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About a year ago me and a fried (male) were hosted for dinner by...

By kittensarecute | Jan 07 2016

If we kiss again when he comes pick me up, will that mean something like we're dating or we're "good" friends or what? I'm confused. I do like him, I haven't really told him anything regarding what I think of him. I get really shy when it comes to a more situation when we're clearly something else than just friends. Do you think he's interested in me in anyway, or he just enjoys the company of a younger girl or all? Should I invite him out sometime or...? I don't really know how to react to this. Thanks.

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I've met this guy on Tinder. At first we were talking continuously and then I stopped replying him. Then after 2 months, he texted me again saying that he is still interested in meeting me. So I gave him my number. I noticed that he's not really much of a texter at the beginning and that his Whatsapp last seen was not always active.

So on our first date, we clicked very easily and we had a very fun time talking about our future and jobs and about our interests. When he reached for the bill, I didn't offer for my half and he said that the next time will be my treat (?). then after the first date he texted saying how much he enjoyed meeting me. Then the next few days we texted more often (but not everyday) and I noticed that for someone who doesn't like to text he actually start to text a little bit more with me. And then we decided to meet the weekend after our first date but then I cancelled it and say to reschedule but he doesn't reply me. after 6 days of my unrespond text, I texted him again to see if he still interested. Immediately after I said "hi how are you" and he said "oh I've been really busy this past days". Note that I know he is quite busy because everytime I text him he will be at the library preparing for interview and his assignments. And then he said he wanted to see me again. So after 3 weeks of not seeing each other we finally meet on a Wednesday. I think we got more comfortable and we had a laugh. So I offer to pay for the dinner as he paid for the last one. But he insist on paying and said I should pay for the movies instead. But in the end I pay for my own ticket and he paid for his.

At the end of the second date, he asked me what is my plan for the weekend and saying that he might be free. And so I said to him if he is free, then let me know because most of the time he is busier than me. and the weekdays we texted almost everyday and we meet again on that Saturday. I can feel that he begin to touch me and kiss my cheeks (he never did this before) so I assume he started to like me. Oh and for the dinner I offer to pay for my half and he said okay. So after the third date, I texted him saying I had a great time and he said that he regretted not being close with me, which I assume he interested in me. So it's been a week after our 3rd date and u haven't heard from him! I noticed his Whatsapp is somewhat active for someone who doesn't really like to text. But he mentioned to me before that he doesn't like to text.

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Have you ever felt that you're just fine with not texting the guy you're interested in and that you're also fine with him not really texting you? Hahaa. I mean at first I was a bit like how we are "why isnt he texting me at least once (because it at least shows that you are interested and trying?..". But afterwards I thought that "it's actually fine because well if he did, then I would probably get tired of texting him and especially with that whole texting ruins communication among people". So I would prefer to talk to him face to face and call him instead. I can say we're doing pretty good for the start. It's been 3 weeks and we have been on 3 dates. I'm pretty much just going with the flow for the first time and wow, it feels pretty nice :)

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So say that the guy says that you should now be the one to plan the next 2nd date, what should I do?

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Should I take any initiative...

By bitterhoney | Feb 14 2015

I already posted a question here:
http://hetexted.com/questions/nbsp-is-he-into-me
Just now the same guy texted:
Happy San Valentine’s evening! I send you 1000 hugs for your evening (hug) (hug) (hug) For me, I am at home alone, enjoying watching a movie keeping warm on this cold rainy night. I hope you are feeling better and I wish you a good evening and weekend (heart)
And I am wondering again....

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I'm 28 years old, I've never been in a relationship,I'm terrified that it's going to stay like this.

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Why do I feel like thia

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What's happening?

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So, this guy recently messaged me on tinder, and we started talking. While conversing, he kept bringing up that we should go on a movie date. So, I said "yeah" since we lived 3 miles away from each other. He stated that he was going out of town for a couple of days, and he wanted to know if I was down to chill after he got back home. I said "yeah, that'll work.... I just got to look at my work schedule". He ends the conversation by saying "Hope to see you sometime, and it seem like we have similar interests". The next couple of days, I tell him what day I am available to hang out. He doesn't bring up any conflict with our schedule, so I think that everything is fine. He even states that "whatever time is good for me, is okay with him". So, the night of the date, I asked him "Where he wants meet up to go to movies". He replies with "Hey, I'm sorry but I just got called into work (blahhhhh). So, I send him a text saying because I feel like he is bull#&^*# me " Are you sure you have to work? Bc I know this is weird but I do want to get to know you". He replies "Yeah I do too!" (DIDN'T ANSWER THE FIRST QUESTION). I reply, "So what should I do to make it more comfortable?" He replies "What do you mean?" I reply "Well, it just seems like you are nervous about meeting me or something" He replies with "Noo, I def want to meet you!!" So, the last text I send him is "So, what do you want to do?" >>>>> He still has not respond to this text

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I have this guy best friend that I do everything with, holding hands when walking, cuddling in cinemas, exploring and adventuring together all that. We do love and care for each other, but he never wanted a relationship with me so I just gave up any romantic feelings I had for him, and we've been best of friends for 2 years now.

So recently I found a boyfriend that I really like, and my best friend started being very clingy and whiny, saying I would leave him all that. Doing couple-ly things with my best friend just feels automatic and right since we've been doing it for so long already, and I know my boyfriend wouldn't be happy even though he accepts the fact that I have a guy best friend and knows we do everything together but doesn't want to sabotage the friendship we have.

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I left my old job and continued speaking with people there and hanging out with them. One guy, who I was more an acquaintance with, said that we should go out to celebrate my new job, on him. I said sure, as I was attracted to him and no longer working there, and we spent about 4 hours at a candlelit bar, and he walked me to the bus. We hugged goodbye and texted when we were home that we both had a good time. Two weeks later (in the midst of the holidays), I asked if he wanted to join me and a friend at a bar, and he couldn't so I said I wanted to see him and to make it happen- he arranged for us to get drinks that Saturday. We spent 5 hours chatting, he didn't want me to take the subway, so he took his taxi to drop me off and then went home from there, easily doubling his taxi fare. Again a hug goodbye. I know I'm someone who comes on strong and have little filter, especially since I'm a girl (a lot of times I take jokes a step too far...) but I was definitely interested in seeing where this went because we clearly got along really well. I asked him to a movie this week (texted him at 8pm last night, he was working until midnight, he responded by text this morning at 8:30) and he replied with:Sorry i was working late then i crashed myself. Bummer but this week is going to be really tough for me i have my sister coming into town and some buddies from home as well. Let me know how it is if you see it!!" I responded with a will do have fun! And then asked how work was.

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guy initiates from tinder...(3 weeks ago, dec 15) we start talking... things start hitting off.. at the beginning he is very keen and he initiates nearly all conversations. this carries on for about a couple of days until one day he decided to visit our family shop because I told him I help my parents out there... we didn't manage to see each other because I was working at the back.. and was in work clothes, anyway he was all cool with that.. we continued to chat... until 2 days later (dec 21)he asked me out for a date which i said yeah that would be great.

he drove me from work to a restaurant...on the way we talked... managed to find that we both enjoy 80's music! then we went to the restaurant to eat.... lovely time.... chatted a lot, he showed me pictures of what he cooks, work, like etc......we had a lot in common... both had same favourite christmas song et,after that we went to the cinema it was fine.. during the cinema he held his hand out as to say hold my hand, i happily took his hand we then started to cuddle in the cinema, when we laughed we lookd at each other alot.it seemed all fine for a date. after all that he took me home but before i left he gave a kiss on the cheek, then went for a long hug... but then after all that he gave me two kisses on the lips and smiled. the date lasted for about 4 hours or so.

ok so after this part i thought.. he seems to like me.. i like him...
i told him in the car.. let me know when you get home yeah? he never did.. in fact i initiated and said hes probably gone home by now and he replied with "yeah im sorry i was washing up!"

anyway i feel that maybe its gone downhill from there, we still chatted quite a bit.. though i noticed gradually that i started to initiate conversations more..especially after dec 27...and we spend some days not talking.. until i said "happy new year!" then id get a reply.... so i took advantage of asking him after then if he was free next couple days... he said he was working one day then said he's not sure. so i replied with well if you're still interested.. let me know yeah? in which he replied "yeah will do ^^" we've not spoken since new years... i know he does get busy and all.. and i know i've probably been a bit too upfront maybe? and on whatsapp he still goes online and what not.. just doesn't initiate anymore.. I feel like a fool

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He texted: Yeah, it sounds good! :)
I texted: Definitely! I really want to see that movie sometime!
He texted: When I got my braces out they have me two movie tickets.
We're pretty close but I didn't want to be reading him wrong so I texted: "Nice! When I got mine off they just gave me lots of toothpaste. I'd much rather have the tickets!"

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Is she over analyzing this or is she right to follow her gut that...

By hopelessromantic294 | Dec 24 2014

So my friend needs advice and I am stumped on what to tell her. She just started dating this guy who seemed to really like her. They met at college as apartment neighbors. He texts her all day every day, when they hang out he doesn't seem to want to leave because he seems to want to spend more time with her, and even pays for their movie and dinner dates. However, last time they hung out, after he didn't seem to text her like he usually does. The conversation was weird she told me. She told me she brushed it off but then this morning he never messaged her either and she found it weird since everyday he always texts her. Finally she messaged him and he was acting all weird again. This was the convo: she said "sorry it just seemed like something was off like last night when we texted later on, this is why texting is bad cause its hard to sense things. I just felt like I maybe came on too strong or something and that freaked u out or something, was never my intention" and he replied "yeaaaaa i mean its okay ive done that before. your fine trust me :) im just so tiredd..." I asked her what she would be coming on too strong about and she said she told him when they were on the date that he was being so sweet and stuff but I don't think that is coming on too strong. After those messages he seemed to be acting weird again and she feels like this guy is not into her anymore.

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