss my cheeks (he never did this before) so I assume he started to like me. Oh and for the dinner I offer to pay for my half and he said okay. So after the third date, I texted him saying I had a great time and he said that he regretted not being close with me, which I assume he interested in me. So it's been a week after our 3rd date and u haven't heard from him! I noticed his Whatsapp is somewhat active for someone who doesn't really like to text. But he mentioned to me before that he doesn't like to text.

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i think this guy likes me and he share evreythang to me but he does not text me back even he sees the text and make excuse later when he replies do he really likes me or its just something else?

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Last month, a friend of mine told me he had a tumor. It just casually came up in conversation, but I was still a little surprised he told me, as he doesn't usually talk about things that bother him. He said he was fine, and thanked me when I said he could always come to me if he needed to talk. Then last week, he texted me to tell me he got the results of his MRI back - "the thing grew or whatever." I could tell he was upset (but who wouldn't be) and asked if it was cancerous; he said most likely, and he would need to get more tests done and possibly get surgery as well. He said he was really pissed off. I didn't know what to say. I told him I was sorry and and again offered to be there if he ever wants to talk (we don't live near each other). He didn't respond to that text, but I figured he needed some time. I texted him later to see how he was and he acted like nothing was wrong. I was so surprised and scared when he told me that I'm worried I said the wrong thing and he wishes he hadn't told me.

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Did I ruin the friendship?!

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We both swiped right. We talked for three days straight and discovered that we share a love of tennis and acid jazz. He kept saying again and again that we should hang out right away. I kept saying again that I was going to my dad's cabin for the weekend and we'll hangout when I return but I didn't commit to a solid plan. We chatted a bit. Then he stopped replying. That was Wednesday and I haven't heard from him since. He has been online on Tinder since. It's Sunday evening and I'm heading back to my house tomorrow.

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So this guy doesn't initiate conversation.

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