By dancer23 | Apr 20 2015
is it normal for a guy to go two weeks no texting after first date?
By immaunicorn | Apr 14 2015
Is he ignoring me now because I gave it up too easily?
By jq | Mar 30 2015
Is he interested in me or the sex?
By laylali | Mar 28 2015
Is he getting borded? Is this his way of ending things, because that would really suck.
By pominoz | Mar 28 2015
Last night he text me saying "you are so beautiful" I then replied "thanks talking of beautiful girls I bet yours was pleased to see you" talking about his daughter who he gets on weekends. Then I got no reply and this in the morning, I replied and haven't heard from him since....
By dazednconfuzed | Mar 22 2015
hey, what're you up to?
By amaris91 | Mar 18 2015
We've been seeing each other for two weeks. Out of all those days he's usually texted me first (on two occasions, I started the conversation or responded to his text from the night before) and on three days (in the beginning), there were no texts at all.
We seem to get along really well- he's alluded to other things we should do together and there's been a tone of laughing and deep convos too!
We went on three amazing dates (all initiated by him) and, at the last one, we hooked up (made out heaavilyyyyy but nothing below the belt). He texted me when he got home right away- I responded and he replied with a sentence that I didn't need to reply to... so I went to sleep.
That was on Monday evening. It's now Wednesday morning and I haven't heard from him.
By notsosage | Mar 17 2015
So I was seeing this guy. We at the beginning of February in a bar. Things got a bit hott that night but I said I was tired and went home. About a week later we met up and had drinks. Ended up going back to his place. Slept together. Afterwards we texted back and forth. Good convo. Ended up meeting up again for drinks and dinner. Again great convo. Great rapport. Nothing happened that night. Possibly bc I had a girl moment. Told him I dont usually bone on the first date. But obviously there is an attraction there. Didnt want him to think les of me. He seemed to take it well. He left joking and telling me to call him if I needed to talk on the ride home. Again we texted back and forth though now he was taking longer to answer texts. I give him that he is a vey busy guy. He has a 9-5 marketing job and a side job he does hosting parties. So I went to one of the parties he hosts. He invited me to. I got a little tipsy and asked what he was doing after. He said nothing and 'would love my company'. I actuualy had another party to go to but said lets meet up later (his party was a day party). So ten oclock rolls around and I call him for directions to his place. His phone is off. I leave a nice message saying thought we had plans but i guess not. The next day I hear form him via text saying "Sorry, I ended up hanging with friends. Im headed out of town for a few days but lets get together when I get back." I say "cool, have a good trip". He texts me the same day he lands and we arrange to meet up at his place (my suggestion). We hang out converse for a while. Yes we had sex. Its really nice. he set a mood and all that crap. So I leave. He walks me down to my car, sits in it and chats more while it warms up. Again another great evening. Texting again. Now he's still horrible at response times. I say Im going to see the 50 shades movie so you may get a crazy text. He responds "haaa, Im ready for it". I text him after the movie "sooo, when are you free this week bc there are a few things Id like ot try out". He says Im out of town this week. Turns out he did not go out of town. So, we arrange ot meet the following week. But everyday the day before, when i text to confirm (i am a mom and have to get a sitter) he says "sorry, can we push it to this day.." He does that twice in one week so we never meet up. The next time we text, i say he can come over and brunch at my place. Ill cook. He says ok. So we confirm a day for last week Wednesday. On wednesday morning I say, hey Im out to get a much needed massage what time were you thinking of coming by. He says "oh was this to be a day event. I apologize, Im in the office in NJ today." Mind you in the string of texts its vey obvious that was the plan. So i say I am out of town next week (this week ok Im not) he asks what Im doing this weekend (just past) I respond "what are you doing?" He never responds. That was last Wednesday and I have not heard from him since. So my question is...since obivoulsy he went 'ghost'. If he does reappear what should i say? I just want him to know it wasnt cool what he did but in a nice way so he knows he lost a prize.
By ihaveadalmatian | Mar 15 2015
This guy and I used to talk like a year ago, and stopped, but we never hung out. Now he's texting me and we made tentative plans to hang out but I'm weirdly second guessing myself and wondering if I should hang out with him, since nothing worked out last time?
By dostatek | Mar 10 2015
Was he just being nice?
By elle_g | Mar 07 2015
How do I get him to chase me again?
By chbreyes | Mar 05 2015
He texted me: "How about Saturday afternoon and then a casual dinner?" I replied 90mins later:"I just left you a voice message but it cut me off" and than 15mins after that I texted "Leaving work now. I am FREE on Sat. I do not have to go to the Music Hall as I said in my voice message. I am really looking forward to spending time with YOU." this was all at 4:30pm and now 9am next morning still have not heard anything from him
By brendog | Mar 05 2015
Why does he take so long to text back?
By hm4 | Mar 04 2015
By breadsticksandbeans | Feb 08 2015
I met a guy online about two weeks ago and went on two dates with him last weekend. Both dates seemed to go very well: he bought me a few drinks (coffee and beer), we had strong chemistry, deep conversation, some flirty teasing and kissing but no sex.
We texted a ton leading up to the first date and it turned out we have very similar values and life goals, which made both of us pretty excited. He gave me quite a few compliments on my personality and there was a lot of anticipation leading up to our first in-person meeting, the most anticipation I've had over any guy in a long time. Since the dates though, the amount of texting has gone down significantly.
On Monday, he texted me asking for my honest opinion of him after the two dates. I told him I think he's handsome and fun and that we have strong chemistry, then I asked his opinion on me. He said he could tell I was very nervous in the beginning but he liked that I was much more relaxed later, then he asked why I was so nervous. I told him I didn't want to come off too awkward in person and I was worried about that disappointing him.
I haven't heard much from him since then, except for on Wednesday when I texted him just to say hi. He responded pretty quickly but no real conversation came of it. I know he has a super busy schedule during the week though and he mentioned during the dates that his 23rd birthday is this weekend and he has a lot of plans with his friends . When I said on Monday that I'd like to go out again, he just said he won't be available for about two weeks.
By startupwoman | Feb 07 2015
So basically I went on two dates with this guy. The first one was 6 hours long and the second 12. It was a great time we have a lot in common and we have been texting for a while now. Also, we met on coffee meets bagel, a dating application and coincidently he is like a friend of a family friend.
My question is this: he asked me out and now he has to let me know? Isn't that weird? Is this conversation weird? We haven't talked in days after texting everyday.