By marie3 | May 22 2016
Im having trouble with my long distance relationship. I met this man on vacation about 5 months ago. It seemed like we really hit it off and agreed to stay in touch. We would text about every other week. After texting and phone calls for a couple months, we were finally able to meet for a week. He came to meet my friends, and then I went to met his family and I think the whole thing went really well. The week after he left for work overseas for a bit. He sends me photos and we message about every other day. Until last week wen it just stopped. I responded to one of his messages like usual, and I haven't heard back for a week. I know he's pretty busy over there so I don't want to over think it. I do want to message him if I still get no word though, should I wait more first?
By gothicrose22 | Sep 26 2015
How do i know if i'm a guys rebound or not? How do i know if he is serious about wanting to be with me?
By luvli | Jul 12 2015
In a group chat of 5 , the friends tease me and my crush a lot , shipping us together and he doesn't deny or saying anything like "guys it's not like that, I only see her as a friend". Just recently I indirectly confessed so he knows I like him and something he said was "when (my name) confessed before you". He also does cheesy lines like "you're cute" "do you know what sounds good?...you do" He also texts me privately, but lately he just stop. He would say something random to start the conversation then ask me how my day was going or how I was doing. But he suddenly stopped yesterday and it's making me confused. Is he sending me mixed signals?
By vat_2 | Jun 29 2015
So I've been dating this guy, J, for almost 2 months in secret because of his parents not wanting him to date during his study periods. We're deeply in love and yet there is a problem we both face. You see, J lives in the northern part of my country while I lived in the south and soon he'll be continuing his studies in russia whixh means... it'll be a long distance relationship. We've talked about it, on whether we are gonna keep up with this relationship when he's there, and yes... we will. The thing is, I've noticed lately that he has been texting this girl, L, whom happens to be our friend too. And they obviously shared a lot of conversations together, both skyping and texting. I decided to confront him about it by asking if he really does love me, and he said yes he do but he also said his feelings were constantly tested. Like he thinks he likes other girls... more like in a pyscological kinda way. This has really bugged me alot coz I tend to overthink things when my inswcure feelings gets the best of me. We did talk bout it and yes he assured me thag she is only a friend that he likes not love and he doesnt want us to end this relationship. I know that he loves me even though he has doubts himself because with the way he act around me, his body languages, his actions.. it all speaks out in a louder volume. But why can't i shake off this feeling that if we don't make our relationship known, I'll lose him for good?
By rieper | Jun 13 2015
He's from another country and wants me to spend 4 months with him. Why is he so interested in me? What does he want from me? Should I trust him?
By confusedhere1 | Oct 16 2014
I posted here before, but this is more of an update of events that have happened...
By itsmelydia | Oct 13 2014
Okay so here goes.
A few months ago on a quiet Saturday in the office, one of the guys asked me to come sit with him and a few others to play Scattagories (sad, I know, but it was very quiet). A few days later he caught me in the staff room and said he was impressed by my vocabulary and said we'd have to play again soon.
I had no idea he had taken a liking to me so I took no notice until a few weeks later when he added me on facebook (ah the good old fb) and immediately striked a conversation the second I accepted his request. We then spoke solidly for at least two weeks; with him starting the conversation each time. The first week was purely friendly and getting to know each other, and then there was a little bit of flirting (but nothing sexual, mind).
We also began emailing at work. I got flustered if he caught me in the kitchen and he noticed this, saying it was cute that he made me blush.
He was leaving work for uni and we all went for leaving drinks one Friday. He had to leave early for another leaving do elsewhere but called me an hour after he left saying he was going to catch a taxi back to our town because he just wanted to be with me. And when he arrived, he kissed me straight away and said 'Ive been waiting weeks to do that.'
I stayed at his that night and we got up to some things, but we didn't have sex and I didn't put out too much.
We continue to talk every day even though he has gone to Uni; a little less now (he's 3 hours away), and it's often quite sexual. I haven't slept with him yet.
Thing is, he's visitng this weekend and I'm thinking about finally giving it up... but seeing as he's in Uni 3 hours away, I'm not sure if he'll just hit and run??? He's a gorgeous, intelligent guy that I know girls will die for... do you think he's only got eyes for me or would I be putting myself at risk!?
By spades | Oct 01 2014
I met this guy in the summer while I was interning. We clicked immediately and constantly hung out (and obvi hooked up) but it wasn't only sex. We actually spent all our free time together. We acted like we were in a serious relationship even though we weren't. And he told me I was what he wanted in a wife. Before I left I realized that I fell for him. So I told him, he told me that since I was going back to my city... he wasn't sure when we'd see each other again. in other words, after summer our fling would end. After I left, when I texted him he always replies back in an instant. And says he misses me too and all. But it ended up I was always the one to hit him up and there never was a convo going or he didn't reply. We basically stopped talking except when he sends snapchat selfies which used to be like once a day but now its once a week. but one day I told him I was coming up to his city to visit and we should hangout, he told me he'd skip his classes those days to spend time with me. (I proceeded to go crazy the following day and told him I didn't want to see him when I visit because I still liked him, and the following day I told him id want to see him, etc) He's never been the first to text me but he texted me "Hi baby, miss ya" and then snapchatted me a few days later just saying "miss ya" I know I went crazy and texted/snapped him too much in the beginning. but is he just hitting me up so that he'll have someone for those days?
By kattoo | Oct 24 2013
We met in April via mutual Facebook friend we started chatting on PM he gave me his cell phone number first and made all the first moves. There are two major problems I live in CA he lives in TX, the second is a an age gap me being older than him. When he learned about our age difference he said it was not a problem for him. We talked a lot in the beginning he brought up not wanting to be alone and we did all the usual getting to know each other phase. I eventually gave him my phone number and he called when he was not working (two hour time difference) he just moved there and on top of it received a promotion to Supervisor Trainer. He works long hours he has a son he has to pay child support to he seemed to be very open and even asked me to come visit him but it was not in the finances on my end since I was not comfortable staying with him at his place. After a few months of this he started to drift away due to working 14 hour days and telling me he wanted me there but I couldn't at the time. Anyhow long story short he became more distant and things started to go down hill and we communicated less and less. I got very sick and needed surgery and became hyper sensitive to his distance I wrote him an email telling him I did not think he was serious about being with me. He responded that my complaint was exactly what he thought would happen and he said Goodbye and unfriended me. I became crazy girl for a few emails and he asked me to stop texting him we haven't spoken since. I think he met someone closer to his own age and was just playing me until he had someone else to fill the void.