What should I do when it seems like he has the idea of me being needy?

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His actions are confusing me: he's so hot and so cold! Help!

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Is he getting borded? Is this his way of ending things, because that would really suck.

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I got insecure when he started pulling away and became needy and clingy. He is giving me the silent treatment. I dont blame him and I'm using the time for myself. But I really like him and I just want to know if there is a possibility I can even get him to talk to me again.

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he txted me back after we broke up and i was not not txting for two weeks.. what now

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Ok so this is gonna sound ridiculous but I just need general advice. I've been single for three years and I'm finding it very hard as all my friends are settling down. As soon as I start talking to a guy, I put all my eggs in one basket with them. For example started talking to a guy and we said we would meet up when we are both free - this week- however we used to message non stop now he's stopped and only snapchats. I find it strange and annoying. I tried to start convo on what's app and he replies but takes ages to reply it annoys me so much. I fear I'm wasting my time talking to a guy who has no interest but this is a constant fear with all guys. I hate being so emotionally attached to nothing. Anyone else feel the same? Or can give advice on to stop being so needy?

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Ok so..I've been chatting with this guy, we live in different countries but we know each other for almost 3 years from now, and he's been nothing but my friend ,annyway the past 2-3 months somehow we got closer (i don't know how) he even asked my number. And we talk almost everyday, he does not reply immediately but when he does his message are not two or three words but he completely tells me what he has been doing through the day , he pays attention and compliments me alot! Can anyone please help me or advise me what to do, and how to tell him i feel something about him, without sounding needy. I am really confused, what should I do?

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I have been sitting on my phone trying to text a guy, I am too nervous and don't know what to say so

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Is he really just too busy with his kids...

By beay | Feb 21 2015

Hi,I am a 47year old female,just divorced after years of separation,and I recently met a guy online..he's into the same music as me,which made me very happy,as it's hard to find guys in their 40s who like the stuff I like. We started texting,no strings attached was the initial idea. Then he was the one who said we get on so well, that no strings attached may not be enough. I was quite happy to hear that,so I agreed. He kept texting me at random times during the working day with little sweet things like ''get out of my head I need to work,lol'' or ''hey,are u ok'' Then we met up. On the second date we couldn't keep our hands off each other and had sex. On the third date I went to his house and we did it again. He texted the next day ''thanks for an amazing night''..and since then he only texts me sporadically, and now it has got to the stage where if I don't text first, I probably won't hear from him for days. A bit of background info, he is in the process of divorce,but gets on really well with his ex,which isn't a problem for me as I am the same with my ex. He also has two kids, who he spends almost every weekend with. I want to see him again, but I don't want to be appear needy or clingy. I do text him, and he always responds (eventually)..but I would like to know if it's worth wasting my feelings on this guy. I have asked him to let me know if I get on his nerves or text too much, and he keeps saying Stop worrying, but he doesn't seem to initiate any more dates. I have texted a couple of times ''fancy coming up'' or shall we grab a coffee at the weekend, but he's kinda vague and just says ''I'll have to wait and see what kids arrangements are''.and then he doesn't really mention it again..I am getting a bit too worried,and keep checking my phone, and wind up disappointed...but we are so compatible, or so I thought. What should I do? Does it sound as if he just wanted sex after all? Could it be that he just doesn't think about me that much, but when I text he's happy enough? Is it the old case of He's just not that into me?? I am just so confused, as it was him who said we get on so well..Thank you for your advice, be brutal please.

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So I found out that the guy I'm dating had his ex gf hang with his friends&family at a theme park. He hates her&said she invited herself&didn't want her there so he didn't tell me. I expressed I was upset he didn't tell me then he said we need to talk.

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you dead?

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